Author Topic: Uncomfortable age play booking (Read 8048 times)

aimee1987 · « **on:** 11 January 2014, 05:49:31 pm »

Hi ladies,
Went to an outcall in Leicester, very strange set up where the guy's wife and carers are at the property. He is late 60s and iikes school girl role play. Throughout the booking he made me feel very uncomfortable as he kept asking me to act and to talk about underage girls. He also had very loud porn on the TV which was young girls whilst his wife was downstairs. He was very controlling and kept telling me what to do and say; I felt very uncomfortable as he was talking about some sick stuff. I should have just left but was abit scared. I am worried about whether he acts out his fantasies with underage girls. I know school girl fetish is common but this guy really took it too far. His address is in the LE2 area and told me he was a regular booker. PM me for further details and his number. Stay safe! x

curvy_girl · « **Reply #1 on:** 11 January 2014, 05:58:12 pm »

Wow, his wife was there? That just there would stop me dead in my tracks, I am sorry you had this. I hope you won't get into that situation again!

aimee1987 · « **Reply #2 on:** 11 January 2014, 06:01:49 pm »

Hi
Didn't know she was going to be, she is disabled and was downstairs. He says she is ok with it. Yes it was a horrible situation

amy · « **Reply #3 on:** 11 January 2014, 06:02:01 pm »

Aimee, it sounds like an unpleasant booking and he should have been clear with you beforehand if he wanted a serious age play scenario as a lot of people aren't comfortable with this (whether incest is involved or not), but it's just roleplay, and arranging for a consenting adult prostitute to act out a fantasy scenario does not make anybody a paedophile and doesn't merit a post in the warnings section. Paedophiles aren't interested in adults.

If the porn you mentioned depicted people whom you believe were underage, then definitely inform the police, but bar that the only wrongdoing as far as I can see is him booking you without being clear as to what he wanted, and whether or not any of us would be keen there are plenty of people out there who are fine providing these sorts of roleplay services.

aimee1987 · « **Reply #4 on:** 11 January 2014, 06:11:21 pm »

I understand that school girl role play is a common request and I have no problem with this. Without going into details in my opinion this guy took it too far and clearly I have no way of knowing for sure if he has an interest in young girls. However due to the nature of his requests and he way he expected me to act I felt extremely uncomfortable and I take your point but as the client did not ask me beforehand I felt it only fair to warn others who may not be happy being asked to act as though they are a child whilst performing a sex act.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #5 on:** 11 January 2014, 06:57:41 pm »

Hey Aimee

The whole set up sounds absolutely horrendous, sorry you had to deal with that. I know you say his wife is disabled and is ok with it (although I doubt she's ok with it, prob has to just deal with it) but what about the carers? Surely they would not like to be in a place where loud porn is going on, prostitutes coming round and all sorts? Yuck!

But as Amy said, it makes complete sense. Although he is quite clearly a dirty old creepy man, he aint breaking the law by having consented sex with an adult though I understand why you may wonder if he has ever crossed that line in the past or if he intends to in the future as I would think the same way. As Amy pointed out already though, if you think that was some sort of sick underage porn then that may be worth reporting to the police as indecent images/videos is illegal and does come under pedophellia I think.

xx

CandyPink99 · « **Reply #6 on:** 11 January 2014, 11:48:51 pm »

I've had requests like this before and although I feel so uncomfortable doing them I sometimes think maybe if them acting out such thoughts in their heads out on me stops them from maybe doing it to a vulnerable child then maybe it's not such a bad thing for them to ask me. In no way at all do I condone any kind of child abuse at all and the thought tbh sickens me, but i'd rather those thoughts were let out in a controlled atmosphere and on someone who isnt going to be emotionally or physically harmed by it. If their was ever a concern where I thought something had happened to a child however then i'd have to somehow involve the police.

