Could you clarify who the 'we' is referring to?

The only named person I can find any reference to, contact for or comments by anywhere is you, unless you're telling us the dogs on your site have passed their ACCAs?

It's also far from unusual for people who are offering a general business service to target sex workers because they think they can charge them more than they would another sole trader with a similarly uncomplicated business structure, or in some cases (posted about here on several occasions) act extremely unprofessionally and inappropriately - a friend of mine had to explain her 'escort friendly accountant' why it was unacceptable to text her lewd jokes and make sexual remarks about her job.

My question is based on why the OP is using language which suggests there is more than one person in his firm when I can't find any evidence of this anywhere on his site, Twitter page or anywhere else. Most professional operations at least acknowledge this sort of thing in their marketing material, and many have information pages with details of the people their customers would be dealing with as well as their areas of specialism and so on. I'm not in any doubt about the OPs credentials, just the lack of information in his post.

Then there was the bloke who had an 'escort accountancy' website plastered with images of women in lingerie and couldn't work out why we thought he was a twat .

I'm a bit wary because he's in a few different places clearly encouraging sex workers to use a 'specialist', whilst operating in a smallish town.

All accountants are discrete, they don't talk about their clients, if they do they need reporting to their professional body. I've never been sneered at or treated differently. The accountant I used treated me with the same respect as any other person using his services.

He could however be totally bona fide, simply offering his normal services whilst not causing any local excitement.