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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9795 on: 08 June 2018, 02:12:34 pm »
For a while now I’ve not really wanted to work as much as I used to because I’ve been going through a lot of stress. Yesterday I was so tired so didn’t work at all but calls were coming through dime a dozen. Today however it’s slow and one person who was supposed to confirm hasn’t bothered so I’m guessing I need to stop being so picky and just take whoever comes. Unfortunately bills piling up so needs must!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9796 on: 08 June 2018, 02:45:53 pm »
I just have not been busy at all this week. Advertised 11am-9pm last night, got 3 hour's worth of bookings. Today I have an hour, but been advertising since 8am, even had a bit of a sleep on the sofa with my phone on loud.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9797 on: 08 June 2018, 03:32:21 pm »
It's dead here and I'm being bombarded with timewasters and no shows, phone broke yesterday, previous hotel was so vile I left and lost the first nights room rate.
 Becoming a little upset as I really need these incall dates to work, its my last day here and it's been awful, one half hour today and 4 no shows and 3 cancellations in 36 hours, some even had feedback which I know means very little but still. Fortunately I had a fairly long booking yesterday as none of my regs are calling this week so costs are covered but f all else unless it picks up.  It's bizzare but I guess clients always come in waves. 

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9798 on: 08 June 2018, 03:58:45 pm »
ok this is just beyond painful. Its friday for fudge sake!! paid extra, new pics updated and making it clear I am working. 1 meet (which is a semi regular) and just one more later (always a chance of him cancelling though) throw in a couple of timewasters and a last min cancelled meet and thats my Friday!!!! awww man, good thing I plan to work all weekend. Been very bad and so draining too  :'( Hope others are having more luck xxx
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9799 on: 08 June 2018, 04:03:28 pm »
ok this is just beyond painful. Its friday for fudge sake!! paid extra, new pics updated and making it clear I am working. 1 meet (which is a semi regular) and just one more later (always a chance of him cancelling though) throw in a couple of timewasters and a last min cancelled meet and thats my Friday!!!! awww man, good thing I plan to work all weekend. Been very bad and so draining too  :'( Hope others are having more luck xxx
Sunday afternoons I find bad and Friday after 2/3 until the evening , I think maybe they all rush home from work on a Friday or try and get out of the traffic, depends where you are .

I find Friday afternoons bad in London but Friday pm picks up , so things could change it a sunny here though so most people are trying to get some rays in :)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9800 on: 08 June 2018, 04:20:46 pm »
Sunday afternoons I find bad and Friday after 2/3 until the evening , I think maybe they all rush home from work on a Friday or try and get out of the traffic, depends where you are .

I find Friday afternoons bad in London but Friday pm picks up , so things could change it a sunny here though so most people are trying to get some rays in :)

Yeah suppose its weird how things turn out. I dont have a high daily target, so if my only other booking goes ahead, theres still hope for one more to reach it. Hope you are having a good Friday. No sunshine here but not too bothered as have no interest going outside today  ;D
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9801 on: 08 June 2018, 04:50:34 pm »
Sunday afternoons I find bad and Friday after 2/3 until the evening , I think maybe they all rush home from work on a Friday or try and get out of the traffic, depends where you are .

I find Friday afternoons bad in London but Friday pm picks up , so things could change it a sunny here though so most people are trying to get some rays in :)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9802 on: 08 June 2018, 05:16:34 pm »
Dead again. Paid for the green available today light n just timewasters. A regular just asked how the special offer was going, I said it wasn't and I'd been asked to take it down and some pisstaker had complained about me not being available when I said I would be. I have been available everyday this week!!! Sitting around waiting for sod all, bloody cheek. Plus apparently I have something on my profile which isn't allowed....no, I don't. I think they just make this shit up. I've had issues like this before. Really don't need it now. One prat wanting an outcall NOW, no notice. Another saying the time I could do was no good for him despite the time he wanted being the time he was texting me, how on earth does he expect to get to me in zero minutes flat??? The usual 'hi babes, u working?' time-wasting texts and weirdos from other countries saying they want to book me 'for a minute' what???? Or 'u nice' texts. But no actual bookings. Sitting around with mega itchy arms and ankles due to mosi bites and the sun and just covered myself with calamine lotion but no relief. Just want to scratch myself raw!!! It's not helping.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9803 on: 08 June 2018, 05:47:56 pm »
Dead again. Paid for the green available today light n just timewasters. A regular just asked how the special offer was going, I said it wasn't and I'd been asked to take it down and some pisstaker had complained about me not being available when I said I would be. I have been available everyday this week!!! Sitting around waiting for sod all, bloody cheek. Plus apparently I have something on my profile which isn't allowed....no, I don't. I think they just make this shit up. I've had issues like this before. Really don't need it now. One prat wanting an outcall NOW, no notice. Another saying the time I could do was no good for him despite the time he wanted being the time he was texting me, how on earth does he expect to get to me in zero minutes flat??? The usual 'hi babes, u working?' time-wasting texts and weirdos from other countries saying they want to book me 'for a minute' what???? Or 'u nice' texts. But no actual bookings. Sitting around with mega itchy arms and ankles due to mosi bites and the sun and just covered myself with calamine lotion but no relief. Just want to scratch myself raw!!! It's not helping.