Its a tough one and a v touchy subject. Thats just my personal view but could deffinitly understand another person being completely repulsed and not want anything to do with it. You mentioned the young porn though, if this was child pornography then this is something you seriously need to report!!

xw5 · « **Reply #7 on:** 12 January 2014, 12:19:54 am »

Quote from: aimee1987 on 11 January 2014, 06:01:49 pm

Didn't know she was going to be, she is disabled and was downstairs. He says she is ok with it.

Ouch, that's something he really should have mentioned ahead of time.

'He would say that, wouldn't he?' Mandy Rice Davies.

River · « **Reply #8 on:** 12 January 2014, 12:27:03 am »

Quote from: aimee1987 on 11 January 2014, 05:49:31 pm

Hi ladies,
Went to an outcall....

Hi Aimee.
Years ago I had a similar client who manipulated a session. Previously he was a regular and always very short sessions.
This meeting however was a long one so a lot of money was exchanged. This got in the way of common sense.
Later he slowly and subtly changed this session to rollplay,
....then to him talking to me as though I was his relative,
then later as though I was his young relative.
This totally mucked my head up for about 5 days, during which, I couldn't work.
The reality was that while it clearly had a huge impact on me,
I am an adult, no laws were broken, and as an adult despite allowing myself to be manipulated,
I could have stopped the session at any point. The money was an issue which effected my judgement.

The other posters make good points, I wish I'd read similar after the session I'd had.
In both your booking and mine, no laws were broken, and both these clients are engaging with adults.
I don't think paedo's do roll play with other adults before / in between assaulting children.

What I would say is that this has left me in a different position.
From one of being manipulated and badly affected subsequently.
To knowing that in the future, if a similar scenario started, I would stop the session
and refund Coin for the unused part of the session.
That would make me a stronger person inside.
{and hopefully you too after a period of time and reflection}

It really is best for you to just put this behind you and move on (stronger).

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #9 on:** 13 January 2014, 01:35:01 am »

Quote from: Pink~Princess on 11 January 2014, 06:57:41 pm

but what about the carers? Surely they would not like to be in a place where loud porn is going on, prostitutes coming round and all sorts? Yuck!

Why not? If he's THAT disabled, they would/should be trained to deal with this situation. Disabled people are entitled to enjoy sex too.

LithyBony · « **Reply #10 on:** 13 January 2014, 02:00:11 am »

Really it's a far stretch of the imagination to think that guys who enjoy the school girl role play could also be actually interested in school girls. I am sure the authentic would be more fulfilling than the fake.

I could never offer that service but for those that do you can't really be surprised when they act it out to the full extent.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #11 on:** 13 January 2014, 08:48:28 am »

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 13 January 2014, 01:35:01 am

Quote from: Pink~Princess on 11 January 2014, 06:57:41 pm
but what about the carers? Surely they would not like to be in a place where loud porn is going on, prostitutes coming round and all sorts? Yuck!

Why not? If he's THAT disabled, they would/should be trained to deal with this situation. Disabled people are entitled to enjoy sex too.

Ummmm its his WIFE that's disabled! NOT him, I am surprised that out of everything in this post, him being entitled to enjoy good sex is the only thing you have to say. Of course a disabled person is entitled to enjoy sex like everyone else and yes I am sure carers have even so much as organised escorts for some disabled people HOWEVER this isn't really the norm is it? We're talking about an escort being made to feel extremely uncomfortable with him being so controlling, talking about some sick stuff, wife & carers in the house along with really loud and what appears to be underage girls in the porn he had on. Seems like a horrible situation to be in especially when she wasn't pre-warned of the set up.

I may have read the OP's post wrong, maybe him AND his wife are disabled but I think from what I can see its just the wife!!

Also someone in my family is a carer and I know for a fact they are not trained to be in a situation like that. Not everyone is open minded in the sense where they feel they should have to cross paths with prostitutes at their work, who knows what kind of trouble it can bring as not all escorts are decent & honest.

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #12 on:** 13 January 2014, 02:13:52 pm »

Quote from: Pink~Princess on 13 January 2014, 08:48:28 am

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 13 January 2014, 01:35:01 am
Quote from: Pink~Princess on 11 January 2014, 06:57:41 pm
but what about the carers? Surely they would not like to be in a place where loud porn is going on, prostitutes coming round and all sorts? Yuck!

