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Author Topic: Does anyone get off more if they know the client is married? Or the opposite?  (Read 9059 times)

Kescort

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I bizarrely find it a big turn on if the client reveals he is attached. Does anyone else feel the same? Or is it a don't care or the opposite, it turns you off?

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I don’t care either way .  ???

Kescort

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I don’t care either way .  ???

Neither do I aslong as he pays, it does add a bit of naughty excitement to the booking though. I probably won't feel like this once the next round of burnout due kicks in  ;D

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No I don’t find it a turn on knowing that he is cheating on his partner, imo that’s quite horrible to feel like that, men cheat on all sorts of women and I’ve been cheated on, as we all have and it’s not nice, we aren’t special because men pay us, most men would shag any woman that was allowing them too, I feel sorry for the women in all honesty, it doesn’t make us better than their women.

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I don't know I get off more, but one nice perk of this job is being able to shag very attractive men without guilt or caring about their relationship status. I have a few favorite regulars who I've known longer than they've known their wives. 

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What turns me on is big spenders especially if they give me more than my asking price.  Those guys are in for a good time with me 😆

Snow Whitest

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Hmm I don't get off regardless, am I doing something wrong  ;D
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Makes no difference to me, and most of the time I don't even know – I certainly never ask.
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Kescort

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No I don’t find it a turn on knowing that he is cheating on his partner, imo that’s quite horrible to feel like that, men cheat on all sorts of women and I’ve been cheated on, as we all have and it’s not nice, we aren’t special because men pay us, most men would shag any woman that was allowing them too, I feel sorry for the women in all honesty, it doesn’t make us better than their women.

Sounds like it's the opposite for you and you actually find it off putting especially if your feelings extend to feeling sorry for their wives.

Kescort

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I don't know I get off more, but one nice perk of this job is being able to shag very attractive men without guilt or caring about their relationship status. I have a few favorite regulars who I've known longer than they've known their wives.

So these dudes have been seeing you even throughout the courtship and engagement?  ::) ;D

TantricTease

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Sounds like it's the opposite for you and you actually find it off putting especially if your feelings extend to feeling sorry for their wives.
Don’t get me wrong, obviously I don’t feel that bad or I wouldn’t be an escort but I certainly don’t get off on men cheating with me, I just think that’s a little off, I get why you feel this way but I actually feel sorry for some of the women, don’t get me wrong you never really know what goes on in people’s marriages but I had a client with a pregnant partner a few weeks ago and he told me about it, and I was cheated on when pregnant and it’s the worst thing in the world, what a selfish cunt I thought, and with some of the techniques that the men use then I do feel sorry for their partners that have to put up with such bad sex.

Men seem to take sex more serious than women but let’s face it, the majority of men are crap in bed, I actually thank clients for making me orgasm, how bad is that that I thank them, good male shags are hard to come by.  No wonder some of these women won’t sleep with their men!🤣

lillybliss

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I have the exact same opinion as Tantric tease, I won't say anymore ???.

Kescort

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Hmm I don't get off regardless, am I doing something wrong  ;D

What, never? Obviously there's days and clients where you just arnt going to get off no matter what, but I get off in work quite often especially if the client is like the hot nice young black guy I had the other week. I regularly orgasm with clients aswell. I can't imagine doing the job and never getting off or enjoying it..I wouldn't like it at all

Maz

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I do get satisfaction (not sexually), but that is because of experiences in my personal life (and escorting) that have now made me a massive cynic when it comes to marriage and relationships. Although I would never get off if it was someone from my personal life, unless it was someone I hated.

I just do not give a shit and thankfully I'm not likely to ever be on the receiving end. Also as I have said in a previous post, I don't think anyone can pass comment nor judgement too much when we make a living off these men.
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Kescort

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Don’t get me wrong, obviously I don’t feel that bad or I wouldn’t be an escort but I certainly don’t get off on men cheating with me, I just think that’s a little off, I get why you feel this way but I actually feel sorry for some of the women, don’t get me wrong you never really know what goes on in people’s marriages but I had a client with a pregnant partner a few weeks ago and he told me about it, and I was cheated on when pregnant and it’s the worst thing in the world, what a selfish cunt I thought, and with some of the techniques that the men use then I do feel sorry for their partners that have to put up with such bad sex.

Men seem to take sex more serious than women but let’s face it, the majority of men are crap in bed, I actually thank clients for making me orgasm, how bad is that that I thank them, good male shags are hard to come by.  No wonder some of these women won’t sleep with their men!🤣

I have to agree that good male shags are quite hard to come by which is why some clients you are never going to enjoy the booking lol. Also on 'off days' where you just can't be bothered lol.

Yes I once had a guy on the phone ask me if I was clean because his fiance was pregnant, I didn't see the guy but that was mostly because he sounded cold and detached on top of it all.