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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Kendra Glasgow on 01 December 2015, 06:03:26 pm
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I've wondered about this for ages......
I love to kiss, I think when having sex with someone and not kissing them it's so awkward and unnatural however I hate those who come in and literally eat your face or try to scoop out your tonsils with their tongue.
Is scooping your tonsils out and eating your face off DFK?
Or is DFK just willingly and passionately kissing? I am the latter though I'm neither if someone has bad breath, strong smokers breath, foaming at the mouth or if their own kissing technique is devouring my face and throat. I've even had clients stick their tongues in my nostrils.
I do tend to pull back a bit if someone kisses me like that, not only does it gross me out but it makes me feel like I'm being suffocated.
Does anyone else feel like that? Does anyone know what a punters definition of DFK is?
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My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.
It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x
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My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.
It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x
Yeah your idea of DFK is the same as mine but some people take it too far.
It's like asking someone what the definition of GFE is, that's such a grey area too as everyone has different ideas of what they mean.
I market myself as GFE because I am the complete opposite ends of the spectrum from PSE but I've had a few guys think that bareback, CIM, swallow etc is part of GFE cause that's what your real life girlfriend would do.
I suppose no matter what service you offer, there's always someone who wants to take it too far. Deep throat is a perfect example......when giving oral, I'm happy to go all the way down on it (after all that's where the sloppiness comes from) but I don't have deep throat ticked on my profile because there will always be someone who thinks he can come in and fuck my throat to the point of actually chocking on it (which I don't mind a turn on in any way, shape or form) or to the point where your actually vomiting!
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I can't say that I like kissing in general but can't say that I do not like it either. However, I prefer French kissing with both clients and the bf as DFK is not my thing.Most of my clients FK anyway but had one or two that literally shoved their tongue down my throat and it made me gag. I suppose that's what deep french kissing is and I do not do that. It is not even an option on AW the only option is french kissing so when clients come to DFK and I pull away and then they bash me for it. In my head i'm thinking, (1)its not listed on my enjoys list and (2) you should have asked if DFK was ok before you decided to be rude and strangle me with your slimey nasty tongue. :'( I don't like kissing clients anyway, but in my personal life it's nothing special unless i'm really into the guy. I never thought a man that saw a prostitute would want to kiss her anyway fuck I wouldn't but each to their own. Anyways, DFK is shoving their whole tongue down your throat (till you eventually vomit and they swallow it) just kidding!! where as fk is mostly the tip.
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There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."
I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.
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There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."
I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.
You're right, I worked in parlours in the early 90s and it was very different.
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I think the emphasis on DEEP FK is bizarre. I think normal people just touch tongues a bit, perhaps in the heat of the moment going further. Beyond that is just weird and annoying and no, I'm not obligated to do that. If someone is a terrible kisser I may try to correct them or I may try to avoid it. (Going down for BJ helps. Swinging around into 69 can distract them.)
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My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.
It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x
Yeah your idea of DFK is the same as mine but some people take it too far.
It's like asking someone what the definition of GFE is, that's such a grey area too as everyone has different ideas of what they mean.
I market myself as GFE because I am the complete opposite ends of the spectrum from PSE but I've had a few guys think that bareback, CIM, swallow etc is part of GFE cause that's what your real life girlfriend would do.
I suppose no matter what service you offer, there's always someone who wants to take it too far. Deep throat is a perfect example......when giving oral, I'm happy to go all the way down on it (after all that's where the sloppiness comes from) but I don't have deep throat ticked on my profile because there will always be someone who thinks he can come in and fuck my throat to the point of actually chocking on it (which I don't mind a turn on in any way, shape or form) or to the point where your actually vomiting!
oh my gosh reminds me of one client I had who loves deep throat. I had just eaten before he came as i was soo hungry and whilst deep throating him literally all my food came out on his dick and ofcourse he enjoyed that. ::) Needless to say, every booking after that consisted of Deepthroat. I eventually got sick of his obsession with oral and couldn't hide that fact. Don't think he will be booking me again lol. But hey, what else did he expect? Asking someone to perform an hour and a half of oral is just ridiculous. Gosh, I just want vanilla guys. My profile isn't even that explicit, that includes pictures and wording so no idea why I have callers asking for sloppy wet deepthroat and PSE when it is not something I portray in my profile. ??? Call me lazy (I am) but prostitution should be easy, or so I thought. Boy was I wrong.
