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KimD

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #15 on: 20 November 2018, 04:39:31 pm »
He could be playing you or he might really like you, more than just sexually.

How about an existential approach?

Rather than worrying about where this all might lead, or if it's the "right thing" to do... how about spending more time with him, enjoying his company and getting to know him better? The less time you spend worrying, speculating, especially about marriage (?!) the better. You'll find things just happen organically if you are right for each other.

Don't be scared to fall in love but understand how vulnerable you make yourself by doing so. You might end up being hurt.
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English Green

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #16 on: 20 November 2018, 04:50:31 pm »
He is taking advantage of the opportunity you have given him!!

If he really liked you and wanted to date you not just for sex you would know this as he would be interested in taking you out spending time with you non sex and getting to know you and you're life even surprising you with little gifts etc all the usual stuff.

He just wants you for sex probably but you cannot blame him you have given him it all free on a plate and if you enjoy the arrangement just go with it but i do not think this man will be the marrying one for you.


PissedOffPrincess

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #17 on: 20 November 2018, 08:34:02 pm »
You said you are having hours of wild sex with your fuck buddy.
Maybe thats as he sees it too just that.

Are You reading too much into it or is he considerate to you (as he should be )
If it is only raw sex and no friends on dates other then only sex looks like you both have a fuck buddy or he would want to introduce you to his friends imo.

Enjoy it for what it is  and if more comes from it all the better.

LotusFlower

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #18 on: 21 November 2018, 12:36:22 pm »
This really does sound like just a bit of casual fun. If you had met in any other circumstance, and it was just all about sex, would you still question if it was going anywhere?

I went on a date with a client last week, and that's exactly what it was: a date. He took me out. There was no mention of sex. He didn't look at me like a hooker. He wasn't sleazy. He's asked me out again, and has planned another amazing date. If the guy was interested in you really, he'd be taking you out and doing something wonderful that he knows you'd enjoy.

I'm sorry, but you need to call a spade, a spade.

Rosesugar

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #19 on: 21 November 2018, 12:43:26 pm »
The rules.. I read that some years ago I laughed at myself so much of it was true.