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Annabelledelight

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No show wanted domination
« on: 12 September 2011, 10:31:53 pm »
Rang at the beginning of the week and wanted me that evening to give him domination to which I said I was part-time and only worked daytimes to early evening and ltd availability so he wanted to then book ahead for Friday,


Name/identity used by TW ...... Brian

Telephone number or email ......07861 8039**

Date ...... Friday 9th September

Any location? (e.g. claimed to be calling from Brighton) ...... Can't remember town but said Sussex

Complaint (e.g. no-show, asked endless questions but made no booking, telephone fantasist, requested off-limits services, etc.etc.) ...... No show
« Last Edit: 16 September 2011, 10:45:31 pm by Annabelledelight »

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Re: No show wanted domination
« Reply #1 on: 12 September 2011, 11:48:21 pm »
As with other thread, please repost phone number in the correct format.

Annabelle, can I ask if you have any kind of confirmation system in place? I haven't had this number of no-shows in the last two years, and as infuriating as I know it is, the one off day-to-day knobheads are not really what this section is for (which is why the board name specifies 'persistent').

I can't find the post I made after another lady decided to put up a new thread for everybody who had vaguely pissed her off that week, but please try to remember that learning how to spot idiots like these really comes with the turf.

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Re: No show wanted domination
« Reply #2 on: 13 September 2011, 12:46:14 am »
This is infuriating having to type in there differnt places regarding the same topic . Amy, can't you emalgamate this into one thread or something.

You  say have not had so may no shows  or whatever in one week? Lucky you.You are established with a website and Im guessing regular client?le and the like.. Not all of us are so fortunate. All though I do not  consider myself a newbie in this line of work , i only have one feedback dues to recently going solo so i look like a newbie and  that therefore encourages silly time wasters.

Although having said that my gut instinct and alarm radar alert is usually pretty good.

As i have already said, i think it is one and the same person mucking about not two separate no shows.
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Re: No show wanted domination
« Reply #3 on: 13 September 2011, 10:28:20 am »
This is infuriating having to type in there differnt places regarding the same topic . Amy, can't you emalgamate this into one thread or something.

You  say have not had so may no shows  or whatever in one week? Lucky you.You are established with a website and Im guessing regular client?le and the like.. Not all of us are so fortunate. All though I do not  consider myself a newbie in this line of work , i only have one feedback dues to recently going solo so i look like a newbie and  that therefore encourages silly time wasters.

Although having said that my gut instinct and alarm radar alert is usually pretty good.

As i have already said, i think it is one and the same person mucking about not two separate no shows.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

Lorissa, you don't 'have' to type here at all - this is the Warnings section of the forum, not a discussion board and although we're less strict about irrelevant posts in this part (all of these would have been removed had they been posted in the main Warnings section), the fact remains that they add nothing to the thread assuming that the aim of the thread is to alert others to wrongdoing.

The thread/post I referred to earlier about the purpose and use of this section is http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=6331. Any further discussions about how many no-shows anybody has and so on should be continued either in the Questions and Answers section or in Blather and Babble.
« Last Edit: 13 September 2011, 10:36:37 am by amy »

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Re: No show wanted domination
« Reply #4 on: 14 September 2011, 07:49:02 am »
Amy,

I did not start this thread . I was merely replying to Anabelle's posts  so as she posted here then yes I do have to respond here. I can't very well respond to her topic in blather and babble or anywhere else if she has not written there .

Yes, I know this is not a discussion board as you say but  plenty of people respond to information that people post regarding timewasters. That is all that I was doing and I stand by what I said previously.

It is my belief that in Anabelle's case this could very well be one and the same person. Surely,  the same person using different  aliases  and mucking about counts as timewasting and is a little more serious than to belong in the blather and babble section 'for the lighter side of escorting in general' .

If this is not serious why does AW take this matter seriously and put reports of people using  aliases?


