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Missyblue

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10425 on: 07 November 2018, 03:04:28 pm »
Diwali today and considering most of my clients are Indian I’m not sure how this will play out today.

Also just had an enquiry about cash point meets.
Basically the guy giving me his card and me taking his money. Sounds too good to be true lol

Oh and now another one asking for nuru massage when I don’t specialise in massage! Told him that and now he has replied asking what I specialise in :FF
One of those days

And another one ( again a texter who I asked to call me but didn’t )
asking if he could pay me £500 for sloppy seconds  :FF

Must be a full moon tonight lol
Yeah it’s diwali yesterday and today as well in my area of North West London-
I and my colleague are having a quiet one in our hotel. One only client each so far

Lushblossom

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10426 on: 07 November 2018, 03:22:59 pm »
I've had a lot of messers too.

Kay1996

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10427 on: 07 November 2018, 03:39:23 pm »
What's Diwali? Can they not leave the house? Was wondering why I was so quiet, usually I'm Indian central lol x

Sarastar1

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10428 on: 07 November 2018, 03:48:47 pm »
What's Diwali? Can they not leave the house? Was wondering why I was so quiet, usually I'm Indian central lol x

It’s similar to Christmas I believe in the Hindu world. I think a lot of people spend time with their families over the next couple of days.

Ellie B

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10429 on: 07 November 2018, 06:47:57 pm »
Full Moon was 2 weeks ago!
It is a strange time of year and people are being really cautious about money - even the wealthy ones!

Librarylady

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10430 on: 07 November 2018, 07:06:26 pm »
I have had nothing but creeps all day, not a single genuine booking request  :FF
If we're not supposed to have midnight snacks, why is there a light in the fridge?

sourgrapes

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10431 on: 07 November 2018, 07:12:21 pm »
Full Moon was 2 weeks ago

Yup - so New Moon today.
Every woman is the architect of her own fortune

Grace D

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10432 on: 08 November 2018, 05:25:21 pm »
Slower than a snail today! I even featured my profile but so far I've only had one enquiry.

mlmcardiff

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10433 on: 08 November 2018, 06:43:45 pm »
It’s similar to Christmas I believe in the Hindu world. I think a lot of people spend time with their families over the next couple of days.

Yea a large % of my vanilla/GFE clients are Hindu because I live in an area that has  a large S.Asian population and Diwali is their big festival and I've not had any Hindu clients this week, which is what I expected in the same way as I'd suspect the main days of christmas to be very touch and go...

Kay1996

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10434 on: 09 November 2018, 11:50:29 pm »
I'm getting so much anxiety, the past couple of months have been dreadful for me... I don't know why but I used to be constantly busy and now I'm lucky if I get 2 customers a day.
I don't know what's changed! It's really upsetting me.

Has anyone else had this? Will it last?

Ellie B

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10435 on: 10 November 2018, 12:17:14 am »
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but have a lot of friends who own their own businesses and are all really suffering. (more so than 10 years ago)
Think a combination of people spending too much in the summer; cautious about spending over Christmas; tax returns due in January and uncertainty over Brexit and the future economy; and the time of year. Also colds and flu are rife. Men suffer more, due to "man flu".
People are more likely to spend more money in the summer months when they are happier and the opposite effect in the winter months.

If we reduce our prices, we appear desperate,  and increase prices, no one will pay over the top.



Kendall

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10436 on: 10 November 2018, 11:05:07 am »
I've found (so have all the sw I know) that it's getting been getting quieter and quieter every year, from summer this year it's been really up and down. Thankfully my over heads have always been minimal and I only have me to look after, if I had multiple properties/kids etc to look after I wouldn't be able to afford to with what I make doing just this job. If it stays like it is I'm going to have bow out and join the real world because the uncertainty of how the phone is gonna be one week to the next isn't worth the mental anguish (thanks anxiety)anymore. Thankfully this week has been steady (2/3 bookings a day) so my bills are paid.

LotusFlower

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10437 on: 10 November 2018, 11:07:34 am »
I really think it's a lot to do with location. Ok, some days it's dead, but my "dead" would be only 2 or 3 bookings an hour or less each day. This would be considered busy for some.

Horses for courses and all that but loads of people were complaining about October, but my October was fine. No worse than usual in terms of amount of bookings but potentially less people arranging in advance with more being booked on the day. Normally I am booked up in advance so don't have to put my green light on, if I have to put that light on for a day I have advertised in advance, that's what I would consider as dead.

Really hope it picks up for you ladies who are finding it quiet :(

mlmcardiff

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10438 on: 10 November 2018, 11:25:16 am »
Good last week for me *very* quiet this week, but then my website numbers are up and had a bit of an unusual influx of people adding me to their hotlist on AW so hopefully things will pick up for me before I go on tour.

Kay1996

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #10439 on: 10 November 2018, 02:59:21 pm »
Good last week for me *very* quiet this week, but then my website numbers are up and had a bit of an unusual influx of people adding me to their hotlist on AW so hopefully things will pick up for me before I go on tour.
How do you know when someone's added you to their hotlist?