So I've had an e-mail which said "hi Holly fancy a 1 hour outcall tonight" from a user with 18 feedback, hidden. 2 aliases and whaddya know, it's red - the other account was deleted in December.
My profile states I only see regulars after 6pm anyway.
So I have another look at the hidden feedback and we've got '29 ratings - 18 positive, 2 neutral, 0 negative, 9 disputes' which we all know means he's had 9 negative feedback and has just responded to them all.
Me: No thank you.
Him: busy?
Me: No, just don't want to meet someone who tries to hide the fact that he's got 9 negative feedback.
I take my safety and security seriously and would never meet anyone if they had that amount of negative feedback.
Him: lol seriously your a prostitute lol I suggest you go read my profile 7 years not fake and meet plenty of members
lol security laughing at that especially the living you do wait till I tell the lad's this one lol
Well, after that message there's no way I want to be alone in a room with him. I don't want to get into any further correspondence with this nasty guy so I don't reply but less than two minutes later I get, "Oh btw it's not negative ha ha just fake eastern European scam people for the record and profile was hacked"
Uh, is that supposed to change my mind? Without replying I look at his profile and... Whoa there boy! Big nasty rant about escorts, particularly foreign girls. Which is another concern - would he be likely to get even nastier with me if he realised that I'm a foreign born citizen?
"MY PROFILE HAS STAYED THE SAME SINCE I HAVE JOINED THIS SITE, I COULD EASILY CREATE A NEW PROFILE IF I WERE A FAKE PROFILE BUT I AM NOT - THIS SHOWS MY COMMITMENT TO KEEPING MY PROFILE THE WAY IT IS" From his profile - funny how he has aliases then.
Not blocking him - I want to keep his mails so I can take screen shots in case he follows through his threat to bad mouth me. I've tried to work hard to build up a good reputation in my city and I won't let this guy ruin it. As far as I see it, it's my prerogative to turn down someone if I don't feel safe meeting them. Damn good job I keep my availability diary closed off!
I'm actually disappointed in myself for reading that profile as it is really quite vile. I'm off to find some eye bleach.
Lovely man

Edit: Found eye bleach; feel a billion times better after that unpleasantness - http:// i.imgur.com/istyEnq.jpg
