Met on SA where his username is LetMeShowYouxx, 40yo mentions being ex military in his bio.

Messaged this morning for a meeting this afternoon, agreed time, price and BDSM services.  We talked on the phone using numbers 074320139xx and 079764104xx he asked for a selfie over whatsapp to prove I'm genuine (fair enough as my SA account is less than a week old)  In all phone calls he asked me to call him first but I ran both numbers through CE and didn't find any reports.

An hour before our arranged booking he asks to bring the meet forward by 30mins and this is where the power play started.  He kept making demands for hair and make up and shoes and clothing while knowing I was getting ready and short on time.

He parked somewhere away from where I asked him to and got shirty when I asked about this, but we resolved that. 

He was all over me on arrival, asked for money, dealt with that and then the BDSM stuff started.  It felt like he was deliberately trying to keep me off balance, physically and mentally.  He did not talk about safewords, limits, triggers or anything about me that would impact the booking.  He started hitting me with the toys normally reserved for the grand finale of a BDSM session without warming me up, and hit me in places that should be easily avoidable like my spine.

He came on my face, which was agreed but then didn't hand me wipes to clean up as I was bound and couldn't open my eyes, he just dumped the wipes on my body, ignorming my outstreatched hand.

And finally, he left me with one wrist still in a manacle, the locks were proving fiddly and it took some time to undo one with his help, but he had to leave (less than 30mins after arriving) so left me with cum on my face, undressed and still half tied up.  I saw him out like that as he wasn't waiting for me and I wanted to make sure nothing got taken as he went! It's now been 2 hours since he left and he hasn't checked in to see if I got myself free...

I don't know if he is inept or predatory, my instinct says the latter as he talks like an experienced BDSM practitioner.  I called him out on the stuff he was doing wrong but I worry a less experienced sub would really suffer if they were given the same treatment I was.