Author Topic: Wishlists (Read 2796 times)

The_Lynx · « **on:** 16 August 2015, 06:48:56 pm »

How many of you actually have a wishlist of any kind on your profile/website? If you have one, do you only put work-related items in it, or do you feel comfortable requesting personal use items as well?

Gifting doesn't seem very common around here at all, but my reasoning is that if I luck out even once, the time I used to make the list has already paid off. With that said, I can't shake the feeling that it might make me appear somewhat greedy, no matter how non-obtrusive the wishlist is. >.>

Nia Hope · « **Reply #1 on:** 16 August 2015, 06:53:25 pm »

I have a few work related things but never really bothered if I get anything, I wouldn't put amazon vouchers or specific luxuries because I'd feel like it's cheeky or off putting for some clients. I get wine, chocs, flowers and sometimes perfume which is thoughtful and last week a guy had made me a little wooden jewellery box and painted a lily on it, how cute x

MsDee · « **Reply #2 on:** 16 August 2015, 07:18:17 pm »

Quote from: The_Lynx on 16 August 2015, 06:48:56 pm

How many of you actually have a wishlist of any kind on your profile/website? If you have one, do you only put work-related items in it, or do you feel comfortable requesting personal use items as well?

Gifting doesn't seem very common around here at all, but my reasoning is that if I luck out even once, the time I used to make the list has already paid off. With that said, I can't shake the feeling that it might make me appear somewhat greedy, no matter how non-obtrusive the wishlist is. >.>

I have a typical work related one on my AW profile. I find it embarrassing when you see half the things women put on their lists especially the amazon ones. And then all you see in your timeline is, buy me this and i will give you this, pay my bills and i will suck your dick bla bla bla. No scrupples or shame!

Siorse · « **Reply #3 on:** 16 August 2015, 07:40:40 pm »

I don't have one, this sounds really stupid, coz I know it's nonsense, but it makes me feel greedy..

Like a spoilt child or something lol.
Please don't think I'm thinking that about anyone else who does have one!! They're there for a reason after all..
Just another one of my many strange (maybe catholic guilt

) things..

Nia Hope · « **Reply #4 on:** 16 August 2015, 07:45:16 pm »

Quote from: Siorse on 16 August 2015, 07:40:40 pm

I don't have one, this sounds really stupid, coz I know it's nonsense, but it makes me feel greedy..
Like a spoilt child or something lol.
Please don't think I'm thinking that about anyone else who does have one!! They're there for a reason after all..
Just another one of my many strange (maybe catholic guilt ) things..

Same I feel like that too, I've got quite a strong work ethic and would be embarrassed to be given luxuries for doing nothing in return. I've turned down tips at the end of bookings because it makes me feel awkward x

cheesypeas · « **Reply #5 on:** 16 August 2015, 07:59:51 pm »

I don't have one.
Don't really like them.

sensualmilf · « **Reply #6 on:** 16 August 2015, 09:17:45 pm »

I wouldn't have one either. Some clients bring wine, chocolates, champagne and leave a cash tip.

It's a lovely thought but I wouldn't have a wish list. I do, however have a FAQ that states that clients do not need to bring gifts but if they insist then blah, blah would be appreciated.

avery · « **Reply #7 on:** 17 August 2015, 07:06:29 am »

I state on my wishlist that I prefer clients to come for a next visit instead of gifts.
But I do mention that I like chocolate and wine, and there are latex clothes on my list as well. I've had awesome gifts varying from pvc boots, to latex skirts, and whatnot.

MsDee · « **Reply #8 on:** 17 August 2015, 08:09:14 am »

I think having one for work is reasonable as clients sometimes expect you to have certain toys and lets face it I wont usually have a prostate massager for my own pleasure lol

But when it comes to Louboutin shoes or Gucci bags or new laptops etc that is being greedy and taking advantage of some of the more gullible simpler clients.

Emma_C · « **Reply #9 on:** 17 August 2015, 09:20:38 am »

I was wondering about this too as I'm in the process of setting up my website. I'm dairy & alcohol intolerant so wine & chocolates are a no go zone for me.

In my AW interview I put flowers or gift vouchers. I've had cash on there before & had facetious clients say "I hear your favourite gift is cash so here you go" & hand me my rate. Maybe they think it's a "cute" ice breaker?

I thought about putting amazon/fragrance direct links on my profile or setting up a pinterest work account. I think if it's stuff under 30/50quid it wont appear too greedy. Little things like massage oils or toiletries/perfume. Maybe the odd pair of earrings.

I have one client in my civvy job who bought me jewellery & other little gifts.

Kay · « **Reply #10 on:** 17 August 2015, 11:10:28 am »

I also find them embarrassing. I'd assume that if any client had the inclination to buy me a gift he'd ask or felt like he knew me well enough to choose something anyway. Perhaps give some rough guidelines, but I do find it a bit crass to list expensive stuff.

SweetSummers · « **Reply #11 on:** 17 August 2015, 04:47:04 pm »

I think having a wishlist can be a bit like having an FAQ? I'm guessing that for some, they get asked a lot what they would like and so it's just easier to have a wishlist than to keep repeating oneself!

I imagine as well it's better to have one and potentially get things you might want/use than not have one and get something random and useless?

The only gifts I've gotten have been random. I've never been consulted before receiving a gift.

Dexi Delite · « **Reply #12 on:** 17 August 2015, 05:02:38 pm »

I do have a wish list for those who feel they would still like to buy me a gift, and I have listed firstly that they can donate to one of my 3 favourite charities. I'd rather this then anything else, as it's going to a good cause, but if they would like to buy me a gift rather than give, then flowers or gift vouchers. Due to the fact that I'm now allergic to dairy and can't eat chocolate anymore

and don't like wine (these seem to be popular choices), I feel guilty that they've wasted their money, so would rather they have a look at my list for guidence.

Bluetits · « **Reply #13 on:** 17 August 2015, 07:06:12 pm »

I have had the odd client ask me why I haven't got one but they didn't seem the types to buy me anything from it if I did. I don't know how to do it anyway, I can't find it as I don't log on that often and don't use all the features.

If I see it I might put something funny in it and, for a laugh only!!, put on my profile that if anyone can find me what's on my wlist then they can have a free session but then with ebay and the likes around someone might find it. Just a thought I've just had for a bit of lightheartedness on my profile.

Dani · « **Reply #14 on:** 18 August 2015, 09:22:31 pm »

I put one up just to see if they work and was surprised when I started receiving things from it form men I had never met who live hundreds of miles from me but wanted to send me a little something after viewing my PGs and videos

As one man put 'I have given him hours and hours of pleasure for very little money so the gift was a thankyou

I do tend to only have work related stuff on AW and try to keep most of it quite cheap

It is a lovely feeling when you receive a gift from a complete stranger just because they wanted to do something nice for you

If I do know who sent it as they added their AW name I then give them the PIN numbers to all my albums as a thankyou in return

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The_Lynx

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Nia Hope

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MsDee

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Siorse

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Nia Hope

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cheesypeas

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sensualmilf

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avery

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MsDee

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Emma_C

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Kay

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SweetSummers

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Dexi Delite

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Bluetits

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Dani

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