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Re: No show wanted domination
« Reply #5 on: 14 September 2011, 10:15:35 am »
I did not start this thread . I was merely replying to Anabelle's posts  so as she posted here then yes I do have to respond here. I can't very well respond to her topic in blather and babble or anywhere else if she has not written there .

You can indeed start a new topic in the Blather section and refer to this thread by linking or just describing the outline of what you wanted to talk about, if you like. If you have comments regarding the OP's particular experiences as described in their post, though, it's probably most courteous to put them into a PM for a private discussion.

Yes, I know this is not a discussion board as you say but  plenty of people respond to information that people post regarding timewasters. That is all that I was doing and I stand by what I said previously.

Actually, according to the guidelines of the Warnings/Timewaster areas, nobody is supposed to write responses to posts made in these areas because the thread can become off-topic quickly and old threads can get bumped above new warnings - these forum areas can become quite messy which does not help anyone who needs to quickly look through to find out potentially life-saving (or at least time-saving) information.

Unfortunately, so many people disregard the posted guidelines and reply chattily to new threads in these forum areas that it's impossible for Amy to moderate everything. I'm going to try to help her more now with these areas lest she fall over from sheer exhaustion. :)

It is my belief that in Anabelle's case this could very well be one and the same person. Surely,  the same person using different  aliases  and mucking about counts as timewasting and is a little more serious than to belong in the blather and babble section 'for the lighter side of escorting in general' .

If this is not serious why does AW take this matter seriously and put reports of people using  aliases?

Your concerns are very understandable but, as per the guidelines for the Warnings section and subsections of this forum, please pop your comments into a PM to the original poster or start a new thread containing your general discussion points in the Blather section (or AW section if you want to specifically discuss their policies and whatnot).

Please help us keep this important section of the forum tidy and clear! Thank you. :)

Edit: Removing the bit about allowing posts requesting bad client details - these sorts of posts are actually strongly discouraged because of various reasons: 1) The OP may not return to check the thread but they will automatically get an email telling them if they receive a PM; 2) The OP may be a new member (less than 5 posts) and so will not be able to send PMs - in this case, either email them directly or include your email address in your PM to them (they will see the contents of the PM in the email notification they receive) so that they can email you directly; 3) It is vital that we do not clutter this area of the forum, as mentioned in more detail above.

We don't really have time to go back through hundreds of posts removing all the clutter so if everyone could please just start following the rules from now on, that would be great.

Thanks!
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Annabelledelight

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Re: No show wanted domination
« Reply #6 on: 14 September 2011, 12:18:04 pm »
Apologies for posting in the wrong section, I'm still learning my way around the boards.  I always ask clients to confirm on the day and they are not given the FULL address either, they are directed to a parking area and asked to ring and confirm.

I'm not alone with no shows or time wasters and I am careful with regards to my bookings.  Where possible I even try and take a small deposit from some that are willing if I am a little unsure.  I have several TW numbers stored into my phone and they still ring up on a weekly basis, sometimes daily basis but I do not even pick up their calls!

Thanks to Lorrisa (hope that's spelt correct from memory) for posting.
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Re: No show wanted domination
« Reply #7 on: 14 September 2011, 01:06:22 pm »
Apologies for posting in the wrong section, I'm still learning my way around the boards.  I always ask clients to confirm on the day and they are not given the FULL address either, they are directed to a parking area and asked to ring and confirm.

I'm not alone with no shows or time wasters and I am careful with regards to my bookings.  Where possible I even try and take a small deposit from some that are willing if I am a little unsure.  I have several TW numbers stored into my phone and they still ring up on a weekly basis, sometimes daily basis but I do not even pick up their calls!

Thanks to Lorrisa (hope that's spelt correct from memory) for posting.
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Annabelle - did you see Amy's request for you to change the format of the phone number you posted so that it fits in with our guidelines here at SAAFE? (This thread is a rather perfect advert for avoiding clutter in this area!)

Making sure to always post phone numbers in the same format means that users can search for numbers here more easily. See the Rules here for more details.
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