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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: jellib33 on 19 November 2018, 01:24:27 am
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Hello everyone.
I was wondering if you know or have married a client. It is going to sound stupid like the movie pretty woman. I have a new client in his mid 30s and I find him attractive. I am in my late 20s. He has a successful career in the medical field, good looking. He said he is new to this and I figured since I don't have a boyfriend we have now become fuck buddies. I want to see if I actually have a chance or if I'm most likely getting played. Lol.
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Is your intention to marry this client?I think there's a few threads on here about relationships including clients.
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Has he asked you out?
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No but he mentioned the typical sailing date or ball. Of course this could be all talk as well, and right now we don't have that kind of relationship. He only comes over for a few hours to f*ck. lol think I am answering my own question
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You get what you want out of this but don't have expectations
Is he paying you for Sex currently? Or is he getting it for free?
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I think you need to decide if you are going to date him before you stat worrying about marrying him don't you?Bit of jumping the gun there!You might not even get on outside of a booking.
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Don't know the full story here.. But if he's coming over for sex and you met in a transactional relationship manner...
Then surely hes just taking the opportunity?
Not sure what this has to do with marriage but I don't want you to get hurt..
Ive had clients genuinely interested in me before and they would NEVER not pay for a session. They would ask me out on a date if they have developed feelings.
It's completely fine, a bonus really, to have affection but please never stop charging.
If you get a proposal that WON'T be because you gave it for free. The direct opposite usually happens..
I think you need to learn a bit more about how men think.
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I understand. He is coming by and we are having wild sex for free. I mean he is good looking but yes we can guess where it's heading :-X
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I do know several escorts who have ended up marrying their clients but I think your getting a little ahead of yourself on this occasion since it doesn't even sound like your even formally dating and you yourself refer to him as a "fuck buddy".
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my friend married a client and he ended up noncing her daughter off, im not saying all clients are peados but be careful as you dont no what his intentions are. would u really want to marry a client? he could throw work in your face at any oppourtinty. if he cheated on u he would just think oh well she has sex with other pepole so its ok, xx
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I know a friend of mine who married one of her white British clients (she’s black african) -the worse mistake of her life
He was physically and emotionally abusive towards her and child which she had from another guy ..always complaining she was giving him sex as much as he wanted.
He continued seeing other escorts and spending on them for overnights while my friend sat with her child no bills being paid.
He eventually threw her out n divorced her and tried to get her deported.
She’s back to escorting after three years marrying tht idiot.
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my friend married a client and he ended up noncing her daughter off, im not saying all clients are peados but be careful as you dont no what his intentions are. would u really want to marry a client? he could throw work in your face at any oppourtinty. if he cheated on u he would just think oh well she has sex with other pepole so its ok, xx
So could any other person punter or not.
It's a risk with anyone unless you don't ever tell them, then of course you are at risk of blackmail and further upset.
It is quite possible to form a relationship with a client, and marry them, just depends on the two people.
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Sounds like he’s taking advantage tbh. Be careful x ::)
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There's a few threads about relationships with clients, but where have you got the idea of marriage from? Is this something he's hinted at?
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I understand. He is coming by and we are having wild sex for free. I mean he is good looking but yes we can guess where it's heading :-X
If you guys are only meeting for sex he's a fuck buddy as it hasn't moved into the dating territory yet. However you're already hearing wedding bells :-) Be careful of getting hurted and don;t forget fuck buddies can last for years as he has a good thing going on (for free). in the meanwhile I wouldn't invest emotionally in this guy, but hey ho enjoy the good sex while it lasts :-)
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He could be playing you or he might really like you, more than just sexually.
How about an existential approach?
Rather than worrying about where this all might lead, or if it's the "right thing" to do... how about spending more time with him, enjoying his company and getting to know him better? The less time you spend worrying, speculating, especially about marriage (?!) the better. You'll find things just happen organically if you are right for each other.
Don't be scared to fall in love but understand how vulnerable you make yourself by doing so. You might end up being hurt.
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He is taking advantage of the opportunity you have given him!!
If he really liked you and wanted to date you not just for sex you would know this as he would be interested in taking you out spending time with you non sex and getting to know you and you're life even surprising you with little gifts etc all the usual stuff.
He just wants you for sex probably but you cannot blame him you have given him it all free on a plate and if you enjoy the arrangement just go with it but i do not think this man will be the marrying one for you.
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You said you are having hours of wild sex with your fuck buddy.
Maybe thats as he sees it too just that.
Are You reading too much into it or is he considerate to you (as he should be )
If it is only raw sex and no friends on dates other then only sex looks like you both have a fuck buddy or he would want to introduce you to his friends imo.
Enjoy it for what it is and if more comes from it all the better.
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This really does sound like just a bit of casual fun. If you had met in any other circumstance, and it was just all about sex, would you still question if it was going anywhere?
I went on a date with a client last week, and that's exactly what it was: a date. He took me out. There was no mention of sex. He didn't look at me like a hooker. He wasn't sleazy. He's asked me out again, and has planned another amazing date. If the guy was interested in you really, he'd be taking you out and doing something wonderful that he knows you'd enjoy.
I'm sorry, but you need to call a spade, a spade.
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The rules.. I read that some years ago I laughed at myself so much of it was true.