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cherryfcuk

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14130 on: 11 October 2023, 10:30:30 pm »
I had a lot of TW, someone using multiple numbers, and then someone who wanted to webcam to confirm an outcall.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14131 on: 11 October 2023, 11:25:48 pm »
Same, and when someone finally books it's timewaster. I can't even bare texting with them, it's never ending text exchange and they don't book. It's like they are broke and bored at home but try to message just so they can get attention. I honestly don't know what's going on. It has been quite but I was getting bookings, less than last year but I was seeing clients. Since last week it's been dead. I saw only 2 clients since Monday last week. Before I was seeing at least one a day, since I came back to London few months ago I had days when I saw no body but since last week it's been even worse

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« Reply #14132 on: 12 October 2023, 05:46:29 am »
Same, and when someone finally books it's timewaster. I can't even bare texting with them, it's never ending text exchange and they don't book. It's like they are broke and bored at home but try to message just so they can get attention. I honestly don't know what's going on. It has been quite but I was getting bookings, less than last year but I was seeing clients. Since last week it's been dead. I saw only 2 clients since Monday last week. Before I was seeing at least one a day, since I came back to London few months ago I had days when I saw no body but since last week it's been even worse
Here in my area in Scotland, the situation is similar. Last year, October was my best month.
Now I hardly get any bookings. Sometimes my phone is silent almost the whole day.  If someone writes, they only want TW or SMS ping pong.
I thought a lot about what the problem could be.
I think the problem is complex.

On the one hand, the increase in the cost of living.
Also, more and more girls choose this job. Falling demand and growing supply are hurting business in every sector.

Secondly, I see the problem in the change of advertising pages. In the UK, the two main websites are AW and VS.
VS has tightened a lot about what should not be written in the text of the ads. I think that the blank, "template" text of the ads discourages the remaining guests from making reservations.

Unfortunately, my many years of experience and statistics say that even in the normal period, demand decreases as the end of the year approaches.  November and December are always fewer customer inquiries and January is almost a dead period.
In this time of change,this  it will be catastrophic for many of us.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14133 on: 12 October 2023, 10:14:51 am »
I think how busy you are overall greatly depends what you show and how much you offer. It's not like it was years ago where less was offered and could earn loads.

For example if you don't show your face and services are considered basic to a lot of customers you probably will earn less then someone who offers more services, does videos and filming, shows face and offers full GFE and PSE.

This is what i see anyway and i don't think it's all to do with looks if you offer extreme services you can still be busy as a lot of clients do want a lot more now days.

I used to know a lady that was age 53 she would say the same that she is nothing to look at and her clients don't book her for her face and figure as such (her words not mine) but she did a lot of services PSE type with submissive extreme stuff and she earned good money most of the time. One time when she was ill and reduced all services down to basic suddenly hardly any work! That speaks volumes.

For women that tour if you pick the wrong area it can be equally quiet. Some locations are a lot quieter on the phone than other areas. So location location location can be important to what you earn.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14134 on: 12 October 2023, 11:20:03 am »
So half term is approaching - next week I think? Wondering if this will affect bookings, etc. anyone have any advice? It has been pretty dead right now and have been relying on regulars, but they typically only book the day before/ same day.
Thanks!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14135 on: 12 October 2023, 02:14:19 pm »
For me till today was ok, but today..." Silencio Stampa".I arrived this morning in Brighton. Only one message: "Do you do cuck-holders?" So, dead,  today.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14136 on: 12 October 2023, 02:34:35 pm »
I don't agree that demand has fallen. When I started working the only way to punt if you didn't want to go to a parlour/working flat or pick up a street sex worker was via the phone box cards or newspaper ads, which had no photos or useful information and would have been a gamble to say the least. There was no Google Maps, and a few years before that no mobile phones.

Now, anybody can call up a website on their phone and send a quick text having seen pictures, prices, services and got a pretty good idea of location - it would be nuts to say that punting hasn't increased over the last twenty years or so because it's accessible to virtually anyone who wants it. Like everything else, some people will always do OK and some will always struggle regardless of what they offer and there isn't always an obvious reason why, at least to us because we're not punters :)

I'm too frazzled to work after yesterday and Tuesday, so my phone is off :D

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14137 on: 12 October 2023, 02:55:34 pm »
I think how busy you are overall greatly depends what you show and how much you offer. It's not like it was years ago where less was offered and could earn loads.

For example if you don't show your face and services are considered basic to a lot of customers you probably will earn less then someone who offers more services, does videos and filming, shows face and offers full GFE and PSE.

This is what i see anyway and i don't think it's all to do with looks if you offer extreme services you can still be busy as a lot of clients do want a lot more now days.

I used to know a lady that was age 53 she would say the same that she is nothing to look at and her clients don't book her for her face and figure as such (her words not mine) but she did a lot of services PSE type with submissive extreme stuff and she earned good money most of the time. One time when she was ill and reduced all services down to basic suddenly hardly any work! That speaks volumes.

For women that tour if you pick the wrong area it can be equally quiet. Some locations are a lot quieter on the phone than other areas. So location location location can be important to what you earn.

True but when someone was busy before in the same area, was offering the same services for the same price, and now it's quite, clearly something's not right and when I hear similar thing from more girls and some are not in the UK but in other countries in Europe, it's concerning

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« Reply #14138 on: 12 October 2023, 03:07:20 pm »
True but when someone was busy before in the same area, was offering the same services for the same price, and now it's quite, clearly something's not right and when I hear similar thing from more girls and some are not in the UK but in other countries in Europe, it's concerning

Of course we are in a cost of living crisis so how things were 5 years ago is nothing like it is today. It's just not a reliable industry to be in especially with touring it's more flakey than ever.

In fact sometimes being in 1 area most of the time and if it's not a punting desert you can do better then going on tour as you get to build up regulars and they definately can keep some women ticking over in bad times. I used to think tours was better being the newbie in the area but i don't think that anymore. I used to do well in smaller towns but now finding these are much quieter and sometimes i have to go places with more population to earn money which sometimes i hate going to areas i am not that keen on.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14139 on: 12 October 2023, 03:19:27 pm »
This last 12 months is the worst i have ever found it for being so up and down compared to all the years before when i always made good money. In a way Its done me a favour though it's hurried me along to re train for something else with great earning potential and no being away from home in hotels anymore which i am really struggling with now.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14140 on: 12 October 2023, 03:26:39 pm »
This last 12 months is the worst i have ever found it for being so up and down compared to all the years before when i always made good money. In a way Its done me a favour though it's hurried me along to re train for something else with great earning potential and no being away from home in hotels anymore which i am really struggling with now.

I’ve been in the industry along time and i agree since march i noticed its been quiet. And you’re so right to focus on something else, me too. Skilling up for the future because i dont see sw as what it once was

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14141 on: 13 October 2023, 12:29:52 pm »
Worst week of the year so far, the only enquiries I've received this week are from already blocked people and an email from a moron who says his phone doesn't work atm... err that'll be a no then!
Fingers crossed for next week  ::)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14142 on: 13 October 2023, 01:04:04 pm »
I have never known a busy Friday 13th.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14143 on: 13 October 2023, 03:35:12 pm »
Well Friday 13th is living up to its name. Not had one enquiry in Gloucestershire. Actually thinking about sacking it off and going home. But will wait till 7pm I think x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #14144 on: 13 October 2023, 06:45:01 pm »
Given up for the week, gin and tonic in hand already  ;D
Final straw came from an email "can I see you again, last time was just wow", got his mobile number and lo and behold he was a no show last time! I'd love to play along and ask him what he'd enjoyed most  :FF