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Questions and Answers / Re: Going Gay for clients.
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 10:26:52 pm »
I've found that on my couple bookings, they really just like the "idea" of another woman, never has a woman actually let me go through with it, so I just end up being a spectator at the end of the bed!

I'd prefer to be watching Eastenders but it pays significantly less!
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Questions and Answers / Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 10:16:19 pm »
.....I'd rather you paid my electric bill!!!! ;D
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Questions and Answers / Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 10:12:56 pm »
Oh, and I take them directly to Kurt Geiger, my favourite, All Saints and the designer shops.

If you want to take me shopping, you asked for it!!!

I had one who thought that we'd be going to Dorothy Perkins and I'd be grateful... not on your nelly, I wouldn't wear that stuff, so I'm not playing along if you want to spend £30 on a dress and feel like a hero!
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Questions and Answers / Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 10:07:42 pm »
OOOHHH, or the other thing that's working well for me is my Wishlist!!!
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Questions and Answers / Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 10:06:30 pm »
This comes up fairly regularly (usually from more of the old timers) who want to include lingerie shopping as part of a booking. I have done it a few times over the years, visiting a sex shop, a department store and Agent provocateur but I just found the whole experience totally draining cooing over lingerie ??? and admittedly, I am probably not a natural at it, expecting men to pay for my shopping etc.
Anyway it has come up again and I know it sounds a silly question but am I missing a trick? What is the client actually expecting in this scenario?
Do any escorts out there actually enjoy this as part of a booking and how do you go about it? Do you ask the client how much they are willing to spend beforehand or just 'try your luck? and head straight to the expensive section  ;D
Many thanks

I've had a few that want to do this, it seems to turn them on and they think that they are buying something for "you"..... I have no interest but as long as the time is paid... it's not Xmas is it?

Take the gifts, I say but don't feel obliged.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Spiked and rob by a trusted regular!
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 09:42:31 pm »
I been meeting this guy for over two years now. Today I went to hotel with him and had a small drink I woke up and the money he paid was half gone and I was a half hour over check in time. This is fucked up cause now I feel I can’t trust absolutely any of them. I never thought a person I knew quite well for ages would do that to me but I guess deep down we need to remember here just paying for a service and most of them are self serving. I’m sad and darkened up a bit did anyone else experience something like this?

Firstly, I am so sorry that you have suffered this nasty invasion.

Big time.

I try not to leave the room or accept anything to drink from them, especially if you're seeing non-regulars.

It's a dangerous game and I was robbed recently, you just have to be so on your wits.

I hope that you are ok x
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 09:39:25 pm »
I've been in this industry one and off the for best part of 10 years. I've rebranded twice, taken substantial time away but every time I came back, I had no issues building up business again. I've always found this industry to be very profitable.

Last year I left, had to focus on other things, but kept a handful of regulars that I'd see from time to time. I recently came back properly, thinking I'd be hitting the ground running as I have always done, but no!

I still have a few core regulars, who are now my bread and butter. I have had some clients return that I used to see over the years, but the majority of the clients I would see have moved on. No idea if they've found someone else in my absence or just not spending the cash. I have had only a few new clients since I have been back.

In all my years, I have never known it to be this quiet. My rates are slightly lower than they were before I left, because am conscious that money has certainly dried up.

Speaking to peers, they say the same - have to work harder at marketing to gain similar clients to what they would have with minimal marketing.

I guess I naively thought I would be able to just slot back into my groove despite my lengthy absence.

Back to the marketing drawing board!

Yup, I hear you!

Back in the day I wa soo busy.. but that might have been due to location.

I've taken down my website and alternative advertising. The pandemic has changed things but we can all still do well I believe.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Spiked and rob by a trusted regular!
« Last Post by Mirror on 17 May 2024, 09:25:57 pm »
I been meeting this guy for over two years now. Today I went to hotel with him and had a small drink I woke up and the money he paid was half gone and I was a half hour over check in time. This is fucked up cause now I feel I can’t trust absolutely any of them. I never thought a person I knew quite well for ages would do that to me but I guess deep down we need to remember here just paying for a service and most of them are self serving. I’m sad and darkened up a bit did anyone else experience something like this?

Can you report this in the warnings section, NUM and possibly the police?
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Buddy Link-up / Re: Upcoming Trial following attack
« Last Post by Serendipitydo on 17 May 2024, 09:25:11 pm »
p.s. If you contact them they can help you with someone to accompany you to court. I would strongly recommend this.

It's not all just about counselling, which often we do not want, they can help with practical stuff too.

Use every amenity that you can get your hands on. These cases are difficult to prosecute,  I advise that you get as much help as you can..... let's get the bastard!
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Questions and Answers / Spiked and rob by a trusted regular!
« Last Post by Sophine88 on 17 May 2024, 08:52:53 pm »
I been meeting this guy for over two years now. Today I went to hotel with him and had a small drink I woke up and the money he paid was half gone and I was a half hour over check in time. This is fucked up cause now I feel I can’t trust absolutely any of them. I never thought a person I knew quite well for ages would do that to me but I guess deep down we need to remember here just paying for a service and most of them are self serving. I’m sad and darkened up a bit did anyone else experience something like this?
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