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But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves, you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?
As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.
I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
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But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves (you know where), you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?
As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.
I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
You know who should enjoy their"Punts" more instead of looking for petty faults that they can bitch about after x
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My opinion is that it's passionate, open mouthed, tongue action! Some guys are like 13 year old boys that slobber your whole face and stab their nasty tongues in and out. I've had some great kissers in bookings.
It's a mystery to me what you know who's version of dfk is or anything else they talk about for that matter x
Yeah your idea of DFK is the same as mine but some people take it too far.
It's like asking someone what the definition of GFE is, that's such a grey area too as everyone has different ideas of what they mean.
I market myself as GFE because I am the complete opposite ends of the spectrum from PSE but I've had a few guys think that bareback, CIM, swallow etc is part of GFE cause that's what your real life girlfriend would do.
I suppose no matter what service you offer, there's always someone who wants to take it too far. Deep throat is a perfect example......when giving oral, I'm happy to go all the way down on it (after all that's where the sloppiness comes from) but I don't have deep throat ticked on my profile because there will always be someone who thinks he can come in and fuck my throat to the point of actually chocking on it (which I don't mind a turn on in any way, shape or form) or to the point where your actually vomiting!
oh my gosh reminds me of one client I had who loves deep throat. I had just eaten before he came as i was soo hungry and whilst deep throating him literally all my food came out on his dick and ofcourse he enjoyed that. ::) Needless to say, every booking after that consisted of Deepthroat. I eventually got sick of his obsession with oral and couldn't hide that fact. Don't think he will be booking me again lol. But hey, what else did he expect? Asking someone to perform an hour and a half of oral is just ridiculous. Gosh, I just want vanilla guys. My profile isn't even that explicit, that includes pictures and wording so no idea why I have callers asking for sloppy wet deepthroat and PSE when it is not something I portray in my profile. ??? Call me lazy (I am) but prostitution should be easy, or so I thought. Boy was I wrong.
Porn is to blame for all of these things x
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But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves (you know where), you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?
As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.
I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
You know who should enjoy their"Punts" more instead of looking for petty faults that they can bitch about after x
lool ;D ;D ;D ;D
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This is my interpretation...
FK = French Kissing = open-mouth kissing with some tongue action
DFK = Deep French Kissing = open-mouth kissing as deep, slurpy, porno and passionate as you can without breaking something
That's been MY experience. I enjoy a bit of FK, but DFK is so slobbery that I have to limit it to my private life.
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But whenever you see punters talking amongst themselves (you know where), you never hear of them complaining she didn't French kiss them, they always use the term deep French kiss (DFK) so I just wonder if what they actually mean?
As I say, i thoroughly enjoy kissing whether it's a punter or someone from my private life but I hate having my face eaten. If I kissed a guy I just started dating that ate my face and slobbered all over me then I would end it there and then.
I've never had anyone in my private life even from high school kiss me in the way lots of clients do....the devouring technique.
You know who should enjoy their"Punts" more instead of looking for petty faults that they can bitch about after x
That's the problem, unfortunately so many of them seem to have lost their way and forgotten that seeing an escort is suppose to be fun. Unfortunately with the nature of the business and the fact 2 complete strangers are meeting for the first time, it doesn't always go to plan......that's why it's called punting just the same as betting in the casino, sometimes you win and other times you loose but you shouldn't go to a casino in the first place unless your prepared to loose the money you originally had to bet on. As long as the girl is respectful, decent and not luring them in under false pretences with services advertised that she has no intention on providing in person etc or operating some sort of scam.....there is no need to resent the rest of us as much as they do and put us down in order to compensate for the ?100+ they just blew. I feel that as soon as the jizzim leaves their balls....some utterly resent the money the just spent. They could easily write their reviews by saying "she wasn't my type" but instead they take to humiliating personal insults and fabricate faults that aren't actually there, I had someone complain recently saying there were 3 buzzer systems to get into my building (there are two but they always blow things out of proportion) so I guess he would have preferred the door was lying wide open with everyone and everything lying around rather than a good secure building.
