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zina666

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Working from home
« on: 07 October 2011, 12:10:36 am »

 Hi all any advice on this.....I have been working alone from home for over four years and have checked
 the law info and  it says its   legal to work alone ? property not rented as i live their.
 About a month ago i had a booking and the guy forgot house number and knocked!! on the wrong door instead of ringing me back for number.
 Anyway i ended up seeing him after his confusion, thing is he knocked on the door of a family who does
 not speak or like me and my husband God knows why as they had stopped speaking before i started working
 from home.
 So three weeks after the wrong door event i bumped into the woman at the bottom of my road and she said
 quote ( i have a bone to pick with you one of your customers knocked on my door and if it happens again
  i will do something about it ).
 They are the type of family who think they are better than others and they run a business from home and are
 always in,  I just feel i am being watched by them and its making me and my husband feel mentally
 paranoid.
 Please any advice to make us feel better or has similar happened to other girls ? thanks

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Re: Working from home
« Reply #1 on: 07 October 2011, 12:22:19 am »
Perfectly legal

So I would just give them very cheesy smug grins every time you see them  ;D

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« Reply #2 on: 07 October 2011, 12:36:24 am »
Um, not quite. I mean yes it's legal and you're not going to get arrested, but it's most likely against the terms of your lease, so they can cause trouble for you. If you own the flat but not the freehold then you still have a lease and the potential for a lot more grief than if you were just renting and didn't have lots of your own money invested.

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Re: Working from home
« Reply #3 on: 07 October 2011, 10:44:31 am »

  The property is not rented its private  on a mortgaged with us.
   thanks for your comments on my neighbor  problem (  Friday and  Anika  Mae)  much appreciated.  x
 
 

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Re: Working from home
« Reply #4 on: 07 October 2011, 11:03:04 am »
The property is not rented its private  on a mortgaged with us.

Do you mean that you do own the freehold? In London, it's almost impossible to get a freehold for a flat (unless maybe you're spending over a million pounds? But I wouldn't know a lot about that :P) but perhaps outside of London it's a little easier to get a share of a freehold when you buy a flat.

If you own a share of the freehold, do you have any obligations towards the neighbours that you're sharing that freehold with?
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« Reply #5 on: 07 October 2011, 11:40:33 am »
Yes, I understood that you said you own the flat, but please make sure you're clear on the leasehold/freehold thing. Most flats are sold on a leasehold basis, where you buy the flat but someone else owns the land it's on and you pay them rent annually. If you live in a purpose-built block of flats you don't own the freehold. If you live in a conversion it may belong to one of the flat owners, be shared by all of them, or belong to a third party. It's possible that you own the whole freehold yourself, in which case everyone else in the building would be paying you rent. If that's not the case then you have a share at best and you need to check your contract.

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Re: Working from home
« Reply #6 on: 07 October 2011, 12:40:31 pm »
I can't see where the OP has said she works from a flat?

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Re: Working from home
« Reply #7 on: 07 October 2011, 12:56:13 pm »
Yes, you're right, we just got stuck on that because the freehold thing wasn't cleared up. Houses tend to be freehold but not always. Just make sure you know what you have.

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« Reply #8 on: 07 October 2011, 04:19:24 pm »
 i always think that once neighbours know whats going on then its generally time limited one way or another  (not always the case) but more often than not.   i have worked on and off from my home for over 8 years ( but not in the past 3 years and i know that neighbours know but they dont really have the balls to say anything to me or other half
 
But and im curious here,  how did she know he was for you  ... .  did the client say im here to see bell de jour the escort ( never under estimate what a client will say)     or did she already know that your working from home as an escort and hasnt said anything until this happend and she  pissed of about it because its been brought to her door

if you were in rented property then ,i would probably say move if you can afford it 
its a pity that when she asked spoke to you you didnt  ask her exactly what she meant   
if she a nasty obnoxious neighbour who gossips then be prepared for her to tell other people in the street,  i


     One of the women that lives thankfully at the bottom of my street  is a real nosy cow always sticking her nose into everyones business,  not just mine    She kind of forgets that she has been arrested and charged twice for benefit fraud and had to wear a tag for six months instead of going to prison
    she saw me walking my new dog a few days ago and asked what his name is  i told it was chullo and its spanish slang for pimp  ;D  im sure she is now telling everyone that my dog is my pimp     

 


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Re: Working from home
« Reply #9 on: 07 October 2011, 04:22:41 pm »
    she saw me walking my new dog a few days ago and asked what his name is  i told it was chullo and its spanish slang for pimp  ;D  im sure she is now telling everyone that my dog is my pimp     



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Re: Working from home
« Reply #10 on: 07 October 2011, 05:05:38 pm »

