Just to blow this up, the armed robber had partner and small child. Even wrote a letter in prison telling me he was missing his son growing up. I agreed to see the letter it wasn't sent externally. I still remember a very long term regular, older client, very afraid lest anyone see him, constantly paranoid physically hurt me on his last booking. Then realising he'd done so spent a lot of time apologising (into over run), then was very indiscrete in the street after leaving.

Had a similar but different incident with another older, married, afraid people would find out.... In public totally indiscrete. Lots of younger single clients have been absolutely brilliant re discretion, as have many married of any age.