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Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12930 on: 17 February 2022, 04:33:35 pm »
Where do you advertise for subs? I have a profile on Professional Mistresses and my own website and have some good business from it  :)

Your area may affect things too. I'm based in the NW.

Only on AW, but the amount I've blocked is unreal. Most as I say are timewasters or far too needy. Tbh I just like doing massage and gfe. I'm Gloucestershire. I took roleplay off my services because of the amount of timewasters, now considering taking domme off too.

Tickle

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12931 on: 17 February 2022, 05:33:58 pm »
Good luck for that, Tickle.

I've had an hour this week with someone new, that's it. Although I was busy last week, so that's a blessing. And I did take some time off at the start of the week, but I had no enquiries anyway, so that's another blessing  :)

Fingers crossed it picks up for those who need it to  :)
The weather won't help either. It's always quieter in stormy weather  :FF

Sadly he didn't call. That never happened before with a regular marked as a five star. He either got overexcited  and cooled off the next day but there may also be another reason and think I know what that may be. That's a disappointment for now but if it is this then it's a positive for me even if it costs me the rare client.

As for milf-gloss comments I've been asked for roleplay and domme and they don't agree with me for similar reasons. I unmarked those on my profile and now refuse point blank. I just do GFE.

I'm not lowering rates as that's a mugs game but I think the bottom has dropped out of the market for me. The pandemic, a series of economic squeezes, and press negativity is killing it. Since the financial crash and a spillover from London I now have double the competition. People have less money. The tone of the media has become more puritanical. I'm not doing things I don't want to do so adjusting life plans in other directions. That day had to come anyway.

Gypsy

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12932 on: 17 February 2022, 05:58:31 pm »
Only on AW, but the amount I've blocked is unreal. Most as I say are timewasters or far too needy. Tbh I just like doing massage and gfe. I'm Gloucestershire. I took roleplay off my services because of the amount of timewasters, now considering taking domme off too.

Yes, AW subs are mostly tw's. 7/10 are in my experience anyway.

I do have quite a lot of business that comes from roleplay though. It's funny how different people experience different things.
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Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12933 on: 17 February 2022, 06:00:23 pm »
Sorry to hear that Tickle and thanks for your comments. I find the majority of role play and subs just want to tell you their fantasies and I've met some very poor subs who have shitty attitudes to escorts, not very submissive. I want to do tantric but due to surgery I couldn't afford it as I had a few weeks off. I'm going to start saving for this again and hopefully soon offer tantric instead of domination. It's just not me. I enjoy gfe, I cam be myself, or at least fake it enough to keep them happy, whereas being domme and role play is an act and I'm not comfortable with it. Hopefully things pick up for us all x

Miffy

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12934 on: 17 February 2022, 06:15:23 pm »
Quote from: Tickle

I'm not lowering rates as that's a mugs game but I think the bottom has dropped out of the market for me. The pandemic, a series of economic squeezes, and press negativity is killing it. Since the financial crash and a spillover from London I now have double the competition. People have less money. The tone of the media has become more puritanical. I'm not doing things I don't want to do so adjusting life plans in other directions. That day had to come anyway.

You forgot the all important word SOME. Some people have less money. Some haven't been affected at all by Brexit and the economic squeeze/rising inflation.

As I have said quite a few times in the thread, I think too many are expecting things to return to normal/how things were pre-pandemic. They won't because that normal no longer exists. I do think that for some men, they have got used to not seeing escorts these past few years, and are simply no longer interested. Also, they have possibly got used to having more money in their pocket and spending it on other things. I know only too well that many men are still seeing escorts as normal, many of whom are spending large sums of money to do so.

Apologies if this isn't very encouraging, but it is about being realistic. If you aren't attracting clients, maybe time to reinvent yourself/re-write your ads and look at your offering. And if you do this, again, it will take time to attract new clients, but you could end up with many reliable regulars (and lose all time wasters in the process).

Lastly, are you niche in anyway? If you are, this can work for you but also against you. I realise this might sound patronising, I really don't mean it too, but being niche means things can be deadly quiet at times for no discernible reason.

As ever, I hope and am sure it picks up for those who are struggling.

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EnglishAmy40

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12935 on: 17 February 2022, 07:13:20 pm »
Those that are quiet, do you have your own websites? Because that does bring in nicer punters in my view and you write well which is a bonus for blogging and getting those classier clients.

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12936 on: 17 February 2022, 07:42:52 pm »
Those that are quiet, do you have your own websites? Because that does bring in nicer punters in my view and you write well which is a bonus for blogging and getting those classier clients.

I was getting a guy to do it for me, a friend of a domme I know, but he got covid and disappeared. I am going to try the Elron guy mentioned a few times.

Sarah5677

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12937 on: 17 February 2022, 08:26:00 pm »
Very quiet for me at the moment. I am generally kept busy on tour but it’s been dead
I’ve been in Bristol few days and it’s dead  :FF
I hope things pick up soon!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12938 on: 17 February 2022, 11:16:03 pm »
Quiet in Birmingham atm ... hoping it picks up for me this weekend!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12939 on: 18 February 2022, 12:44:18 am »
Remember Ladies …there is a big storm with wind and rain anticipated to hit the uk from Thursday evening into the whole of Friday.
Things will pick up afterwards   ;D

Gypsy

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12940 on: 18 February 2022, 08:08:44 am »
Remember Ladies …there is a big storm with wind and rain anticipated to hit the uk from Thursday evening into the whole of Friday.
Things will pick up afterwards   ;D

Yes, it's always quiet in bad weather.
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Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12941 on: 18 February 2022, 11:06:13 am »
Well I had to cancel my 2 hr advance booking due to school being closed. Also had a 2 hr advance booking tomorrow but he has tested positive. Better week than last week but still rubbish in terms of what I used to make.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12942 on: 18 February 2022, 12:29:47 pm »
I had to cancel a long outcall because of this flipping storm :(
Gone from feeling flush to tightening the belt again - this job is wild

Tickle

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12943 on: 18 February 2022, 12:35:37 pm »
Nothing but an oh so glamorous "Hi u working today" before my booking time opened and a few calls from that number later. I had already blocked him by then as he had a handful of bad reports.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12944 on: 18 February 2022, 03:35:47 pm »
Well I had to cancel my 2 hr advance booking due to school being closed. Also had a 2 hr advance booking tomorrow but he has tested positive. Better week than last week but still rubbish in terms of what I used to make.
This for me too. Had to cancel hotel outcall as kids at home as school closed.