Thank gosh though there are a far greater amount of our clients out there who do genuinely enjoy the treat they give themselves by coming to see us and actually respect us as people. It's those guys who make me happy in my job and able to carry on.
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There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."
I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.
What happened to those days? What's changed? I would love it if i can get away with doing that now. but you know these punters want their cake and want to eat it too.. They want to hire a prostitute and want connection and passion with the whore. Maybe i'm wrong? ??? but it sure explains why some seem to forget that they have paid us and then want to ask to take you out on dates (without paying ofcourse) I feel sorry for them sometimes though. I had one punter contact me recently who wanted a good GFE session with us slowly undressing to slow sensual music. I just wish a fuck would be a fuck with a prostitute and not all these extras. But hey, if you have a fantasy that you know you cannot get elsewhere then go see a whore. I Just feel sorry for them sometimes as I wish they could get the real genuine thing and not have to pay someone to pretend :( but I can't complain because I get the money to put food on my table. Oh well!
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There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."
I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.
What happened to those days? What's changed? I would love it if i can get away with doing that now. but you know these punters want their cake and want to eat it too.. They want to hire a prostitute and want connection and passion with the whore. Maybe i'm wrong? ??? but it sure explains why some seem to forget that they have paid us and then want to ask to take you out on dates (without paying ofcourse) I feel sorry for them sometimes though. I had one punter contact me recently who wanted a good GFE session with us slowly undressing to slow sensual music. I just wish a fuck would be a fuck with a prostitute and not all these extras. But hey, if you have a fantasy that you know you cannot get elsewhere then go see a whore. I Just feel sorry for them sometimes as I wish they could get the real genuine thing and not have to pay someone to pretend :( but I can't complain because I get the money to put food on my table. Oh well!
I think the internet has a lot to do with services changing, everyone is under a microscope so had to up their game x
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I swear some must get their techniques from jay off the inbetweeners, cannot stand teeth lickers or those weird hard mouth closed chicken peck kisses
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
That's exactly what some want and their are some girls that market specifically for quickies, I prefer the more unemotional bookings. Just market what you're comfortable with, you're not gonna please all of the people all of the time x
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
That's exactly what some want and their are some girls that market specifically for quickies, I prefer the more unemotional bookings. Just market what you're comfortable with, you're not gonna please all of the people all of the time x
I couldn't agree more and that is what I try to do but unfortunately the odd one manages to get through the door who I have little to none compatibility with and all it takes is for 2 or 3 of those to bitch and moan and totally compromise your reputation :(
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
ok you don't have to agree with it. My opinions are just that. MY OPINIONS. If you want the whole connecting thing that's fine, you sell your body how you want to. Not saying that I don't partake in getting to know them, talking etc but I don't like it and I fake it all. I use to like doing it though, back when I first started I genuinely cared about my client's stories and life etc but I've been used and bashed by these men that I thought were so friendly and nice and having to deal with all these TW's on a daily basis really doesn't help my attitude. Soon I realized that they can be so friendly to you in your face but you just never know what they are thinking. I lost my compassion when i read a certain forum. I was genuinely nice and friendly and enjoyed meeting these men. Back then I didn't have to fake. It didn't get me anywhere really. I still stick to my notion that I am here for them to release some sexual tension,that's it, nothing more. I am not a therapist, their friend nor their girlfriend. Nuff said!
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Here's another spin, but relevant - what's the thing with the eyes open staring at you thing... :o all but one of my guys do this... unsettling eh?
