Can you send him a link to my profile as I will gladly take all this money, depends how much money he has right enough but I am thinking he's fulla shit lol x

These financial slaves are almost always fulla shit and want free wank material. Anyone asks me for this and they have to prove themselves first and foremost before we discuss anything by putting money in my bank account, that usually shuts them up. I've yet to find a financial slave who pays lol.

I got a financial domination/blackmail request overnight 

Also this:

Hi, hope you are well. I'm Stewart, 38 etc etc etc.

Bit of a strange request for you. I'm looking for some pictures for you to take of yourself, about 20 or so. Various ones of you with toys, playing and such.

The reason being is that there's a sex website I'm on and looking to make a female profile. Hands up, I know it's not a particularly nice thing to do. It's so I can chat with folk where they would think I'm a woman. The profile would be for up in Scotland so nowhere near you.

As I say I know it's not nice but if you would be of taking some pics could you let me know a price.

Thanks for your time,

Stewart x

Looks to me that he's copied and pasted to many different people, somehow he's had his AW profile nearly 10 years and never picked up any feedback (or notes - till now!).

I got a financial domination/blackmail request overnight 

Also this:

Hi, hope you are well. I'm Stewart, 38 etc etc etc.

Bit of a strange request for you. I'm looking for some pictures for you to take of yourself, about 20 or so. Various ones of you with toys, playing and such.

The reason being is that there's a sex website I'm on and looking to make a female profile. Hands up, I know it's not a particularly nice thing to do. It's so I can chat with folk where they would think I'm a woman. The profile would be for up in Scotland so nowhere near you.

As I say I know it's not nice but if you would be of taking some pics could you let me know a price.

Thanks for your time,

Stewart x

Looks to me that he's copied and pasted to many different people, somehow he's had his AW profile nearly 10 years and never picked up any feedback (or notes - till now!).

So basically he's gay and wants to get his jollies off by speaking to men? Creep! And a prime example as to why I don't give any information out through an email or text.

I had a client yesterday email me for a booking with a brand new profile, no feedback and told me that he couldn't phone me for a booking as he had no punting sim but will get one and wanted my address. I politely, really politely told him that I'd be happy to see him on the day he asked for but I cannot send my address nor take a booking over the internet as persoanlly I need to speak to the person before inviting them into my home to engage in this type of service, I explained that I cannot make a decision as to whether I would want to meet with them or not over an email as I have absolutely no idea who I am speaking to. I told him that I would give him my full address on the morning of the appointment but would happily give him a close by landmark if he phoned me.

He told me that he was a member of [a punting forum] and I was to check him out, I am not a member there so I can't check him out (not that it makes any difference, I still need to speak to them) and he told me that he doesn't have any problems getting an address from other escorts via email and he likes to plan his journey so with that in mind, he will find someone else then he BLOCKED ME!!

My procedure is very clear and very simple. Read and phone me for a booking and sound like your the sort of person I want to be alone with in a room, not too much to ask is it? Apparently so!

I'm aware that many escorts take bookings via email or text and that's up to them but it's not how I do it, I think you can tell a lot about someone's voice. Same as if a client phoned an escort and she sounded like the was off her face or completely flakey then it would probably put him off booking her.

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 17 June 2014, 12:44:02 am

Quote from: Nia Hope on 16 June 2014, 11:42:08 pm

Email sent tonight, titled , Ruin my life.

Hi, I am looking for an escort to ring my wife or even meet her and tell her I am seeing escorts, I have 2 kids and a nice house, I will give you all my money if you do this, I want to end up losing everything and sleeping on the streets. Thanks.

Sick c*#t

It's a genuine fetish which comes under the "financial domination" or "findom" umbrella. He wants you to dominate him to the point of "ruin". This man probably isn't married/has no kids/lives with his mum anyway.

He's probably a freeloader anyway, had you said "sure, I can do that! It will cost you ?100 before I can take this further" you wouldn't have heard from him again. He's most likely getting his kicks from either 1) receiving abusive replies from escorts telling him off, or 2) discussing the 'details' of how these escorts will ruin him.

Yes I am a Domme and find this fetish disturbing, the whole give me all your money for doing fuck all is something I don't get involved in, you're right he probably lives with his mum and lives off the dole!

But findommes don't do fuck all, it's actually very time-consuming and mentally draining. It's not at all as easy as being paid just for being admired/worshipped. Much easier to make money by sucking cock, I've found

I find Hardsports and actual physical harm disturbing, but if it's what gets people off then that's their 'problem'. My line is drawn at harming animals though.


EDIT - oops, just realised I've gone OT

I've had this recently.

He did show up twice (paid appoints) to discuss how he wanted to be financially ruined to the point of bankrupsy and having to take his own life eventually.... He even asked if I'd assist in this! 

Arranged for his weekly appointments to commence by him paying up front, and yep I haven't heard from him 

They get off on just talking about it in my opinion.

"Looking for an outcall on fri. For 2 or 3 hours. If you're interested then let me know"
"I'm a nice lad who just wants some clean fun, is there anything you like doing or anything you don't do? Also I'd pay a little extra for a photo upfront so I know what to expect"

I tell him my likes are on profile and no I don't give out photos but link him to past feedback on old account (lots of it saying I have a pretty face).

"Ok, we'll mail me your number and I'll phone or text you about 6 when I finish work and give you my address? Hope to see you then"

I ask him to fill in booking request as I need his address and phone number in advance.

And surprise surprise, he sends me this:
"Sorry don't think I can without a face pic. Someone tried to do this before and they were like in their 40's. Can't be bothered with that hassle again! Hope you understand x"

So basically he was happy to get my number so he could summon me when he felt like it on friday without seeing face pics, but when I wanted to get his details and arrange the booking before giving out my number suddenly he needs a face pic.

"Looking for an outcall on fri. For 2 or 3 hours. If you're interested then let me know"
"I'm a nice lad who just wants some clean fun, is there anything you like doing or anything you don't do? Also I'd pay a little extra for a photo upfront so I know what to expect"

I tell him my likes are on profile and no I don't give out photos but link him to past feedback on old account (lots of it saying I have a pretty face).

"Ok, we'll mail me your number and I'll phone or text you about 6 when I finish work and give you my address? Hope to see you then"

I ask him to fill in booking request as I need his address and phone number in advance.

And surprise surprise, he sends me this:
"Sorry don't think I can without a face pic. Someone tried to do this before and they were like in their 40's. Can't be bothered with that hassle again! Hope you understand x"

So basically he was happy to get my number so he could summon me when he felt like it on friday without seeing face pics, but when I wanted to get his details and arrange the booking before giving out my number suddenly he needs a face pic.

I always tell these twats to contact a girl who shows her face then, not rocket science is it? Again, I wonder which discrete girl out there who doesn't show her face would actually do this? The picture could and no doubt would end up absolutely anywhere! Aaahhh I have no time for these guys that can't look at a profile and accept what's on it without pushing boundaries when there are a million other profiles they could choose to see.