Hi CC

I know you said you been in the area 8 years but have you ever had some weeks that have been reasonable or has it always been a struggle for you to make a decent living?

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9804 on: 08 June 2018, 06:23:41 pm »
Yes the available today never seems to do much for me but waste credits. Yes my number is always up. I don't have a laptop so can't Cam but I have been thinking of doing this once I have enough money to buy one. I've not tried phone sex work as yet. Right now I'm about to have my broadband connection cut off as not paid the bill so it's the wrong time to start. But I may well do this when it's sorted. I can't tour as I have pets I can't leave and they hate anyone but me.

 Why were you asked to take down your special offer was that on AW

I know you said you can't tour because of pets but depending on where you are can you tour locally
I mean say your based in Leeds could you tour to York or Manchester and come home at night  I know a few escorts who live in x town but tour to B town which is only maybe an 30 mins on the train but it makes all the difference

Some  hotels ( Days  inn -Novotel - Ibis Holiday inn allow pets for a small charge )
To be honest if you stay in the same area all the time it will go dead eventually
Guys will just glide over your add add and think oh she's always here I'll get her next week

I'm only ok in my home town where I have worked for years because I have a shit load of regular clients and I'm not there that often so when I'm there for a week or a few days I can be pretty busy

But I'm still a lot busier when I tour other areas
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9805 on: 08 June 2018, 06:44:31 pm »
Why were you asked to take down your special offer was that on AW

I know you said you can't tour because of pets but depending on where you are can you tour locally
I mean say your based in Leeds could you tour to York or Manchester and come home at night  I know a few escorts who live in x town but tour to B town which is only maybe an 30 mins on the train but it makes all the difference

Some  hotels ( Days  inn -Novotel - Ibis Holiday inn allow pets for a small charge )
To be honest if you stay in the same area all the time it will go dead eventually
Guys will just glide over your add add and think oh she's always here I'll get her next week

I'm only ok in my home town where I have worked for years because I have a shit load of regular clients and I'm not there that often so when I'm there for a week or a few days I can be pretty busy

But I'm still a lot busier when I tour other areas

This is exactly what i was thinking you can still try other areas that are 40 mins to an hour drive away where new clients will be and come back in evening and if it comes to it get someone to come in twice a day to check on pets feed and walk them etc depending on if there is dogs.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9806 on: 08 June 2018, 07:14:48 pm »
Just fell asleep didn't miss anything  :-\

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9807 on: 08 June 2018, 08:08:29 pm »
Well April was a good month for me. Since then though it's been awful. I have been struggling for a while yes. I don't think it's simply the area I'm in though as I know of one other escort not far from me who always has work. Her rates are cheap though and I think she does duo's n can drive to outcalls when needed. But as I say, her rates are dirt cheap. I don't know anyone other than parlour ladies that are that cheap. Certainly I wouldn't sell myself for those prices of I may start to really hate the job which I think she has done for a while judging by what some guys who have seen her have said. Anyway, that's another story. I may in time when I have money to into central London n get a day room n see how that goes. Even better if I can do it as a duo. I feel that may be popular. I had a look last night at those day rooms n was quite impressed. But again I need to make money first to do that.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9808 on: 08 June 2018, 09:22:36 pm »
Well April was a good month for me. Since then though it's been awful. I have been struggling for a while yes. I don't think it's simply the area I'm in though as I know of one other escort not far from me who always has work. Her rates are cheap though and I think she does duo's n can drive to outcalls when needed. But as I say, her rates are dirt cheap. I don't know anyone other than parlour ladies that are that cheap. Certainly I wouldn't sell myself for those prices of I may start to really hate the job which I think she has done for a while judging by what some guys who have seen her have said. Anyway, that's another story. I may in time when I have money to into central London n get a day room n see how that goes. Even better if I can do it as a duo. I feel that may be popular. I had a look last night at those day rooms n was quite impressed. But again I need to make money first to do that.

I think you do need to experiment with new areas etc and see what the response is. There will usually always be women in you're area that will be busy and some dead plus it can swap and change .  You should test this out if you can by changing you're area to a new 1 or 2 for a couple of days and  see how much interest there is although you will get timewasters that see you are the new girl but it could indicate whether you do need to try other areas to work or if there might be a problem with you're pictures or something.

You could just say you are booked up when they contact you but this can give you a better idea of how to go about earning more then you currently are.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #9809 on: 08 June 2018, 10:02:21 pm »
Well April was a good month for me. Since then though it's been awful. I have been struggling for a while yes. I don't think it's simply the area I'm in though as I know of one other escort not far from me who always has work. Her rates are cheap though and I think she does duo's n can drive to outcalls when needed. But as I say, her rates are dirt cheap. I don't know anyone other than parlour ladies that are that cheap. Certainly I wouldn't sell myself for those prices of I may start to really hate the job which I think she has done for a while judging by what some guys who have seen her have said. Anyway, that's another story. I may in time when I have money to into central London n get a day room n see how that goes. Even better if I can do it as a duo. I feel that may be popular. I had a look last night at those day rooms n was quite impressed. But again I need to make money first to do that.

But surely some money is better than no money? You don't need to go to her level perhaps (without knowing the details it's difficult to say if she's cheap or you're expensive) but are your rates higher than other women in the area?
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