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Kendra Glasgow

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DFK?
« on: 01 December 2015, 06:03:26 pm »
I've wondered about this for ages......

I love to kiss, I think when having sex with someone and not kissing them it's so awkward and unnatural however I hate those who come in and literally eat your face or try to scoop out your tonsils with their tongue.

Is scooping your tonsils out and eating your face off DFK?

Or is DFK just willingly and passionately kissing? I am the latter though I'm neither if someone has bad breath, strong smokers breath, foaming at the mouth or if their own kissing technique is devouring my face and throat. I've even had clients stick their tongues in my nostrils.

I do tend to pull back a bit if someone kisses me like that, not only does it gross me out but it makes me feel like I'm being suffocated.

Does anyone else feel like that? Does anyone know what a punters definition of DFK is?

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #1 on: 01 December 2015, 06:13:20 pm »
My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.

It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x
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« Reply #2 on: 01 December 2015, 06:38:29 pm »
My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.

It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x

Yeah your idea of DFK is the same as mine but some people take it too far.

It's like asking someone what the definition of GFE is, that's such a grey area too as everyone has different ideas of what they mean.

I market myself as GFE because I am the complete opposite ends of the spectrum from PSE but I've had a few guys think that bareback, CIM, swallow etc is part of GFE cause that's what your real life girlfriend would do.

I suppose no matter what service you offer, there's always someone who wants to take it too far. Deep throat is a perfect example......when giving oral, I'm happy to go all the way down on it (after all that's where the sloppiness comes from) but I don't have deep throat ticked on my profile because there will always be someone who thinks he can come in and fuck my throat to the point of actually chocking on it (which I don't mind a turn on in any way, shape or form) or to the point where your actually vomiting!

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #3 on: 01 December 2015, 06:42:22 pm »
I can't say that I like kissing in general but can't say that I do not like it either. However, I prefer French kissing with both clients and the bf as DFK is not my thing.Most of my clients FK anyway but had one or two that literally shoved their tongue down my throat and it made me gag. I suppose that's what deep french kissing is and I do not do that. It is not even an option on AW the only option is french kissing so when clients come to DFK and I pull away and then they bash me for it. In my head i'm thinking, (1)its not listed on my enjoys list and (2) you should have asked if DFK was ok before you decided to be rude and strangle me with your slimey nasty tongue.  :'(  I don't like kissing clients anyway, but in my personal life it's nothing special unless i'm really into the guy. I never thought a man that saw a prostitute would want to kiss her anyway fuck I wouldn't but each to their own. Anyways, DFK is shoving their whole tongue down your throat (till you eventually vomit and they swallow it) just kidding!! where as fk is mostly the tip.

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #4 on: 01 December 2015, 06:42:36 pm »
There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."

I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #5 on: 01 December 2015, 06:44:17 pm »
There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."

I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.
You're right, I worked in parlours in the early 90s and it was very different.
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Re: DFK?
« Reply #6 on: 01 December 2015, 06:44:37 pm »
I think the emphasis on DEEP FK is bizarre. I think normal people just touch tongues a bit, perhaps in the heat of the moment going further. Beyond that is just weird and annoying and no, I'm not obligated to do that. If someone is a terrible kisser I may try to correct them or I may try to avoid it. (Going down for BJ helps. Swinging around into 69 can distract them.)

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #7 on: 01 December 2015, 06:52:34 pm »
My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.

It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x

Yeah your idea of DFK is the same as mine but some people take it too far.

It's like asking someone what the definition of GFE is, that's such a grey area too as everyone has different ideas of what they mean.

I market myself as GFE because I am the complete opposite ends of the spectrum from PSE but I've had a few guys think that bareback, CIM, swallow etc is part of GFE cause that's what your real life girlfriend would do.

I suppose no matter what service you offer, there's always someone who wants to take it too far. Deep throat is a perfect example......when giving oral, I'm happy to go all the way down on it (after all that's where the sloppiness comes from) but I don't have deep throat ticked on my profile because there will always be someone who thinks he can come in and fuck my throat to the point of actually chocking on it (which I don't mind a turn on in any way, shape or form) or to the point where your actually vomiting!

oh my gosh reminds me of one client I had who loves deep throat. I had just eaten before he came as i was soo hungry and whilst deep throating him literally all my food came out on his dick and ofcourse he enjoyed that.  ::) Needless to say, every booking after that consisted of Deepthroat. I eventually got sick of his obsession with oral and couldn't hide that fact. Don't think he will be booking me again lol. But hey, what else did he expect? Asking someone to perform an hour and a half of oral is just ridiculous. Gosh, I just want vanilla guys. My profile isn't even that explicit, that includes pictures and wording so no idea why I have callers asking for sloppy wet deepthroat and PSE when it is not something I portray in my profile.  ??? Call me lazy (I am) but prostitution should be easy, or so I thought. Boy was I wrong.

