but often they dont even have security at night which is shocking.

Most hotels have a 24 hour desk (or at least a night porter), often a doorman late at night plus CCTV in public areas and the doors are electronically locked. What exactly is it that you want; I doubt many of us trying to work would appreciate armed guards patrolling the corridors?

It happens when you've been at it long enough. I'm sorry all of you for your experiences with these clients.

I have plenty of lovely men in my past that I think about. They also told me so much about their families that I felt like I knew them and I wonder how they are doing from time to time.

It's like we're the secret mistresses.

Any way.

I really want to say if you ever get a message like that, don't text back anything like - "sorry wrong number"

Do text:  SORRY for your loss; then BLOCK - nothing more is needed.

If you go and say wrong number that can look suspicious because you can bet they have your number stored as "Dave from the Car Wash" or something. So it's best to say nothing about who you are or how you know him.

Helloo,

 I am in multiple London groups and can send you the invite link/s. I haven't made enough posts here to be able to message you directly but you can whatsapp me at 07708582101

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I am the admin of a trans swer whatsapp group. I can add you to it if you'd like, I'm sure people there would be able to give advise and just connect in general:)

I don't think I have enough posts yet to be able to dm you directly through here but feel free to whatsapp me at 07708582101

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It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.

Thankyou Gucci the request for the video is a good one