Ladies, I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with a sore vagina, after a bit of a nightmare two-hour booking with an inexperienced young man last night. He nicked me 2-3 times with his finger nails in the first 10-15 minutes, and then in the third half-hour we did a lot of doggy. Normally, this would be fine but he was totally clueless... Firstly, he kept crouching over me rather than kneeling up straight, so he would fall out (slightly shorter endowment), but secondly, and worst of all, instead of going in and building up a good rhythm he would make a few thrusts and then withdraw - and every time he re-entered he would prise my fanny apart roughly with his hands first.

I kept trying to offer advice/guidance, but to no avail, and for the last half-hour I just had to say no to more sex as he'd made me so sore (and I explained why).

It was SO sore afterwards. As he was dressing I went to the loo and put some Canesten cream on, then overnight I lathered Sudocrem around my entire vulva. Normally I would have had a salt bath (I normally keep some cheap salt in for the purpose, but had run out).

So I was wondering if anyone had any tips?? I don't really want to use any sort of numbing/anaesthetic cream, just wondered if anyone was aware of anything that would help with quicker healing and soothing?

Cheers!

Ive only ever slapped sudocrem on mine and rested it a few days. I used to have a lot of cuts from fingernails, until i had finally had a titful and put a complete ban on fingering. 

Live natural plain yog, and I like vagisil prohydrate too x

So I was wondering if anyone had any tips?? I don't really want to use any sort of numbing/anaesthetic cream, just wondered if anyone was aware of anything that would help with quicker healing and soothing?

Cheers!

A long time ago ago after a difficult birth (and very sore vagina!)  I was advised by a midwife to use badedas in a warm bath twice daily as she said it contained horse chestnut which is meant to be very healing, it did seem to ease it a bit.  Other than that all you can do really is to take a couple of paracetamols and rest, the soreness will heal at your bodies own rate probably after a day or 2.

Thanks all - just to clarify, it's not thrush, purely a mechanical injury.

I put a bit of aqueous cream on earlier, and then did a booking - luckily he was good in bed and no pain at all. Followed Cat's advice and afterwards applied some Germoloid cream to my frou frou - stang like buggery for a few minutes, but then calmed down!

Think I'll have a salt bath and then alternate Germoloid and aqueous cream for a couple of days, as well as take the odd ibuprofen.

I'm also going to man up a bit more next time and not let someone keep pawing my poor old vag 15-20 times in half an hour!

Yep, I absolutely swear by pile cream for any vulval soreness. I can't use Canestan cream for thrush (it makes me itch more!) so use pile cream externally and a pessary or live yog on a tampon internally. Sore or chafed from a tampon string/sanitary pad? Pile cream. Over enthusiastic dildoing? Pile cream. 

Yep, I absolutely swear by pile cream for any vulval soreness. I can't use Canestan cream for thrush (it makes me itch more!) so use pile cream externally and a pessary or live yog on a tampon internally. Sore or chafed from a tampon string/sanitary pad? Pile cream. Over enthusiastic dildoing? Pile cream. 

I've heard good things about pile cream for other reasons think I will have to invest in some. I too find Canestan irritates rather than helps thrush (I use multi gyn gel).

As to fingering I'm sooooo strict on it, in fact I banned it totally for a couple of years since I get very easily irritated. I'm never afraid to tell guys to stop/go gentler or just plain distract them.

My friend somehow almost never fucks. It's a service she offers, but she may only fuck one out of six clients. I guess she does this by not suggesting it. She gives good oral and is also good at the dom/kink stuff.

I fuck almost all of my clients because I just assume it's what they want.

My point is, you may be able to cut down on the problem by only fucking when they really want to by not suggesting it, focusing on oral and other services, etc.

What about doing massage and hr/bj instead of advertising full service?It's quite popular.