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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5370 on: 26 March 2014, 09:47:26 pm »
The difference between text and a phonecall is you can tell alot more about someone by how they speak to you.Also you have a better chance of knowing if it is actually a client and not a kid messing about.
If you publish your number people can text you just the same as ringing you,not sure what you mean by is it free?Some ladies only give out a number once they have been emailed,some publish their number as a matter of course.Myself I won't accept text or email bookings from people I don't know,at some point I will want a quick chat on the phone,it also gets rid of a fair few timewasters/text pests.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5371 on: 26 March 2014, 09:53:39 pm »
Thanks,

Think I was getting confused with phone chat.
I can imagine I'd get a lot more timewasters over the phone
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5372 on: 26 March 2014, 10:00:15 pm »
We all get timewasters whether its via the phone or via text or via email.The difference is its quicker to tell on the phone i think and easier to log them as a knob.Alot of clients prefer to be able to ring quickly to book rather than wait for emails but each lady finds her own way of working.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5373 on: 27 March 2014, 12:00:49 am »
At least booking through emails you can see their profiles, their feedback their alises can get them to send a photo and if i turned up and it wasnt them I'd go home annoyed lol.

Firstly, you're conflating 'emails' with 'Adultwork'. I take most bookings by email, but they come via my site and other ads and not AW so there's no 'feedback' and no 'profile' to see. This puts me in no better/worse position, because Adultwork feedback/profiles don't tell me anything useful and it's important to remember that ALL new punters are random people, because you don't know them :).

If you're thinking of trying to get punters to send a photo of themselves, I'd advise you don't - I can't imagine anybody would agree to it as punting isn't dating, and you don't have any good reason to know what they look like? Part of the point is anonymity, and that's some of what they're paying for.

I know its not foolproof but must be better than a random person over the phone???
Also what's the difference between text and call other than you can tell if they are male or female

It depends on how you work - I don't think phone calls are necessarily any better for reading people than texts or emails, and a lot of people come over badly on the phone (me included, and I avoid using it at all costs bar for confirmations unless I'm working somewhere that means a lot of short notice appointments). The useful part is basically the bit you've figured out above (and I'd add being able to tell it isn't a child messing about, too).

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5374 on: 27 March 2014, 10:26:57 am »
Just had a pure creep phone me, he was young and goes by the name of Omar I think.......

Me: Hello

Him: Can I see you tonight?

Me: No sorry it's a bit late to be organising a booking and I require plenty of notice for a booking sorry but I am available tomorrow?

Him: It's tonight I want?

Me: Sorry I can't see you tonight!

Then he texts.........

Him: I was really looking for tonight?

Me: Yeah that's 3 times you've told me you were looking for tonight, I am not available!

Him: Don't worry I will shag you one of these days!

Me: Nice.

Him: You better be worth the wait!!

Me: I do not want to meet you, I do not like your attitude.....it's creepy, arrogant and a major turn off. I offer limited services, going by your better be worth the wait comment.....I doubt you've read my profile and I am selective about who I see so please don't call or text again!

Him: Perfect I love a prossy with morals. I will fuck you (call you from a different number) then I shall text you from this number once I am finished so you know it's me.

What a twat!

But this is why you should probably be a little more bland and less combative. One of these days you really are going to piss off a nutter who will do exactly what he's threatening.


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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5375 on: 27 March 2014, 10:30:16 am »
The last few days for the real oddballs has been a nightmare for me, struggling to keep myself motivated and happy with these bastards. I need to see a good regular to remind me not all clients are bad with the way I am feeling right now  :( x

Yeah! I'm getting calls and emails from guys asking for domination stuff when I say on my profile that I don't do it. I do offer a playful tie-and-tease so I sort of forgive them for being confused... but I don't have "BDSM" or "Face Sitting" or "Watersports" checked and they're asking for those sort of things.

I had a guy email asking for a session with "mild domination" and I didn't answer primarily because the whole email was stilted and formal and had kvetching about his marriage in it and then he whinged that I hadn't replied so I did to say "I'm sorry I didn't reply. That sort of session doesn't appeal to me" and he wrote back a LOOOOONG email rebutting me. For fuck's sake - take "no" for an answer!

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5376 on: 27 March 2014, 11:06:25 am »
But this is why you should probably be a little more bland and less combative. One of these days you really are going to piss off a nutter who will do exactly what he's threatening.

+1

I never get involved is those kinds of dialogues. When the alarm bells sound the last thing you should do is tell them why you are not available.

I never accept new bookings unless I have heard the guys voice on the phone either.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5377 on: 27 March 2014, 11:09:11 am »
Getting wound up with blokes that seem shocked when they ring and give me 10 mins notice and I can't see them.
Last night I got an email at around 2am from a genuine sounding bloke wanting to see me before his train at 11:15am.I replied this was possible but he would need to confirm a time pretty soon as I was on my way to bed. 15 mins later he said he could not commit to a time...given I start at 10am and he was going for a train at 11;15 it gave him an hours window to book,surely he would have known within 30 mins of that time slot?
Anyway at 10:20 he rang to say he was in the centre and could I see him...er no...then a text from a regular wanting a booking within 15 mins.Just feeling stressed at the minute and like every guy seems to think I sit around waiting for them to confirm or I sit in my lingerie just waiting for their particular call. The ones that make me laugh are the ones that say 'Oh I'll try elsewhere then'.You just know they are going to spend that 10 mins ringing around a few other girls so why they just don;t book you and give you a few extra mins to get ready for them is beyond me.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5378 on: 27 March 2014, 11:50:31 am »
Just had a pure creep phone me, he was young and goes by the name of Omar I think.......

Me: Hello

Him: Can I see you tonight?