Kendra Glasgow

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #8 on: 01 December 2015, 06:57:32 pm »
But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves, you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?

As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.

I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
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Re: DFK?
« Reply #9 on: 01 December 2015, 07:02:36 pm »
But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves (you know where), you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?

As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.

I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
You know who should enjoy their"Punts" more instead of looking for petty faults that they can bitch about after x
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Kendra Glasgow

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #10 on: 01 December 2015, 07:02:56 pm »
My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.

It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x

Yeah your idea of DFK is the same as mine but some people take it too far.

It's like asking someone what the definition of GFE is, that's such a grey area too as everyone has different ideas of what they mean.

I market myself as GFE because I am the complete opposite ends of the spectrum from PSE but I've had a few guys think that bareback, CIM, swallow etc is part of GFE cause that's what your real life girlfriend would do.

I suppose no matter what service you offer, there's always someone who wants to take it too far. Deep throat is a perfect example......when giving oral, I'm happy to go all the way down on it (after all that's where the sloppiness comes from) but I don't have deep throat ticked on my profile because there will always be someone who thinks he can come in and fuck my throat to the point of actually chocking on it (which I don't mind a turn on in any way, shape or form) or to the point where your actually vomiting!

oh my gosh reminds me of one client I had who loves deep throat. I had just eaten before he came as i was soo hungry and whilst deep throating him literally all my food came out on his dick and ofcourse he enjoyed that.  ::) Needless to say, every booking after that consisted of Deepthroat. I eventually got sick of his obsession with oral and couldn't hide that fact. Don't think he will be booking me again lol. But hey, what else did he expect? Asking someone to perform an hour and a half of oral is just ridiculous. Gosh, I just want vanilla guys. My profile isn't even that explicit, that includes pictures and wording so no idea why I have callers asking for sloppy wet deepthroat and PSE when it is not something I portray in my profile.  ??? Call me lazy (I am) but prostitution should be easy, or so I thought. Boy was I wrong.

Porn is to blame for all of these things x

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #11 on: 01 December 2015, 07:08:15 pm »
But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves (you know where), you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?

As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.

I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
You know who should enjoy their"Punts" more instead of looking for petty faults that they can bitch about after x

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #12 on: 01 December 2015, 07:12:39 pm »
This is my interpretation...

FK = French Kissing = open-mouth kissing with some tongue action

DFK = Deep French Kissing = open-mouth kissing as deep, slurpy, porno and passionate as you can without breaking something


That's been MY experience. I enjoy a bit of FK, but DFK is so slobbery that I have to limit it to my private life.

Kendra Glasgow

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« Reply #13 on: 01 December 2015, 07:17:06 pm »
But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves (you know where), you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?

As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.

I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
You know who should enjoy their"Punts" more instead of looking for petty faults that they can bitch about after x

That's the problem, unfortunately so many of them seem to have lost their way and forgotten that seeing an escort is suppose to be fun. Unfortunately with the nature of the business and the fact 2 complete strangers are meeting for the first time, it doesn't always go to plan......that's why it's called punting just the same as betting in the casino, sometimes you win and other times you loose but you shouldn't go to a casino in the first place unless your prepared to loose the money you originally had to bet on. As long as the girl is respectful, decent and not luring them in under false pretences with services advertised that she has no intention on providing in person etc or operating some sort of scam.....there is no need to resent the rest of us as much as they do and put us down in order to compensate for the ?100+ they just blew. I feel that as soon as the jizzim leaves their balls....some utterly resent the money the just spent. They could easily write their reviews by saying "she wasn't my type" but instead they take to humiliating personal insults and fabricate faults that aren't actually there, I had someone complain recently saying there were 3 buzzer systems to get into my building (there are two but they always blow things out of proportion) so I guess he would have preferred the door was lying wide open with everyone and everything lying around rather than a good secure building.

Thank gosh though there are a far greater amount of our clients out there who do genuinely enjoy the treat they give themselves by coming to see us and actually respect us as people. It's those guys who make me happy in my job and able to carry on.

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Re: DFK?
« Reply #14 on: 01 December 2015, 07:21:27 pm »
There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."

I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.

What happened to those days? What's changed? I would love it if i can get away with doing that now. but you know these punters want their cake and want to eat it too.. They want to hire a prostitute and want connection and passion with the whore. Maybe i'm wrong? ??? but it sure explains why some seem to forget that they have paid us and then want to ask to take you out on dates (without paying ofcourse) I feel sorry for them sometimes though. I had one punter contact me recently who wanted a good GFE session with us slowly undressing to slow sensual music. I just wish a fuck would be a fuck with a prostitute and not all these extras. But hey, if you have a fantasy that you know you cannot get elsewhere then go see a whore. I  Just feel sorry for them sometimes as I wish they could get the real genuine  thing and not have to pay someone to pretend :( but I can't complain because I get the money to put food on my table. Oh well!