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Tickle

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12945 on: 18 February 2022, 11:00:52 pm »
There's a site I'm on for escorts and hookups which mostly make their money off merchandise where I used the cam room to passively advertise for clients. I've got a fair few clients off there and had a few half decent conversations. Now? Absolutely nothing happening there but lurkers and freeloaders. I seriously don't have the patience for going on and having a room full of people wank off with zero engagement and disappear. I haven't seen another escort who advertises on there online for months.

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12946 on: 19 February 2022, 11:32:56 am »
I had to cancel a long outcall because of this flipping storm :(
Gone from feeling flush to tightening the belt again - this job is wild

Sure is x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12947 on: 19 February 2022, 08:55:12 pm »
Definitely not feeling flush lately, Think it will be a case of working to just keep ticking over with a cut back on any luxury stuff and save as much as possible. Enquiries are non existant except a few fantasy subs and TW on AW. Working a few days next week and dreading it really because one thing that is guaranteed the usual idiots asking "What's ur Postcode" Messers. I'm asking God for strength to stay zen right now lol

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12948 on: 19 February 2022, 11:11:35 pm »
I got stuck in London for the weekend when all the train were cancelled yesterday, so decided to work today instead as all I got yesterday was punters wanting outcalls to the other side of town and there was no way I was going out (even if I could be arsed to do outcalls, which I can't).

Given that my part of town isn't exactly jumping on a weekend at the best of times I didn't have high hopes but it's been pretty much non stop from 8am until 5 o'clock when I sacked it, and four of the six I saw said they were also stuck here because of the trains. It's totally made up for yesterday, which when your rent is like mine is a blessed relief  :)

Obviously the whole of the next week will now be shite ;D

Tickle

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12949 on: 19 February 2022, 11:36:35 pm »
Fell asleep this afternoon and missed the one call I had. Couldn't be assed to message him back.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12950 on: 20 February 2022, 10:08:37 am »

Just having lot's of requests for meetups before making an actual booking. " Do you fancy meeting for a coffee and getting to know each other first". I was under the impression that I was advertising on AW and not Tinder! 


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12951 on: 20 February 2022, 10:40:12 am »
Just having lot's of requests for meetups before making an actual booking. " Do you fancy meeting for a coffee and getting to know each other first". I was under the impression that I was advertising on AW and not Tinder!

I occasionally get these and just ignore them. They are not worthy of even a one word reply.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12952 on: 20 February 2022, 11:47:51 am »
I had 3 bookings yesterday, I could have taken more but wasn't bothered. today radio silence... hope it will be good from Monday

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12953 on: 20 February 2022, 05:54:22 pm »
Just having lot's of requests for meetups before making an actual booking. " Do you fancy meeting for a coffee and getting to know each other first". I was under the impression that I was advertising on AW and not Tinder!

I've never had that before. Plenty message wanting to date (free of charge) though. Jog on matey

amy

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12954 on: 20 February 2022, 11:13:14 pm »
Just having lot's of requests for meetups before making an actual booking. " Do you fancy meeting for a coffee and getting to know each other first". I was under the impression that I was advertising on AW and not Tinder!

Yes, I had a couple of those as well as one who offered a dinner date with a one hour booking afterwards; as pleasant a bloke as he sounded he made it clear he only expected to pay for one of them, and it wasn't the first one ::)

Anybody asking to 'meet up' or using the word 'meet' instead of 'booking' or 'incall' or whatever gets binned immediately anyway unless the rest of their message is perfect, when I explain that I won't be meeting them anywhere and if they want to see me I can offer an incall and they can come to my flat. Their ability to take a hint then becomes the deciding factor ;D.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12955 on: 21 February 2022, 01:57:21 am »
I don't even advertise as a domme and I've had messages from window-licking subs. No, thank you!
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12956 on: 21 February 2022, 05:53:13 am »
Yes, I had a couple of those as well as one who offered a dinner date with a one hour booking afterwards; as pleasant a bloke as he sounded he made it clear he only expected to pay for one of them, and it wasn't the first one ::)

Anybody asking to 'meet up' or using the word 'meet' instead of 'booking' or 'incall' or whatever gets binned immediately anyway unless the rest of their message is perfect, when I explain that I won't be meeting them anywhere and if they want to see me I can offer an incall and they can come to my flat. Their ability to take a hint then becomes the deciding factor ;D.

At least another person who dislikes the use of 'meet', use of this word seems to be quite casual common place now  :'(

My response is usually to say I don't meet casually, I do offer bookings. I do have problems with ascertaining enquirers actual requirements many just ask for' availability' or 'are you free?'.

Tickle

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12957 on: 21 February 2022, 06:26:46 am »
I don't like the word "meet" either. In my experience people who use the word "meet" tend to be users of sex hookup or niche kinks type of websites. This and "meet" has too many of the wrong emotional connotations for me. They're not men who take relationships seriously but nor are they men who want to pay for it.

Lushblossom

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12958 on: 21 February 2022, 07:44:24 am »
I think all these dating fantasists come out of the woodwork every year around and after Valentine's Day.

Perhaps they think we crave more male company??!!  As if we don't see enough men already.

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12959 on: 21 February 2022, 07:52:42 am »
Yup, hate the word 'meet' it implies they are expecting it for free.