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
ok you don't have to agree with it. My opinions are just that. MY OPINIONS. If you want the whole connecting thing that's fine, you sell your body how you want to. Not saying that I don't partake in getting to know them, talking etc but I don't like it and I fake it all. I use to like doing it though, back when I first started I genuinely cared about my client's stories and life etc but I've been used and bashed by these men that I thought were so friendly and nice and having to deal with all these TW's on a daily basis really doesn't help my attitude. Soon I realized that they can be so friendly to you in your face but you just never know what they are thinking. I lost my compassion when i read a certain forum. I was genuinely nice and friendly and enjoyed meeting these men. Back then I didn't have to fake. It didn't get me anywhere really. I still stick to my notion that I am here for them to release some sexual tension,that's it, nothing more. I am not a therapist, their friend nor their girlfriend. Nuff said!
I can tell by your tone that you deeply offended when actually you've misunderstood. I wasn't speaking to you directly that's why I didn't quote your post or anyone's for that matter. I'm speaking to you directly now. There are a few ladies taking about pre internet times being very business like.
I was just saying that personally I'm not going to sit here and say I would like to go back to those times (not that I was around during those times) because that wouldn't tie in with my compatible clientele.
If I did want a more business like approach then I would promote 15 minute appointments etc.
We all have our own opinions on here, if someone doesn't agree with you.....it doesn't mean they are trying to attack you.
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
ok you don't have to agree with it. My opinions are just that. MY OPINIONS. If you want the whole connecting thing that's fine, you sell your body how you want to. Not saying that I don't partake in getting to know them, talking etc but I don't like it and I fake it all. I use to like doing it though, back when I first started I genuinely cared about my client's stories and life etc but I've been used and bashed by these men that I thought were so friendly and nice and having to deal with all these TW's on a daily basis really doesn't help my attitude. Soon I realized that they can be so friendly to you in your face but you just never know what they are thinking. I lost my compassion when i read a certain forum. I was genuinely nice and friendly and enjoyed meeting these men. Back then I didn't have to fake. It didn't get me anywhere really. I still stick to my notion that I am here for them to release some sexual tension,that's it, nothing more. I am not a therapist, their friend nor their girlfriend. Nuff said!
I loathe any emotional connection with clients, luckily I'm very good at faking it x
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Here's another spin, but relevant - what's the thing with the eyes open staring at you thing... :o all but one of my guys do this... unsettling eh?
My eyes are always closed when kissing so I don't notice lol. If I did open them and their eyes were open then it would be a bit weird lol x
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
ok you don't have to agree with it. My opinions are just that. MY OPINIONS. If you want the whole connecting thing that's fine, you sell your body how you want to. Not saying that I don't partake in getting to know them, talking etc but I don't like it and I fake it all. I use to like doing it though, back when I first started I genuinely cared about my client's stories and life etc but I've been used and bashed by these men that I thought were so friendly and nice and having to deal with all these TW's on a daily basis really doesn't help my attitude. Soon I realized that they can be so friendly to you in your face but you just never know what they are thinking. I lost my compassion when i read a certain forum. I was genuinely nice and friendly and enjoyed meeting these men. Back then I didn't have to fake. It didn't get me anywhere really. I still stick to my notion that I am here for them to release some sexual tension,that's it, nothing more. I am not a therapist, their friend nor their girlfriend. Nuff said!
I loathe any emotional connection with clients, luckily I'm very good at faking it x
Haha, see there is a market for all xx
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
Definitely agree x
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
ok you don't have to agree with it. My opinions are just that. MY OPINIONS. If you want the whole connecting thing that's fine, you sell your body how you want to. Not saying that I don't partake in getting to know them, talking etc but I don't like it and I fake it all. I use to like doing it though, back when I first started I genuinely cared about my client's stories and life etc but I've been used and bashed by these men that I thought were so friendly and nice and having to deal with all these TW's on a daily basis really doesn't help my attitude. Soon I realized that they can be so friendly to you in your face but you just never know what they are thinking. I lost my compassion when i read a certain forum. I was genuinely nice and friendly and enjoyed meeting these men. Back then I didn't have to fake. It didn't get me anywhere really. I still stick to my notion that I am here for them to release some sexual tension,that's it, nothing more. I am not a therapist, their friend nor their girlfriend. Nuff said!
P.S I know exactly what you mean about the bad side of the business tainting your attitude as my attitude stinks when I'm dealing with undesirables if you haven't noticed already.
