I remember reading about that, it’s awful you went through that, stay strong, you can do this xxx

This comes up fairly regularly (usually from more of the old timers) who want to include lingerie shopping as part of a booking. I have done it a few times over the years, visiting a sex shop, a department store and Agent provocateur but I just found the whole experience totally draining cooing over lingerie and admittedly, I am probably not a natural at it, expecting men to pay for my shopping etc.
Anyway it has come up again and I know it sounds a silly question but am I missing a trick? What is the client actually expecting in this scenario?
Do any escorts out there actually enjoy this as part of a booking and how do you go about it? Do you ask the client how much they are willing to spend beforehand or just 'try your luck? and head straight to the expensive section 
Many thanks

I've been in this industry one and off the for best part of 10 years. I've rebranded twice, taken substantial time away but every time I came back, I had no issues building up business again. I've always found this industry to be very profitable.

Last year I left, had to focus on other things, but kept a handful of regulars that I'd see from time to time. I recently came back properly, thinking I'd be hitting the ground running as I have always done, but no!

I still have a few core regulars, who are now my bread and butter. I have had some clients return that I used to see over the years, but the majority of the clients I would see have moved on. No idea if they've found someone else in my absence or just not spending the cash. I have had only a few new clients since I have been back.

In all my years, I have never known it to be this quiet. My rates are slightly lower than they were before I left, because am conscious that money has certainly dried up.

Speaking to peers, they say the same - have to work harder at marketing to gain similar clients to what they would have with minimal marketing.

I guess I naively thought I would be able to just slot back into my groove despite my lengthy absence.

Back to the marketing drawing board!

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I had a letter by Lloyd's Bank asking me that I have deposited 42K within the last 12 months and they want to know where this money has coming from and I'm worried if I dont reply to the letter it cud turn into a investigation and accuse me of money laundering

If you are making over 42k a year why do you need to claim benefits? I don't think there are any banks that won't question why someone is depositing this much cash without any explanation (ie. Self employment). I don't think the culture on this forum is likely to be supportive of someone who wants to dodge paying tax and fraudulently claim benefits.

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I have just started using cosmo for AW and OF funds.  Where do people transfer the money to as I do not want to transfer to my new business account as my last one was closed due to OF payments and the nature of my business