 I should have explained the property is a house and freehold on a mortgage paid by me and husband
 and its our place of residence and home.
 Have lived here some 20yrs ( been working last  4yrs from home ) in what you say Paris i would agree
 she already new what i was doing before the said punter knocked on her door and no doubt annoyed her.
 My husband just wants to get shut and move as he as always hated the road ( was his late mothers house )
 so he has lived here for 38yrs,

 Anyway  the long term objective is get away before the light evenings return next summer hopefully!!.
 We just slog along paying bills and credit card debts ( gosh how stupid getting caught in the web of those things )
 No you don't get rich doing this work well all we have done  is survive  and since the neighbor thing
 if i had the money i would quit now and husband totally agrees but catch 22 as they say.
 Sorry to go on......XXX
 
 

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« Reply #11 on: 07 October 2011, 06:15:47 pm »
if thats the case then there i dont think that there much she can do to stop you from workin g from your own home,   but  its the mental strain of having someone like that knowing what your doing ect thats often the more pressing issue

   i dont know what the law is with regards to your husband living with you ( i did think that this law was changed living of immoral earnings and didnt include partners and kids but i dont know maybe someone else will know ) worse is that she could report you to the council as a change of business from working from your home
   or inform all the other neighbours b

   thats what i thought as most people /neighbours arent as stupid as we would like them to be  ( ie blind deaf and dumb would be the perfect neighbours  imo )  so she had probalby picked up on it in the past  and woudlnt say anything untill it directly bothered her now it has she feel that she can moan at you and im my experience it will probably esculate  if she is anything like people that i know off 

  its a pain that you feel that you have to move but if you do and your planning on working from your home again  then i would reccomend looking at houses /flats in a totally different way to one that you want to live in

 if its possible you might want to consider renting  out your house and then rent a place to live and work from  as this will give you more flexability should this happen again in  new houswe  and you need to move again   
   
 end houses  are often good because they often have a side /back entrance and a front door and you have only one direct neighbour to think about

houses that have back entrances ( excuse the pun)

large blocks of purpose built flat with intercoms

basements flat but depends on who lives above you       
     
visit the area at all different times of the day /evengings and weekends  places change totally when people are at work /at home   

Oh and if you do decide to rent out your house then  what I would do is rent  to some really nice but  noisy students ,  you know the ones that smoke weed all day long, never go to lectures ,  have massive house parties every single weekend  and piss of all the neigbours with there coming and goings  Give her something to really moan about she will be wishing that your back living there   




 I should have explained the property is a house and freehold on a mortgage paid by me and husband
 and its our place of residence and home.
 Have lived here some 20yrs ( been working last  4yrs from home ) in what you say Paris i would agree
 she already new what i was doing before the said punter knocked on her door and no doubt annoyed her.
 My husband just wants to get shut and move as he as always hated the road ( was his late mothers house )
 so he has lived here for 38yrs,

 Anyway  the long term objective is get away before the light evenings return next summer hopefully!!.
 We just slog along paying bills and credit card debts ( gosh how stupid getting caught in the web of those things )
 No you don't get rich doing this work well all we have done  is survive  and since the neighbor thing
 if i had the money i would quit now and husband totally agrees but catch 22 as they say.
 Sorry to go on......XXX
 
 

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« Reply #12 on: 07 October 2011, 06:23:51 pm »
She is seriously the most annoying person that i happen to know  i do try to avoid her   she has this insesent urge to know everything  that is going on i have lived im my street 5 years longer than she has but she knows every single person  she makes Dot Cotton look like a sweet old grandma  She is one of the reasons that i have a big gate at the end of my path so that she ( or anyone else cant get  directly to my bloody front door
   
  She has this sweet but  aggressive  jack russel   and she once  said in all serious once that  Patch ( her dog) would attack my dogs if i walked them past her gate .  I have 2 huge english bullmastiffs and 2 douge de bordeux puppies age 11 weeks and even the puppies are bigger than Patch
i told sweetly that my dogs shits were bigger than her dog  ( that shut her up for a bit) 
 
    she saw me walking my new dog a few days ago and asked what his name is  i told it was chullo and its spanish slang for pimp  ;D  im sure she is now telling everyone that my dog is my pimp     



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Re: Working from home
« Reply #13 on: 08 October 2011, 11:34:54 am »
Yeah, the law has changed so the husband should be fine, just make sure he's not doing anything that could come under "controlling", like dealing with your calls or emails.

Like Paris said there's very little they could do officially, just make things generally awkward for you. You should be all right until you can move on.

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« Reply #14 on: 08 October 2011, 11:44:45 am »
Thanks for confirming that i wasnt sure   i knew  that partners and possibly anyone living with an escort could be charged with living of imoral earnings in the past , but i read that it was changing but wasnt sure if it had or not

Yeah, the law has changed so the husband should be fine, just make sure he's not doing anything that could come under "controlling", like dealing with your calls or emails.

Like Paris said there's very little they could do officially, just make things generally awkward for you. You should be all right until you can move on.