I'm just saying that my actual clients, those who like me and are happy with what I offer and are decent human beings then I just genuinely enjoy my job with them is all I was saying.
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
ok you don't have to agree with it. My opinions are just that. MY OPINIONS. If you want the whole connecting thing that's fine, you sell your body how you want to. Not saying that I don't partake in getting to know them, talking etc but I don't like it and I fake it all. I use to like doing it though, back when I first started I genuinely cared about my client's stories and life etc but I've been used and bashed by these men that I thought were so friendly and nice and having to deal with all these TW's on a daily basis really doesn't help my attitude. Soon I realized that they can be so friendly to you in your face but you just never know what they are thinking. I lost my compassion when i read a certain forum. I was genuinely nice and friendly and enjoyed meeting these men. Back then I didn't have to fake. It didn't get me anywhere really. I still stick to my notion that I am here for them to release some sexual tension,that's it, nothing more. I am not a therapist, their friend nor their girlfriend. Nuff said!
I can tell by your tone that you deeply offended when actually you've misunderstood. I wasn't speaking to you directly that's why I didn't quote your post or anyone's for that matter. I'm speaking to you directly now. There are a few ladies taking about pre internet times being very business like.
I was just saying that personally I'm not going to sit here and say I would like to go back to those times (not that I was around during those times) because that wouldn't tie in with my compatible clientele.
If I did want a more business like approach then I would promote 15 minute appointments etc.
We all have our own opinions on here, if someone doesn't agree with you.....it doesn't mean they are trying to attack you.
I am not offended lovey and If you say you wasn't talking to me directly then fine. I didn't feel attacked and yes we are all entitled to opinions. :-*
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I don't agree with the attitude that they should be paying all that money to us to just dump their load and leave as that doesn't tie in with the market I try to attract (I don't offer short appointments) as I actually enjoy getting to know them, cosying up to them and connecting with them as I really enjoy the fluffiness of my job, it makes the sexual part seem so much more natural and nice for me and to the vast majority of clients out there who I'm compatible with.....they are completely happy with that.
ok you don't have to agree with it. My opinions are just that. MY OPINIONS. If you want the whole connecting thing that's fine, you sell your body how you want to. Not saying that I don't partake in getting to know them, talking etc but I don't like it and I fake it all. I use to like doing it though, back when I first started I genuinely cared about my client's stories and life etc but I've been used and bashed by these men that I thought were so friendly and nice and having to deal with all these TW's on a daily basis really doesn't help my attitude. Soon I realized that they can be so friendly to you in your face but you just never know what they are thinking. I lost my compassion when i read a certain forum. I was genuinely nice and friendly and enjoyed meeting these men. Back then I didn't have to fake. It didn't get me anywhere really. I still stick to my notion that I am here for them to release some sexual tension,that's it, nothing more. I am not a therapist, their friend nor their girlfriend. Nuff said!
I can tell by your tone that you deeply offended when actually you've misunderstood. I wasn't speaking to you directly that's why I didn't quote your post or anyone's for that matter. I'm speaking to you directly now. There are a few ladies taking about pre internet times being very business like.
I was just saying that personally I'm not going to sit here and say I would like to go back to those times (not that I was around during those times) because that wouldn't tie in with my compatible clientele.
If I did want a more business like approach then I would promote 15 minute appointments etc.
We all have our own opinions on here, if someone doesn't agree with you.....it doesn't mean they are trying to attack you.
I am not offended lovey and If you say you wasn't talking to me directly then fine. I didn't feel attacked and yes we are all entitled to opinions. :-*
Glad to hear it :-*
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If someone is kissing me in an uncomfortable way I will tell them, and advise them on how I like to kiss. Many clients are open to improving their technique, and many would be horrified to think that I'm not saying anything and feeling uncomfortable.
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
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I think the cheek lickers are the worst. My mouth is over here, ffs :(.