Me: No sorry it's a bit late to be organising a booking and I require plenty of notice for a booking sorry but I am available tomorrow?

Him: It's tonight I want?

Me: Sorry I can't see you tonight!

Then he texts.........

Him: I was really looking for tonight?

Me: Yeah that's 3 times you've told me you were looking for tonight, I am not available!

Him: Don't worry I will shag you one of these days!

Me: Nice.

Him: You better be worth the wait!!

Me: I do not want to meet you, I do not like your attitude.....it's creepy, arrogant and a major turn off. I offer limited services, going by your better be worth the wait comment.....I doubt you've read my profile and I am selective about who I see so please don't call or text again!

Him: Perfect I love a prossy with morals. I will fuck you (call you from a different number) then I shall text you from this number once I am finished so you know it's me.

What a twat!

But this is why you should probably be a little more bland and less combative. One of these days you really are going to piss off a nutter who will do exactly what he's threatening.

I agree, your 100% right. I won't be giving anyone a reason why I don't want to see them again, think I just react sometimes cause I think to myself who the fuck do thy think they are saying they will shag me one of these days and I better be worth the wait?? Do they think that's turning me on? Really? No he's a creep, it's as if I think to myself that telling them they are a creep that maybe they will sort themselves out. If I was a guy, being called a creep would be the worst thing ever, who wants to be known as a creep? But have realised these people are just bad people and they don't care they are bad no matter what your call them x

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5379 on: 27 March 2014, 11:56:40 am »
But this is why you should probably be a little more bland and less combative. One of these days you really are going to piss off a nutter who will do exactly what he's threatening.

+1

I never get involved is those kinds of dialogues. When the alarm bells sound the last thing you should do is tell them why you are not available.

I never accept new bookings unless I have heard the guys voice on the phone either.

I did speak to the guy and told him 3 times that I wasn't available as he was wanting a last minute appointment at about 9 at nite or something. His voice sounded ok, that's why I said I could see him tomorrow but he suddenly started sending me these stupid texts after I got off the phone.

With the amount of weirdos I get each day on the phone, I don't tell them all why I won't see them......just the odd guy who is really getting on my nerves but I agree that I definitely just need to try and avoid telling any of them why I won't see them and just ignore them instead.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5380 on: 27 March 2014, 11:57:52 am »

I agree, your 100% right. I won't be giving anyone a reason why I don't want to see them again, think I just react sometimes cause I think to myself who the fuck do thy think they are saying they will shag me one of these days and I better be worth the wait?? Do they think that's turning me on? Really? No he's a creep, it's as if I think to myself that telling them they are a creep that maybe they will sort themselves out. If I was a guy, being called a creep would be the worst thing ever, who wants to be known as a creep? But have realised these people are just bad people and they don't care they are bad no matter what your call them x

Sometimes I'm just about to start typing and remind myself "I'm not getting paid to do this."

I've got an email from a creepo in my inbox - one who gets butthurt if you don't reply - and I'm going to have to come up with something very bland to say. Generally, I'd just ignore it altogether. I'll reply this one time and if he replies then I won't bother again.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5381 on: 27 March 2014, 12:01:13 pm »

I agree, your 100% right. I won't be giving anyone a reason why I don't want to see them again, think I just react sometimes cause I think to myself who the fuck do thy think they are saying they will shag me one of these days and I better be worth the wait?? Do they think that's turning me on? Really? No he's a creep, it's as if I think to myself that telling them they are a creep that maybe they will sort themselves out. If I was a guy, being called a creep would be the worst thing ever, who wants to be known as a creep? But have realised these people are just bad people and they don't care they are bad no matter what your call them x


Sometimes I'm just about to start typing and remind myself "I'm not getting paid to do this."

I've got an email from a creepo in my inbox - one who gets butthurt if you don't reply - and I'm going to have to come up with something very bland to say. Generally, I'd just ignore it altogether. I'll reply this one time and if he replies then I won't bother again.

Couldn't you just block him? x

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5382 on: 27 March 2014, 12:05:03 pm »

I agree, your 100% right. I won't be giving anyone a reason why I don't want to see them again, think I just react sometimes cause I think to myself who the fuck do thy think they are saying they will shag me one of these days and I better be worth the wait?? Do they think that's turning me on? Really? No he's a creep, it's as if I think to myself that telling them they are a creep that maybe they will sort themselves out. If I was a guy, being called a creep would be the worst thing ever, who wants to be known as a creep? But have realised these people are just bad people and they don't care they are bad no matter what your call them x


Sometimes I'm just about to start typing and remind myself "I'm not getting paid to do this."

I've got an email from a creepo in my inbox - one who gets butthurt if you don't reply - and I'm going to have to come up with something very bland to say. Generally, I'd just ignore it altogether. I'll reply this one time and if he replies then I won't bother again.

Couldn't you just block him? x

I could. It's just as easy to simply not reply. I'm not bothered by seeing their messages. But he's being very polite - he's just emotionally needy and weird. I'm willing to give one last polite brush-off and after that I'm done.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5383 on: 27 March 2014, 12:23:47 pm »
It's one of those days.Had a guy book for 12 for a 15 min quickie and at 12:05 I had to ring to ask if he was on his way...'Oh yeah I'm 5 mins away' so why am I having to ring you to find out you are going to be 10 mins late?

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #5384 on: 27 March 2014, 01:09:17 pm »
It's one of those days.Had a guy book for 12 for a 15 min quickie and at 12:05 I had to ring to ask if he was on his way...'Oh yeah I'm 5 mins away' so why am I having to ring you to find out you are going to be 10 mins late?

This is why I don't offer quickies anymore. I'd be thrilled to do them if they'd be very prompt and easy to schedule but I find they eat up as much of my day as 30-minute bookings. And 12 noon is Prime Time!