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fallen angel

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12900 on: 14 February 2022, 09:25:34 am »
I had a guy cancel less than 1 minute after getting my postcode last week, less than 5 minutes after dialing my number, probably more like 2.5 minutes. He text right back 'sorry can't make it now'. Blocked.

I'm beginning to think a lot of it is intentionally malicious, they read threads like this and see times are tough.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12901 on: 14 February 2022, 09:47:12 am »
Dead as a doornail apart from people I have already blocked. Odd that. Or people who phoned at stupid o' clock which I won't answer because my phone is off.

I don't mind the slowdown. It gives me lots of "me time". I also had the time to make a lovely cream chicken soup off French Cooking Academy. I might set aside time to rework my profile. Other than this find other things to be happy about. The winds will change when they change!

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12902 on: 14 February 2022, 10:05:00 am »
I'm beginning to think a lot of it is intentionally malicious, they read threads like this and see times are tough.

Definitely. Well he's now got a postcode collector report on him and blocked.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12903 on: 14 February 2022, 10:28:29 am »
I'm beginning to think a lot of it is intentionally malicious, they read threads like this and see times are tough.

I don't think there's that much thought behind it - if they book and then cancel almost immediately I just assume that they didn't like the sound of me on the phone and didn't know how to say so, or maybe rechecked my ad and realised I didn't do one of the services they wanted or whatever. I just save them in my phone as 'BTC' so I know in the event they contact me again.

I've cancelled plenty of bookings shortly after taking them because something niggled at me after the call/text exchange and I decided not to risk it and I certainly wouldn't be putting their details on some phone app and potentially cost another woman a booking, at least if she was dumb enough to turn people down flat just because she found their number on it.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12904 on: 14 February 2022, 11:59:55 am »
I don't think there's that much thought behind it - if they book and then cancel almost immediately I just assume that they didn't like the sound of me on the phone and didn't know how to say so, or maybe rechecked my ad and realised I didn't do one of the services they wanted or whatever. I just save them in my phone as 'BTC' so I know in the event they contact me again.

I've cancelled plenty of bookings shortly after taking them because something niggled at me after the call/text exchange and I decided not to risk it and I certainly wouldn't be putting their details on some phone app and potentially cost another woman a booking, at least if she was dumb enough to turn people down flat just because she found their number on it.

Thing is though if you are saying exactly what happened he cancelled 1 min after getting address and booking then thats the truth so anyone that see's it will just be aware and if they do it to them too then it's a pattern. So i don't think those reports will lose women work as a lot will still take those bookings. I seen some that have 7 reports and a woman will say should have listened to others but chanced it as he seemed fine to me. I think a lot of it gives you a heads up that it might happen so don't turn down another guy wanting same time.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12905 on: 14 February 2022, 12:02:40 pm »
I'm beginning to think a lot of it is intentionally malicious, they read threads like this and see times are tough.

I just think they are really unreliable it's more intentional when cancelled right at the last minute so they know they messed up your time and money and the ones that do not cancel and pretend there still coming those are the ones deliberate.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12906 on: 14 February 2022, 12:14:43 pm »
I worked yesterday and it was kind of busy with more last minute bookings.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12907 on: 14 February 2022, 09:49:16 pm »
Today has been dire for me, I suppose most men will be busy with their actual partners. All i've had today are the idiot hagglers

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12908 on: 15 February 2022, 07:20:16 am »
Last year valentines was busy for me, this year, timewasters and phone wankers. I had one reg, thankfully had a lovely time with him.

fallen angel

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12909 on: 15 February 2022, 09:45:37 am »
Last year valentines was busy for me, this year, timewasters and phone wankers. I had one reg, thankfully had a lovely time with him.

Yes it was last year for me too, this year just timewasters same as you but not even a reg.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12910 on: 15 February 2022, 10:12:20 am »
I had one call yesterday which I missed after having already played the sms enquiry and missing when he was around for a few times. I messaged back and instead of calling back he asked for something which wasn't in my profile. I blocked him.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12911 on: 15 February 2022, 11:27:56 am »
Been having a couple of punters  every week also lost a lot of calls everytime i have  been unavailable, but a hell of a lot of timewasters on one site and idiots on clienteye coming on phone , had nothing but timewasters and barebackers near two  months on adultwork so not had any work  of there at all , just depending on other site for work now .

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12912 on: 15 February 2022, 02:29:40 pm »
Am I missing something today?? Had so many time wasters contact me already today and it’s only 14.30! I do get the odd one or two but some days none at all. Today every single caller has got many reports. Only 1 regular booked in at 7 tonight so it’s gonna be a long arse day if nothing else comes in, I’ve also been put in an apartment with no heating in the bedroom and work being done in the next apartment so constant hammering (well I hope it’s a hammer and not a bed or I’ll be jealous) fingers crossed it’s just a slow start

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12913 on: 15 February 2022, 03:25:23 pm »
Am I missing something today?? Had so many time wasters contact me already today and it’s only 14.30! I do get the odd one or two but some days none at all. Today every single caller has got many reports. Only 1 regular booked in at 7 tonight so it’s gonna be a long arse day if nothing else comes in, I’ve also been put in an apartment with no heating in the bedroom and work being done in the next apartment so constant hammering (well I hope it’s a hammer and not a bed or I’ll be jealous) fingers crossed it’s just a slow start

I had an advance booking this morning but nothing but blocked clients trying to call me. No calls since 11am. Dead today. Luckily my advance booking was a 2hr one, and I was pretty fucked after 3 times lol. Got 2 more 2 hr advance bookings this week so hopefully it won't be too bad, I'm low turnover anyway as part time.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12914 on: 15 February 2022, 08:36:46 pm »
Heathrow dead dead dead not one call. Day after valentines and half term why did I bother. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. Hope the whole week isn’t like this.  :FF