I've come across a few idiots attempting bareback in my time despite making it completely clear that I do not offer this service.  Problem is I only start to realise what I have on my hands when I meet them.

I've noticed that BB/boundary pushers - like to turn the lights off or down, give a lot of exaggerated flattery, are very curious about how you decide which clients are safe to meet, offer alcohol, seem to lack any sense of humour, often will make outfit requests prior to meeting that even if you are not comfortable with will still try and  pursue.

I was very disappointed today to meet a BB pusher who had many positive aw feedbacks.

I was hoping we could try and piece together some warning signs to look out for prior to meeting someone to avoid potentially dangerous situations?  Any input really appreciated!

I've come across a few idiots attempting bareback in my time despite making it completely clear that I do not offer this service.  Problem is I only start to realise what I have on my hands when I meet them.

I've noticed that BB/boundary pushers - like to turn the lights off or down, give a lot of exaggerated flattery, are very curious about how you decide which clients are safe to meet, offer alcohol, seem to lack any sense of humour, often will make outfit requests prior to meeting that even if you are not comfortable with will still try and  pursue.

I was very disappointed today to meet a BB pusher who had many positive aw feedbacks.

I was hoping we could try and piece together some warning signs to look out for prior to meeting someone to avoid potentially dangerous situations?  Any input really appreciated!

The overdone flattery always bugs me. They think I will be so overcome with pleasure that they find me so utterly wonderful  and I know these are the men who I will probably not want to see again for some reason.  Not had a problem with men trying for bb though, I think I have been very lucky on that score.

Are you a member of ugly mugs scheme?  It's often a mystery to me, even if they were reported, these men will keep seeing new escorts. Mind you, some have multiple numbers, either an escort hasn't got much time to get their number checked out before the meeting.  Or, they assume "he's safe" as he sounded "very friendly".  They don't check numbers at all.

I had one chap of late.  He complained to me repeatedly before and after the booking that other escorts have texted him all the info without "having to talk on the phone first".  "This is the first time (an escort) asked me to have a phone conversation. "  This man was a nice guy, and I assume he hated talking on the phone.  I doubt he knows there are reasons why escorts use the phone.  It was odd as "he had so many feedbacks".  He should know these things.

Definitely think it's sensible to not see punters who overdo the flattery....a sincere compliment fair enough but otherwise to me that is a sign they are after something and it shows they are dishonest. Plus I feel like they think I must be dumb enough to buy into their bs! !

Some start the exaggerated flattery once they arrive though.  If I get a text or email and it is included I can avoid if I choose but once they are in the room and have paid up, it can be a pain to listen to and is not always a sign they are after dubious services but I hate it anyway.

As for the boundary pushes it does normally start with over the top flattery....then txt messages. I ignore any messages that are not to do with bookings...it really annoys me as it's not a dating site. It's a service site. To start declaring there undying attraction to me I reply that my boyfriend is my business partner and doesn't appreciate the personal no work related messages coming through. They normally take the hint.x

If the attempt to remove the condom the booking is cancelled or void..wether it's ten minutes into a one hour booking and they do not get refund.

I did exactly the same.

You don't have to have a go at them...just state at the beginning do not take the condom off if u want it off for more oral please ask and I will happily oblige...if u remove with out my knowledge and attempt intercourse the booking will be cancelled....im sure any decent guy will understand were your point is coming from. Even appreciate the fact your conscious about your health.

I just think we shouldn?t need to say this, these guys know they are doing something wrong and they still do it.   Decent guys would never dream of it.

I would never advocate having a go but politely but firmly telling them off has to be done sometimes  and if they won?t listen politely telling them to leave.

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