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
This is the sex industry, you'll never hear it all lol....I seen a reverse booking the other day for a guy wanting to eat shit, not just any old human shit......dog shit and he had plenty of feedback so genuine :-X
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
This is the sex industry, you'll never hear it all lol....I seen a reverse booking the other day for a guy wanting to eat shit, not just any old human shit......dog shit and he had plenty of feedback so genuine :-X
I am pissing myself laughing lol :o :o :o I can't trust them no more after reading stuff like that man. :-\ lool
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
This is the sex industry, you'll never hear it all lol....I seen a reverse booking the other day for a guy wanting to eat shit, not just any old human shit......dog shit and he had plenty of feedback so genuine :-X
I think I've met him?
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
This is the sex industry, you'll never hear it all lol....I seen a reverse booking the other day for a guy wanting to eat shit, not just any old human shit......dog shit and he had plenty of feedback so genuine :-X
I think I've met him?
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
So did I until yesterdays serial DFK.....my bed was soaked, and that was just from his slobbery on my face. Anyway, using our techniques, I moved my head away from his mouth and then he started licking my nose and then onto my armpits....eugh eugh eugh.
Don't even get me started about those disgusting men that try spitting in your mouths :FF
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There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."
I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.
How it should be! In my view anyway
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
So did I until yesterdays serial DFK.....my bed was soaked, and that was just from his slobbery on my face. Anyway, using our techniques, I moved my head away from his mouth and then he started licking my nose and then onto my armpits....eugh eugh eugh.
Don't even get me started about those disgusting men that try spitting in your mouths :FF
If they're just a rubbish kisser, I try to avoid it discreetly.
But if they pull any of that licky-licky shit I will absolutely say "Don't do that." It's a reflex and I can't promise that my tone will be utterly sweet about it. And spitting in my mouth? Oh hell no. They get told off for that.
If someone is really that fucking annoying I'm not that bothered about them being happy. It's not like I want them to come back. And, since I don't read any review sites I don't give a shit what they go tell the world. They can tell them that I'm a horrid mean old harpy. I honestly won't know and so I won't care.
I put up with very little - it's down to "Do I want this client to want to book me again?"
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There used to be a time when whores were sort of cold and stand-offish. Like, you'd politely let them touch you but you wouldn't kiss them or act as if you liked them. To kiss and pretend you gave a shit about them came to mean "GFE." Now, it just means "Not Porn Stuff."
I remember the good old days of being polite and friendly in a detached way, rather like a waiter. It was pretty awesome.
How it should be! In my view anyway
Kissing is a pretty standard fare here, as well, but I'm not sure how exactly one defines 'pretending to give a shit'. In Norway, as long as you are energetic, friendly and talkative during downtime, that's more than enough for people generally speaking. Piling on fake compliments and acting enamored isn't really a thing over here unless you market yourself for primarily overnighters/longer bookings sort of niche, or anything bordering on sugaring.
If the latter kind of behavior is pretty much expected of you girls over there, then I am once again glad to be working in a northern country instead. ;D
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I can't get past someone sticking their tongue in your nostrils. I thought I had heard it all. I was wrong.
So did I until yesterdays serial DFK.....my bed was soaked, and that was just from his slobbery on my face. Anyway, using our techniques, I moved my head away from his mouth and then he started licking my nose and then onto my armpits....eugh eugh eugh.
Don't even get me started about those disgusting men that try spitting in your mouths :FF
If they're just a rubbish kisser, I try to avoid it discreetly.
But if they pull any of that licky-licky shit I will absolutely say "Don't do that." It's a reflex and I can't promise that my tone will be utterly sweet about it. And spitting in my mouth? Oh hell no. They get told off for that.
If someone is really that fucking annoying I'm not that bothered about them being happy. It's not like I want them to come back. And, since I don't read any review sites I don't give a shit what they go tell the world. They can tell them that I'm a horrid mean old harpy. I honestly won't know and so I won't care.
I put up with very little - it's down to "Do I want this client to want to book me again?"
As you know I used to let the review sites bother me but I realised that I can't control what people with an agenda or axe to grind have to say so getting myself upset over something I can't control and something that's not true was making me unwell and it's really not worth it.
I try to avoid discreetly too if they are a rubbish kisser. I love it when I get a good kisser, it's so nice.
xx