Hi all. In my early 30’s I used to do escorting, outcalls only, in London and South East for about 3 years, after moving to UK from Europe, as a main job (doing part time work on top of that and studying on the side, funded by escorting). Then I managed to get a normal full-time job, decently paid, but I continued for a couple more years to do escorting part time / occasionally mainly for a limited number of regulars. Then I stopped escorting in 2018.

Fast forward, I am now 41 years old, and I am thinking to return to escorting for a while, as I lost my job and I am crap at interviews, my savings are running out quickly and I am not able to get help from family or friends.

Sorry for the long introduction but my question is if I could still get some clients, or enough clients to support myself for a while, now that I am older? Are there enough clients for us older ladies or I am now a lost case, especially if I would continue to do outcalls only? Do I need another type of marketing as an older woman, MILF maybe? I am really worried about the perspective of returning to escorting and not getting enough business because of my age!

I still have a profile on AW with a bit of feedback (but not recent) because I kept my profile going as a sort of “insurance policy,” to be able to earn some money in case things go bad again. Also, I managed to maintain a “normal weight” and I am UK dress size 10 (8 in some brands), but my face must be showing my age regardless of how hard I try with the makeup.

Sorry for the long post but I do not know what to do and it is really daunting and scary to have to start escorting again at 41.

Hiya I'm 57 (nearly 58) and have been dipping my toe in and out of the escorting world since my early 40's and my age then and now has never been a problem in attracting clients. Yes I had a few young guys looking for the 'older woman' experience but I never entertained younger guys.

I agree with AnnaConda re the majority of guys (in my experience) are generally looking for a bit of chat alongwith the sexual side of things so I would say, 'go for it' and don't let your age put you off, you're in your prime!

Best of luck x

Your absolutely not to old, I started at 37 and this year I'll be 43 and I look younger to. I attract older guys wanting companionship and girlfriend experience, Some younger guys who are awkward around women and want a caring mature lady.

Thank you ladies for encouragement. If I don’t get a job offer in the next 2 weeks I will start escorting again. Hopefully I will be more successful with escorting than I am with the job interviews.

I am 60 but look 50 so advertise as age 51. I get enough work no problem.

It depends how young you look. If you put the youngest age you can get away with them you will be fine. No point me putting age 51 if I didn't look it.

Wearing wigs can help take years off you too. May be worth experimenting.

It depends how young you look. If you put the youngest age you can get away with them you will be fine. No point me putting age 51 if I didn't look it.

Wearing wigs can help take years off you too. May be worth experimenting.

I look 51 because I am 51. When I was 50 I looked 50 because I was 50 - it isn't possible for me to look any age other than the one I am and punters can decide from my ads whether or not they want to book me.

Younger isn't better or more desirable; why would the OP want to 'take years off'?

I am 60 but look 50 so advertise as age 51. I get enough work no problem.

Same! xx