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Gypsy

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What to do first???
« on: 12 September 2015, 02:04:42 pm »
As I've said before in previous posts I am back living with my mother after I walked out on my ex. I'm totally new to escorting, although I've read loads of helpful threads here and I have cammed before so I'm not completely new to sex work.

But here's my dilemma.

I've got some cash together, just enough to buy a modest house outright and previously thought I would wait until I moved house again before I start to escort. It would be a lot easier living on my own than having someone else potentially overhearing phone calls etc. Plus, I would feel more at ease doing incalls then even if I did them at a hotel (I live near Blackpool, btw, so no shortage there) ;) At the moment, my ex is paying me rent ?400 per month so I have a little bit of income, so I would only need to escort part time if I pay in full for my house. I am after a house btw coz I don't want a leasehold if I can help it.

So in theory this all sounds great but I'm worried that if I do it this way round I might not have any business. I know I'm going to get loads of TW's at first but hopefully I've read enough threads here to suss most of them out.

What do you think, girls? Is it best to sign up to AW and various other sites now before I move to see how I go on, or do you think it would be all right to move first? My mum is retired so we spend a lot of time together in her house so I'm limited when taking phone calls. I haven't got another job at the moment so thinking up excuses why I need to go out could be an issue. Fortunately, I have loads of friends who I see quite a lot of so it could be worse. I could always say I'm off out with XYZ or something.

Any thoughts/advice is most welcome :)
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mature helen

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Re: What to do first???
« Reply #1 on: 12 September 2015, 03:04:11 pm »
Personally if it were me I would move first.

Siorse

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Re: What to do first???
« Reply #2 on: 12 September 2015, 03:25:58 pm »
I would have to agree with Helen.. It's hard to live a double life, especially if you live under the same roof with someone you want to
hide things from..!!
And your friends, you'll end up weaving a web of lies and almost guaranteed trip yourself up at some point (or you say you're out with X,
when X was out with Y at that time, if you know what I mean..)
If it was me, I would wait til I'd moved, and had some more freedom to do what I wanted without having to make up excuses..
Good luck whatever you decide!
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Kay

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Re: What to do first???
« Reply #3 on: 12 September 2015, 03:29:00 pm »
Yes, if you can buy a house, I'd do that - plus you can think about in-call suitability while you're looking. Then once you're in, you can tailor your marketing etc. accordingly.
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Gypsy

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Re: What to do first???
« Reply #4 on: 12 September 2015, 06:04:18 pm »
Thanks, girls!  :) I think that would be the best thing to do as well. Just worried I'd end up doing things back to front. This forum is so great, I would be going crazy without it!
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annabellexoxo

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Re: What to do first???
« Reply #5 on: 14 September 2015, 11:36:15 am »
Indeed, the best is to move out first

Gypsy

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Re: What to do first???
« Reply #6 on: 14 September 2015, 04:34:04 pm »
Thanks, Anna. I've got so many houses to view this week I don't know whether I'm coming (no pun intended ;) ) or going!
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