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Adele7

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Was I rude?
« on: 21 April 2017, 02:53:41 pm »
The other day I had a client that sounded like a broken record. He just would not stop groaning "Emmmmmm" with the exact 2 second gap time between each "Emmmmmm".
At one point I stopped the BJ and he just continued doing it. This really really irritate the hell out of me. He obviously wasn't doing it because he enjoyed what I was doing, rather, as a very annoying habit.

I reached the point of insanity and hinted something to him. I did it a few times and it was quite clear what I was referring too but he chose to ignore it. I just wanted to jack it all in as it was become psychologically disturbing. Just before I did I quite aggressively told him "Please please Stop, I cat bare the sound of that anymore"

Has anyone else had a similar experience? If so, hw do you resolve a situation like this?
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BibiofLeeds

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #1 on: 21 April 2017, 03:01:25 pm »
Yes I've had clients make weird sex noises during bookings.How did I handle it?I just got on with the booking and let them make whatever weird noises they liked.As long as they are not harming me,disrespecting me or trying to engage me in offensive chat while I am servicing them then I can quite easily ignore the strange groans.
It might have been a nervous thing.Either way it doesn't sound like he was doing it to piss anyone off and I do think you were abit harsh telling him off.
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SheilaStar

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #2 on: 21 April 2017, 03:45:41 pm »
It sounds like it could it could have been a 'tic' disorder. Was he doing that only during sex?

It is difficult. I would try to put up with it, unless I was in a rage that day. If I thought it was a disorder that he couldn't help I would try to be more understanding. If it was so irritating that I couldn't put up with it at all I think I wouldn't see him again.
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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #3 on: 21 April 2017, 04:05:14 pm »
Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 21 April 2017, 03:01:25 pm
Yes I've had clients make weird sex noises during bookings.How did I handle it?I just got on with the booking and let them make whatever weird noises they liked.As long as they are not harming me,disrespecting me or trying to engage me in offensive chat while I am servicing them then I can quite easily ignore the strange groans.
It might have been a nervous thing.Either way it doesn't sound like he was doing it to piss anyone off and I do think you were abit harsh telling him off.

I agree it's an hour or whatever time he's booked with you, I might notice it and mention it in a jokey way.

On the other hand I struggle with verbal nodders, you know those who say "Yep, yep, yep" when I'm giving information on the phone. I used to get annoyed with people who say "Really, did you?" to everything, then I realised it's simply their way of acknowledgment and not taking the P out of me.

Sorry I digress, message is sort of the same - it's just something they do.
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meetingdiversity

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #4 on: 21 April 2017, 05:13:19 pm »
Quote from: Adele7 on 21 April 2017, 02:53:41 pm
The other day I had a client that sounded like a broken record. He just would not stop groaning "Emmmmmm" with the exact 2 second gap time between each "Emmmmmm".
At one point I stopped the BJ and he just continued doing it. This really really irritate the hell out of me. He obviously wasn't doing it because he enjoyed what I was doing, rather, as a very annoying habit.

I reached the point of insanity and hinted something to him. I did it a few times and it was quite clear what I was referring too but he chose to ignore it. I just wanted to jack it all in as it was become psychologically disturbing. Just before I did I quite aggressively told him "Please please Stop, I cat bare the sound of that anymore"

Has anyone else had a similar experience? If so, hw do you resolve a situation like this?

I get this some times on the phone that is when I decline a booking. Erm..... So what services was you wanting? Erm..... When was you wanting to book Ermm.... I think it is them deciding Ermmm... It is in Belfast more like. Is Erm even a word crikes.
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meetingdiversity

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #5 on: 21 April 2017, 05:18:08 pm »
During bookings though it doesn't bother me but can't recal any saying Erm to me. They make noises when they cum it is the quiet ones that puzzle me. Like let me try and turn in to a psychic.
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lillybliss

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #6 on: 21 April 2017, 06:03:42 pm »
I've had guy's that make weird sex noises too, I think they've been watching far to much porn  ;D
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GothGirl

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #7 on: 21 April 2017, 06:04:44 pm »


Oh ffs. I would have cut the booking short. I don't know if it's our line of work, but recently I'm getting irritated by the smallest things 😫


Quote from: Adele7 on 21 April 2017, 02:53:41 pm
The other day I had a client that sounded like a broken record. He just would not stop groaning "Emmmmmm" with the exact 2 second gap time between each "Emmmmmm".
At one point I stopped the BJ and he just continued doing it. This really really irritate the hell out of me. He obviously wasn't doing it because he enjoyed what I was doing, rather, as a very annoying habit.

I reached the point of insanity and hinted something to him. I did it a few times and it was quite clear what I was referring too but he chose to ignore it. I just wanted to jack it all in as it was become psychologically disturbing. Just before I did I quite aggressively told him "Please please Stop, I cat bare the sound of that anymore"

Has anyone else had a similar experience? If so, hw do you resolve a situation like this?
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sweetmilf

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #8 on: 21 April 2017, 06:58:16 pm »
I don't think you were rude, you said "please" stop.  There are men, who seriously wound us up in their most annoying ways.  I had such one this afternoon.  Not like I am in a position to pick and choose as I like.     :-\  However...Honesty is the best way.  At least, this man learned that this habit was annoying to women. 
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Adele7

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #9 on: 21 April 2017, 07:40:13 pm »
Yes it was only through sex but dont forget when I stopped for about 10 seconds he still continued doing it. It was like he didnt realise I had stopped! He sounded like one of those old wind up toys. The same sound, same pitch just on a forever repeat!

Don't get me wrong, I'm an escort and have heard all times of moans and groans like you all have, but nothing as mentally disturbing to me as this!

And yip, those guys who call on the phone and are forever on repeat before you even finish a sentence "Ok", "Alright", "Yip" dont get to see me. OMG I would loose my mind!
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sweetmilf

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #10 on: 21 April 2017, 08:17:49 pm »
Quote from: Adele7 link=topic=38090.msg289743#msg289743 date=
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OMG I would loose my mind!

 Good to know I wasn't the only one..!  ;D  :FF
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Justine

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Re: Was I rude?
« Reply #11 on: 22 April 2017, 12:55:54 am »
A client I have known a very long time does such an annoying thing when he is down giving me oral. He starts making those moaning noises which I think sound silly coming from a man. I dread him starting it and know he will do it every time. I hate it but say nothing. Putting up with the sexy moans from him is a small price to pay for an hour of ok sex and a fat fee in my pocket.
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