Hey ladies,
Okay so I know I am probably gonna get it for my complete stupidity on this one, but here it goes...
I have a client that has been seeing me once a week for about a year and a half now. In the beginning, we would occasionally go for lunch, drinks sometimes, etc. Since he's been seeing me so long the lines of course got kind of blurred and I knew we would never ever have an actual relationship but there were times I would let him just stay to hang out and we would just drink and chat, that would be for free. Or because he is actually really hard to cum but I still liked him as a person, it somehow became a thing where he would come over occasionally and "focus on me", and other times where I would "focus on him" were the times he would actually pay for.
A few weeks ago I went on a trip with him, and okay so somehow it ended up me paying for half of the airfare and him the other half, I had to use some of my own extra money for travel money and whatever, and this was actually all ok with me (I guess in my head all I really wanted was a vacation, it's been a while since I've been on one).
Anyway long story short, two of his friends were there for the entire trip (of course male), and let's just say that there were tons of occasions where it was very clear to me that I was perceived as some money hungry whore, was showered with subtle insults here and there, mostly didn't speak as I was the only female on the trip and they are all long time friends, and they had that rich male bonding asshole thing going on (as sterotypical as it is lol).
When I got back I though things were fine and it's whatever, I put it in perspective that yes I get it I'm a sex worker etc. a part of that is putting up with guy's shit. But like honestly, after that he booked me this week, cancelled morning of, don't know if he did that as some sort of power trip or for whatever reason because I decided even though I felt unwelcomed during the majority of the trip I was not going to be apologetic for my behavior. I had to travel back alone since he stayed longer and he knew that I was anxious for many reasons such as traveling alone back to Canada (which makes it so clear that I am as sheltered in every single way as can be, lol). I can see clearly I'm just some sort of disposal type thing that he can flex his ego in front of his friends, and fuck around with me knowing (or knowing but not caring) that I have to deal with these weird and totally unnecessary feelings of shittiness after.
What would you do in a situation like this? To be honest we do the whole step daughter step father roleplay, and he does have an actual stepdaughter, and it's just starting to really piss me off how I can clearly see I am treated with disrespect while I am doing him a favour in re-enacting his stupid roleplay so he doesn't act all rapey in his real life. What would you do? Confront him or just cut him off? I was pretty silent the whole trip as I was afraid that any of my contributions to any sort of friendliness and engagement in conversation would be declined, and I've been silent since, and I understand it's my job as a sex worker, but I mean seriously, when does that threshold of dealing with a mans fragile ego is enough?
I understand we have to deal with shit, I would consider that I have thick skin when it comes to dealing with many situations and letting it go, which does give me a lot of strength in being an escort, but I find as I get *slightly* older and maybe more knowledgeable in "the game" and the manipulation, I really am starting to have zero tolerance lol. What are your thoughts ladies?