Kylie, do you know the guy in question? If not then how can you say he has the mentality of a 15 year old? How do you know that 90% of young relationships don't last? Where is your evidence for this?

And as for your final question, Secret call girl isn't trying to have a long lasting relationship and carry on leading a double life.....that's what this post is all about.

But she didn't ask for advice as to whether she should leave her boyfriend.....she asked for advice on how to leave escorting!

I HAVENT at any point asked for any relationship advice or asked anyone's opinion on my boyfriends age, I asked how to escape from escorting.

You cant help who you fall in love with and I don't need to explain myself or my reasons for being with someone younger than me. End of.

Kylie, she's right. Pack it in.

The OP has been clear what she wants advice about more than once, she's entitled to a moan without being picked apart and if members can't stay on topic then they need to be posting on other threads where they can. What teenagers are like as boyfriends is not the subject of this thread nor is it an appropriate topic for the forum at all, so no further discussion of it please.

I'm in a absolute fine mood thankyou. I just did not think my opinion would cause so much offence or that I couldn't make comments on things that had been said. I read and thought I replied appropriately obviously not, but I didn't think there was certain things I was not allowed to say.

I just say what I believe to be the truth and believe it or not was trying to give advice. I just do it in a differnt way to others. Like Amy said I just won't post on threads in future if it's going to cause offence.

 i think what Kylie was trying to say is exactly what i said earlier is that most 18 year old boys ( and i have one ) are a lot younger in comparison to a 18 years old girl  girls are often a  lot more mature at that age

So an 18 year old boy is more likely to be immature and young  ( not always  but often - i think i put age of about 13   )
but he dose in fairness have a job and is working so he cant be all that bad,   however as someone said if you do moan about him on boards about how crap he is with money and that he bosses you about then you can expect to get replies that will cover that even if it not what you wanted help about   

and most relationships dont last not just young one but most thats why there is so many divorces and single parents out there because life hard and people dont stick at things any longer   
and to be fair you are  asking about relationship advice because from what i read if you didnt have problems with your boyfriend and wernt  having a baby then you wouldnt be leaving escorting   

and i also think that Kylie  is right in that if your expeciting  an 18 year old boy to look after you then i would have some contingency plans in place at 18 years of age most kids can just about look after themselves let alone a partner and a baby
    At 18 you and him should be going out and enjoying yourself partying holiday and having a good time not worried about babies and bills

   If my son came home and said his girlfriend was pregnant i would go f...... mental because at 18 i think he is still a kid just starting out in life and  with the rest of his life in front of him  he only just learning to drive and i would be so f..... angry and dissapointed that  in my eyes he has f,,,,, up the 18 years of his life, harsh but that just my views as a mother 
   I would also be furious that all the  bloody money i have spent over the past  15 years on private education for him is basically wasted as even if he did get a good job he would most likely be screwed for the next 18 years for child support  should they split up
 (im not saying that father shouldnt have to pay and support there kids but they way its done at the moment  is not really fair  ) 

 

From what I can work out SCg you are very confused.  As you know you cannot have a baby, keep a relationship and keep lying about your work.  It will never work. 
If you want to leave escorting then just do it.  Go to speak to the benefits agency and they will tell you what money you can expect to get.  I have not read every reply as I am on my Iphone but if you and your partner do not live together you will get around ?140 a week working tax credit once child is born plus ?20 child benefit but you will have to pay the majority of your rent and council tax.  If you do not work you will get around ?90 but will only have to pay a minimum payment on rent and council tax.

No one can tell you how to quit.  If you want to, you just stop working.  It is really that simple. 

A lie gets bigger and bigger everyday and if he found out he would be gone and you would be left alone with a new baby.  You either have to tell him or stop working.  You will struggle financially but you will learn to live on less.  It wont be easy to start with but if you love your partner you really do not have much choice