Sorry you had such a horrible experience. I hope you’re ok.

I know it is easy to say this but if a client behaves in a way that you do not like, tell him to leave immediately or if you’re visiting him, tell him very firmly the session is over if he does not behave.

I did all the recommend security checks like asking for his name which he gave and his reference number for hotel . When I called hotel they said he was staying there .

All this will do is prove he has a reservation/is staying in the hotel. Did you do any other checks, screening or ask him about what services/kind of booking he wanted before deciding to see him?

Sorry you had such a horrible experience. I hope you’re ok.

I know it is easy to say this but if a client behaves in a way that you do not like, tell him to leave immediately or if you’re visiting him, tell him very firmly the session is over if he does not behave.

All this will do is prove he has a reservation/is staying in the hotel. Did you do any other checks, screening or ask him about what services/kind of booking he wanted before deciding to see him?

He told me he liked my likes list because it was limited . I only have Ow, face sitting, sex with protection and Ro . Definitely not spanking or any domination services

He told me he liked my likes list because it was limited . I only have Ow, face sitting, sex with protection and Ro . Definitely not spanking or any domination services

Regrettably, this is not enough, you need to be clear on your profile/website and on the phone/during screening about not offering any kind of rough play and you will not tolerate your boundaries being ignored.  Did you agree services?

Do/did you make any mention of being of being new? Sometimes men will take advantage of this, so never admit or insinuate this.

It is horrible finding yourself in the situation you were, particularly as you are small and the man big. But, you need to practise being firm, speaking loudly and telling a client to stop and/or pushing him away until he does exactly that - you do have more power than you think. However, I do realise the man immediately took the upper hand by pulling you into the room which caught you totally off guard which would have been a huge shock.

If you haven’t already, I suggest using the search box to find threads about how to screen clients before agreeing to meet them so hopefully you never find yourself in this situation again 

Two great first time clients one booking after another 
Will crack on until late  this evening then repeat tomorrow!

Just had a client ask me to lay on the bed with my legs in the air while he did the deed but he wanted me to "Act like I'm not enjoying it"

No acting needed. I made sure he knew I was thoroughly bored.

Threw me a £20 tip at the end too.

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Last was a 30 min booking, oral, RO, sex, left after less than 20 mins. Can't grumble really. 2 new ones today, both nice.

Probably was, but I cheered when I read that Jessica_Hannah went down the "yawn, how much more boring can you even BE" route (rather than "no, stop, please don't" etc)

I don't know if it was a rape fetish. He just liked the idea that he could pay money to use me and it didn't matter if I enjoyed it or not.