Got an email today from someone who wound me up something rotten.

Basically he sent an enquiry last month to ask for a one hour incall.  He said he was nervous as he had never seen an escort before. I have lots of emails from normal, genuine guys saying the same thing.

So, on the night he phoned me to say he was parked in the spot where I told him to so I gave the address. Five minutes later he still hadn't turned up. I phoned him to ask whether he was lost. He said he was just gathering 'courage' to come and see me  . This ended in a further two phone calls while he was still gathering courage  So I told him if he didn't stop messing about I was going to cancel the booking. Then he text me to say he'd bottled it.

I blocked his number accordingly 
 
So now he's emailed to say will I give him another chance. WTF?

It's not going to happen, but I'm very tempted to email him back to say that if a meeting is to go ahead I request the full payment in advance.

What would you do?

Tbh, I'll probably ignore it cos I never should have agreed to the meeting anyway - he sounds so gormless! And I was so pissed off with him he'll never get my best service anyway.

 

I wouldn't bother even replying.

Same, I've made this mistake in the past, you'll end up wanting to give yourself a punch in the face if he wastes your time again x

No I'd tell him to look for someone else. Lol x

Quote from: Nia Hope on 09 February 2016, 05:56:14 pm

Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 09 February 2016, 05:51:55 pm

I wouldn't bother even replying.

Same, I've made this mistake in the past, you'll end up wanting to give yourself a punch in the face if he wastes your time again x

Ditto the one and only time I allowed it they did a second time! Wanker. I don't care if the reason is nerves or deliberate time-wasting, they don't get another chance

Well, if I demand the full payment in advance and he doesn't show then it really is his loss and not mine 

I doubt you will hear from him again if you ask him for payment upfront and how would you go about getting it from him if he did agree?I just think morons like this get a kick out of getting your attention and are rarely going to be serious.At the end of the day there are plenty of wgs around he could just as easily book someone else and get on with it if he really had just let nerves get the better of him that one time.

I would request Amazon vouchers 

Demanding payment upfront would be a way to resolve the situation once and for all. Likely that he'll go quiet and leave you alone but at least you've sent a strong message. And if he does pay then you still win.

No way. It's an ego trip. Any response from me whether good or bad would be considered a win from him.

I thought that you do take deposits from new clients?

I do usually but never have I requested the full amount. Never needed to