What Amy said
Can you look at doing a massage course and offering massages, possibly Nuru, happy endings either by hand or oral.
Lots of guys come to me for oral, edging and a happy ending, you could possibly offer tie and tease/edging bookings as they are popular.
There are a good few options even without penetrative services and I'm sure if you market we'll then you will have plenty of bookings and feel less stressed and worried about work.
Good luck, it's a horrible condition and I was lucky, my hysterectomy sorted mine as it was very mild and hadn't attached to other bits of me x