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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #30 on: 21 July 2014, 10:47:40 am »
Craigslist is full of time wasters, fantasists e.t.c It can also have very dangerous people using it. No offence, but I think there is a good chance a lot of those bookings are fake. I suggest if you use a more well known website, where you can read reviews on the clients,  read up on security / vetting clients to keep yourself safe.

You are a vulnerable person, and these men can smell it from a mile away. Hunters always look for weak prey. You can find yourself in a much worse situation than what you started with. And I wouldn't see all these clients at once, if you do decide to meet up with one ( after you have done FULL security checks / and a have a  security buddy who know's where you are / the client knows someone knows where you are). I would pause to see how you feel about doing this as a job, not only that, losing your virginity can be a big deal. The last thing you need is to have a nervous breakdown because you feel violated / abused.

Take it slow, make sure you fully informed on every part of the client transaction / meeting from security, payment, safe sex / std's. All the people above, are experienced professionals, so don't ignore their advice thinking they don't know what are taking about.

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #31 on: 21 July 2014, 12:36:20 pm »

-- Virgins don't always bleed and virginity is a stupid misogynistic concept anyway invented by men to reduce a woman's value and also I guess they just feel that important that they feel they change who a woman is by fucking her. Seriously, I'm selling my virginity multiple times. 

I think this is a very bad idea and I would caution against it. I feel that selling your virginity multiple times is akin to scamming punters and being dishonest would be very bad for your reputation if you got caught.

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #32 on: 21 July 2014, 01:22:25 pm »

-- Virgins don't always bleed and virginity is a stupid misogynistic concept anyway invented by men to reduce a woman's value and also I guess they just feel that important that they feel they change who a woman is by fucking her. Seriously, I'm selling my virginity multiple times. 

I think this is a very bad idea and I would caution against it. I feel that selling your virginity multiple times is akin to scamming punters and being dishonest would be very bad for your reputation if you got caught.

I have to agree with this, in this day and age with online ads and reviews etc it is quite easy for client's to find out your lying.
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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #33 on: 21 July 2014, 05:48:45 pm »
Can we avoid climbing onto the high moral ground here? Lots of people do not tell the truth about something or other: age, size of various body parts, whether they have orgasmed etc etc.

Obviously it is going to be somewhat embarrassing if client A posts a review somewhere about being the first to do something before client B thought they were the first, but that's a risk that only the OP knows if it is worth taking. It doubtless used to be easier before the advent of sites where people both book someone and can review them...
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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #34 on: 21 July 2014, 08:43:29 pm »
OK, without the ethics (which I don't care about, anyway): You can't sell your virginity more than once on AW. You just can't get away with it, the way the site is set up.

The 11am client would have been blocked by me the first time he accused me of being fake. Did he show? I hope if he did he was OK.

Honestly, advertising that you're naive and inexperienced will attract some of the worst people. You can make good money just selling normal sex to normal people.

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #35 on: 21 July 2014, 09:16:34 pm »
Hey there,

Please don't let your money worries rule you. Its never as bad as it seems. I think if you are happy to sell your virginity then more power to you. It is up to you if you sell it multiple times but this may come back to bite you in the bum. What I would do in your position is to advertise your virginity but put this at a high price (frankly I would put 20,000 rather than 2000) but offer only hand relief and oral to clients or massage with happy ending. This way you are making money but not selling yourself short.



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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #36 on: 22 July 2014, 03:31:51 pm »
Hey there,

Please don't let your money worries rule you. Its never as bad as it seems. I think if you are happy to sell your virginity then more power to you. It is up to you if you sell it multiple times but this may come back to bite you in the bum. What I would do in your position is to advertise your virginity but put this at a high price (frankly I would put 20,000 rather than 2000) but offer only hand relief and oral to clients or massage with happy ending. This way you are making money but not selling yourself short.

It would be great to get 20, 000 but I doubt anyone would pay that unless there's a site where people sell their virginity or whatever. Unsurprisingly, they didn't show. I knew they wouldn't cos they stopped emailing but it's still annoying. I don't think my 7pm will show today either (he offered 600) but he's from Adultwork so hopefully he might. I'm just having trouble getting started, if I could just get a few thousand for my virginity I'd be able to make the rest doing smaller things, but oh well. I have got a lot of interest on adultwork though so hopefully I'll find good clients there.

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #37 on: 24 July 2014, 01:26:59 am »
please please please be careful
may i ask how old you are ?
i really hope you decide not to sell your virginity and wait for someone you like!

i echo every one else when they say they all sound risky!

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #38 on: 24 July 2014, 01:29:49 am »
Hey there,

Please don't let your money worries rule you. Its never as bad as it seems. I think if you are happy to sell your virginity then more power to you. It is up to you if you sell it multiple times but this may come back to bite you in the bum. What I would do in your position is to advertise your virginity but put this at a high price (frankly I would put 20,000 rather than 2000) but offer only hand relief and oral to clients or massage with happy ending. This way you are making money but not selling yourself short.
As a point of reference potential clients should not be offering a fee..you should set your own rates and they should pay what you have stipulated. Anyone who tells you what they will pay either over your rate or under it is generally a timewaster.Personally speaking I think you would get genuine bookings if you just offered escort services rather than making out you are new and trying to sell your virginity.

It would be great to get 20, 000 but I doubt anyone would pay that unless there's a site where people sell their virginity or whatever. Unsurprisingly, they didn't show. I knew they wouldn't cos they stopped emailing but it's still annoying. I don't think my 7pm will show today either (he offered 600) but he's from Adultwork so hopefully he might. I'm just having trouble getting started, if I could just get a few thousand for my virginity I'd be able to make the rest doing smaller things, but oh well. I have got a lot of interest on adultwork though so hopefully I'll find good clients there.

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #39 on: 25 July 2014, 12:46:26 pm »
OP I read your post yesterday and ive been thinking about you a lot, how are things going?

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #40 on: 27 July 2014, 05:16:00 pm »
Hope she's ok

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Re: Young awkward newbie in need of advice
« Reply #41 on: 01 August 2014, 10:55:49 pm »
Yeah me too... it sounded like it was all going to end very very badly, I'm really hoping that isn't the case.