Why not? If he's THAT disabled, they would/should be trained to deal with this situation. Disabled people are entitled to enjoy sex too.

Ummmm its his WIFE that's disabled! NOT him, I am surprised that out of everything in this post, him being entitled to enjoy good sex is the only thing you have to say. Of course a disabled person is entitled to enjoy sex like everyone else and yes I am sure carers have even so much as organised escorts for some disabled people HOWEVER this isn't really the norm is it? We're talking about an escort being made to feel extremely uncomfortable with him being so controlling, talking about some sick stuff, wife & carers in the house along with really loud and what appears to be underage girls in the porn he had on. Seems like a horrible situation to be in especially when she wasn't pre-warned of the set up.

I may have read the OP's post wrong, maybe him AND his wife are disabled but I think from what I can see its just the wife!!

Also someone in my family is a carer and I know for a fact they are not trained to be in a situation like that. Not everyone is open minded in the sense where they feel they should have to cross paths with prostitutes at their work, who knows what kind of trouble it can bring as not all escorts are decent & honest.

"the guy's wife and carers" - I read that to mean his wife and his carers. And he didn't have underage porn, he had "young girls" - although if it WAS underage porn I should hope the OP will report him.

Anyway, I agree with everyone that he should have asked about role play/age play before the booking, as this isn't something every escort offers and is certainly not a standard "GFE".

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #13 on:** 13 January 2014, 03:08:51 pm »

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 13 January 2014, 02:13:52 pm

Quote from: Pink~Princess on 13 January 2014, 08:48:28 am
Quote from: Cat_BBW on 13 January 2014, 01:35:01 am
Quote from: Pink~Princess on 11 January 2014, 06:57:41 pm
but what about the carers? Surely they would not like to be in a place where loud porn is going on, prostitutes coming round and all sorts? Yuck!

Why not? If he's THAT disabled, they would/should be trained to deal with this situation. Disabled people are entitled to enjoy sex too.

Ummmm its his WIFE that's disabled! NOT him, I am surprised that out of everything in this post, him being entitled to enjoy good sex is the only thing you have to say. Of course a disabled person is entitled to enjoy sex like everyone else and yes I am sure carers have even so much as organised escorts for some disabled people HOWEVER this isn't really the norm is it? We're talking about an escort being made to feel extremely uncomfortable with him being so controlling, talking about some sick stuff, wife & carers in the house along with really loud and what appears to be underage girls in the porn he had on. Seems like a horrible situation to be in especially when she wasn't pre-warned of the set up.

I may have read the OP's post wrong, maybe him AND his wife are disabled but I think from what I can see its just the wife!!

Also someone in my family is a carer and I know for a fact they are not trained to be in a situation like that. Not everyone is open minded in the sense where they feel they should have to cross paths with prostitutes at their work, who knows what kind of trouble it can bring as not all escorts are decent & honest.

"the guy's wife and carers" - I read that to mean his wife and his carers. And he didn't have underage porn, he had "young girls" - although if it WAS underage porn I should hope the OP will report him.

Anyway, I agree with everyone that he should have asked about role play/age play before the booking, as this isn't something every escort offers and is certainly not a standard "GFE".

Yes but then the OP wrote this.......................

Hi
Didn't know she was going to be, she is disabled and was downstairs. He says she is ok with it. Yes it was a horrible situation

Which is why I am unsure if I have read her post wrong or not BUT like I said whether someone is disabled or not doesn't mean its ok to make someone feel so uncomfortable or to not inform them of the set up they are walking into. The OP even went as far as to say she felt scared.

I wouldn't accept a non disabled person to be so creepy and intimidating so I wouldn't accept it from someone disabled either but each to their own.

And the OP said the porn had young girls on it, that could mean underage for all she knew. Were you there? You seem to know all the facts. I am just going by what I have read throughout the thread.

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