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MissElvira

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13905 on: 18 June 2023, 12:08:41 pm »
How old are you?
I'm in my late fifties. Last year was my most profitable year by far.

I'm 42 but I get told I look mid thirties, But I don't show my face on my AW profile. Many women shave up to 10 years off their AW age so guy's might think I'm older than I put. I think I'm just feeling insecure lately and that's why I'm over thinking my age is a hurdle but probably I'm just not for everyone.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13906 on: 18 June 2023, 12:53:10 pm »
I'm fifty and do fine - if a punter doesn't fancy me at fifty, why would he if my ads were exactly the same but he thought I was forty five?

It's been done to death here already, but lying on your ads really doesn't help anybody; I've been told many, MANY times I don't look fifty - I do (because I am fifty, therefore I can't possibly look any other age) but part of the reason they think that is because so many of the 'fifty year olds' they've seen have been closer to sixty. And conversely if a bloke thinks I'm revolting then a few years difference on the age (or twenty quid off the price, or any other minor adjustment) isn't going to alter that :D

Yeah it’s cooling off already …I’m getting calls for next week which is a relief

I've had these too plus one asking for the 29th of June and now the 5th of July. I take same day bookings or a couple of days ahead at most ???
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MissElvira

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13907 on: 18 June 2023, 01:15:58 pm »
I suppose its a nice surprise for punters if we look young for our age but I definitely don't look like I did at 35 just aging well.

I've been asked for bookings for next few weeks so that's good and a relief to know I'll make some gains and hopefully more. The heat does put me off working but I know after August it gets busy for me.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13908 on: 18 June 2023, 01:29:53 pm »
I suppose its a nice surprise for punters if we look young for our age but I definitely don't look like I did at 35 just aging well.

But it isn't - that's the point. Equating younger with 'better' when some punters deliberately seek out and book women who are 40, 50 and 60+ doesn't work - I've had a handful over the years who didn't return because I looked younger than they were expecting despite being truthful about my age, because they'd assumed I would look whatever their perception of 'older' was (and that isn't some pathetic stealth boast; when I was 20-25 I was broke and looked like absolute shit).

Everybody has the odd shit week/month, and it normally means a good one is on the way :)

Jessica rabbit_milf

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13909 on: 18 June 2023, 01:47:38 pm »
Hey ladies

How is everyone doing today?
It's fathers day today and is slow where I am located, I had a feeling it would be anyway so just going to use the gym etc and be productive with my time

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13910 on: 18 June 2023, 02:04:34 pm »
Yep, I'm nearly fifty which makes me one of the oldest in my area. It wouldn't even cross my mind to shave off any years. What would be the point? It would only lead to walk outs and I'm getting enough enquiries for my needs. There are plenty of people out there who specifically want to book with mature ladies so don't let age worry you  :)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13911 on: 18 June 2023, 03:46:48 pm »
Hey ladies

How is everyone doing today?
It's fathers day today and is slow where I am located, I had a feeling it would be anyway so just going to use the gym etc and be productive with my time
I thought it might be but managed 4 bookings before finishing at 2. Could have done a couple more but need to get home.
At any given moment in any given town, some man somewhere will have the horn.

Enjoy the gym...

Rave

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13912 on: 18 June 2023, 06:24:53 pm »
Good afternoon ladies,


I know I haven't really posted and am fairly new to SAAFE because I work on and off.

Last night I have received a few legit calls that seemed legit to me, but today it is scammers day. I get occasional calls where I get asked about my Aw name...now.. I do not advertise anywhere else...so who are these people and how do they obtain my number. They [offensive content removed] seem pretty uneducated.  Are they pimps trying to bump their girls? Or other website moderators that are trying to make money off our ads.
I have only just got bk to escorting since I am a student and have a civvy job and am pretty baffled of the amount of time wasting predators are out there...

I hope work picks up for everyone soon x


Love,
K
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MissElvira

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13913 on: 18 June 2023, 10:01:39 pm »
But it isn't - that's the point. Equating younger with 'better' when some punters deliberately seek out and book women who are 40, 50 and 60+ doesn't work - I've had a handful over the years who didn't return because I looked younger than they were expecting despite being truthful about my age, because they'd assumed I would look whatever their perception of 'older' was (and that isn't some pathetic stealth boast; when I was 20-25 I was broke and looked like absolute shit).

Everybody has the odd shit week/month, and it normally means a good one is on the way :)

I definitely have a better body than when I was in my twenties so I don't know why I worry, I think I sometimes compare myself to other girls which is silly and a waste of energy. Your post Amy gave me a wake up call x I wouldn't want to be in my twenties again and after 35 my life got better so I'm not going to winge about my age anymore lol

MissElvira

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13914 on: 18 June 2023, 10:03:27 pm »
Hey ladies

How is everyone doing today?
It's fathers day today and is slow where I am located, I had a feeling it would be anyway so just going to use the gym etc and be productive with my time

My phone today dead, I also went to the gym and got things sorted out that I don't normally get time to do.

The gym was also void of men thankfully, Got to do my workouts with nobody leering at my boobs lol

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13915 on: 19 June 2023, 04:36:43 am »
I put the age I look ie 51. I have only ever had one walk out in ten years of doing this job and get many returnees. I have a few regulars but being low volume I do not need many and often finish my day lunchtime or early afternoon.


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13916 on: 27 June 2023, 07:54:46 pm »
Heathrow is dead dead dead. Done one half hour i two days. Hoping once Friday comes and they have all been paid it will pick up. I’m going to reduce my rates tomorrow in hope of drumming up some custom.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13917 on: 27 June 2023, 09:59:13 pm »
Heathrow is dead dead dead. Done one half hour i two days. Hoping once Friday comes and they have all been paid it will pick up. I’m going to reduce my rates tomorrow in hope of drumming up some custom.

I went to work very local to me and it was dead dead dead, tried it twice, phone not ringing either. In fact i have had days when the phone is dead but this was a whole new dead to me.

MissElvira

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13918 on: 28 June 2023, 07:14:06 am »
I've been very busy thankfully and I put up my rates 3 weeks ago which was risky because I was having a very slow few months. I put up new pictures which always helps get interest and changed my style a bit to get new clients. Saying that I've had to drop a few regulars but that's another topic.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #13919 on: 28 June 2023, 10:16:43 am »
I've been very busy thankfully and I put up my rates 3 weeks ago which was risky because I was having a very slow few months. I put up new pictures which always helps get interest and changed my style a bit to get new clients. Saying that I've had to drop a few regulars but that's another topic.

I’m definitely going to do a new photoshoot I think I’ve had the same pictures up for 6 years. I’m very fond of them but have to admit Im middle aged and need to reflect this in my pics. A profile revamp is definitely on my to do list.