I also have condoms in case guys don't bring them

Always provide your own condoms and be the one to put it on, if you have never done it there are videos on YouTube you can watch and there is the old practising on a banana.

Crossed posts with Ian.

I think I might cancel on the ?2000 guy and the ?600 - I do want to sell my virginity though, just in the safest way possible and for the highest price - I doubt anyone would pay more than 2000 though. And I was actually planning on selling my 'virginity' a few times because I don't even have a hymen and men don't know when women are virgins anyway, although a few guys have asked to 'check' (including the 2000 actually) but I just said to them if they don't believe I'm a virgin we can fuck some other time, because they sound like time wasters and any man could accuse me of not being a virgin after sex and demand money back.

I think I'll keep my appointment for tomorrow though and the other small things I'm doing, like the guy coming over tomorrow. Also just to clarify, he wants to rim me which is the only reason I'm agreeing. Also a guy wants to lick me out so that should be safe too. I also have condoms in case guys don't bring them and I have lube so I am trying to be as prepared as possible and I have two friends on standby at all times ready to intervene or call the police. The money will also be checked for forgery before I do anything.

Even if your hymen its elastic, if you lose your virginity you will bleed and man know that. Cant fake it.
Always have your own condoms and use them.
Read the main saafe and the other people posts here and be safe.

Quote from: hotblondie28 on 20 July 2014, 05:29:26 pm

Even if your hymen its elastic, if you lose your virginity you will bleed and man know that. Cant fake it.

Erm, wrong and wrong.

Yes.

Quote from: xw5 on 20 July 2014, 05:38:23 pm

Quote from: hotblondie28 on 20 July 2014, 05:29:26 pm

Even if your hymen its elastic, if you lose your virginity you will bleed and man know that. Cant fake it.

Erm, wrong and wrong.

Yes.

And yes from here too.

I don't remember ever having a hymen. Wore tampons from about 11 with no problems at all, and when I lost my virginity (at 14) I didn't feel a thing. Literally. No pain, no pleasure, no bleeding. Very boring, I wondered what the fuss about sex was!

I'd like to just echo all the posts above. All of these bookings sound dodgy and not real bookings, in the sense that with real bookings the client books in a straightforward manner - there is no way they'd be meeting in a public toilet or paying 2000 for virginity. These guys you are messaging are either timewasters or worse (and you don't want to find out which!).

I really hope you don't think I'm being judgmental, but I'd urge ou to seriously think about getting your virginity out of the way in a completely non-paid situation before you even think about having sex for money. Because if you try out sex work and find that you hate it and it's not for you (which can happen and you won't know until you do it), then there will always be this horrible memory of how you lost your virginity. I know it's no big deal (hell mines was in a dentist's car park in a car with some 19 year old who had a pregnant girlfriend at home!  !!!!!), but it really is best not to get paid for the first time. Find a guy for a couple of dates and get it out of the way first before working would be my advice.

Since you are saying you are in need of the money, why not make yourself an Adultwork profile. DO NOT specify that you are "new" or give out any clues that you are naive. Read this whole site and all the info you can get your hands on about safety in the next day or so, put on your profile that you offer blow jobs only and give clear rates and times. For the first few times it would be best to have someone you trust on the premises. Or what about a parlour? At least it would be safe.

I think the "enquiries" you've had so far seem very dodgy.

If you need any more help you can always post up here or PM me x

Yes, in some cases, wearing tampons, doing exercises or trying to ease the pain later can conclude to a broken hymen and no blood loss whn the first sexual act happends. That doesnt mean in this cases the girl is a virgin, she is one just because she didnt had penetration.

A virgin in 99% bleeds.

This is what Ive read online and what I know, not necessarily its absolute  truth

As I said, I don't ever recall having a hymen, it never tore or bled. The first time I looked at my lady parts, I was about 8, there certainly wasn't one there, and I had never bled before that. And I don't know anyone - friends or family - who bled when they first had sex.

99% is too high a number, the bleeding when losing virginity is pretty much a man-made myth.

As fascinating as this is, could we please get back to trying to help the OP - this is somebody who is clearly vulnerable and in a difficult situation who has come to the forum for advice and for whom time is a factor, and if anybody needs reminding of that then they need to read the thread starter again.

Anybody wanting to continue in this vein can start another thread, preferably on another forum.

You can get a lot of money for your virginity however on craigslist is not the way to go. Try selling it on adultwork idk. Men WILL pay a lot of money for virginity but this all sounds too dodgy, You want guys with good feedback & even then be on your guard.