I’m just posting here for some advice regarding a rather unpleasant service provider. She outed my saafe username to hundreds (maybe more) punters by sharing a link to a warning I posted on here about a regular of hers. A warning she discredited.

I had to get rid of my busy adult work profile full of feedback and reports and make a new one because of punters now linking my escorting name to all my posts and warnings here.
After just 2hrs of my new aw profile, she then posted my new adult work link on the same punting website.

I have an anonymous name on here so my warnings don’t get linked to me but again, unfortunately this service provider has potentially put me in a dangerous situation as well as trying to ruin my escorting career.

Now, I’m not the only one she’s been malicious to and caused problems with.
I’ve had numerous sps from different parts of the uk messaging me with support as she’s slated them on review sites and turned clients against them.

She targeted me when I started up in her area, trying to be buddies, but because I had already been warned against her, I chose not to engage.

I’ve had clients come and see me, saying she’s talked about me and other SPs during bookings.

Anyway I’m not really fussed about the bitchy gossip.
 
I’m more concerned about her constant outting of my details and sharing my info online etc. Trolling my profiles and potentially putting me in danger.

Like I said, several SPs have contacted me saying she targeted them when they first started too.

I feel ladies should be aware of her, especially newbies but am at a loss of where to do it.

I feel your pain.

I have a slightly different story but basically a lady who I used to work with shared my personal phone number with her clients and they contacted me trying to scare me into not working anymore. Due to persistent messages I had to change said number. Thankfully since then it’s gone quiet but I am unable to work certain areas due to this. Therefore I’m in the process of setting up a new profile so this woman does not follow me anymore.

Think of it as if it was a client giving you grief this way. You’d go to the police right? She is putting your safety at risk, so surely if you make a report it will be dealt with in a similar manner. I’d go to NUM and ask for a SW friendly officer in your local area and go from there. It’s up to you but I would have done the same if things progressed to your level.

Stay safe x

Bloody hell, I really sympathise with you. I just don’t how someone, who knows how hard this industry can be, can go out of their way to make it harder.
I did think of NUM but thought I maybe wasting their time, but I’ll at least contact them and see what they suggest.
I wonder if the police may help? I can’t see how though.
Xx

This could be a reminder to keep knowledge of pseudonyms private, respect both privacy and confidentiality.

You didn't 'have' to give up your Adultwork profile, you chose to - there's a difference and there are plenty of people here who have lost theirs and had no choice over it at all. I post freely here and if I ever even contemplated giving a shit about what people said about me on the internet I'd never leave the house.

If somebody is causing you real life problems then NUM are definitely worth a call - they're not just there for problem punters, and harrassment is an offence. We're certainly not going to engage in any sort of cross-board squabbling here since it's just one person's word against another's (and never ends in anything other than a stupid and annoying catfight) so the best course of action is likely not to fuel the fire even more by playing it out in public and go through appropriate offline channels instead .

And since this is also nothing whatsoever to do with sex work and I have a busy afternoon, locked.