So many bloody timewasters, honestly I've just about had enough 

Big hugs to you. Really know the feeling. Dont know about you but I think its worse when you think you have a full day of meets booked and you think about the possible amount of money you will earn for the day and you can 'relax' a bit especially if meets arent so spread out and once over, you have the evening free etc but then one by one, a poor excuse after another, all cancel.

I get so mad and frustrated because its completely out of your control. its very cruel and unfair. In a way it feels you have been working as its just stressful, most normal jobs are like that but least they get paid for it!! 

so really feel your pain. more hugs to you  xxx

Aww thanks!  That's pretty much it - if it's quiet, then fine it's quiet, but it's so incredibly rude and frustrating to have your time wasted x

Yeah exactly!! dont know about you but I like to be organised and know what I am doing. In a perfect ideal world (I know this is  near impossible) would love it if could get my bookings for the day in the morning and then I am set for the day! even trying out a special deal on AW if they book same day in the morning, they get a discounted rate but no interest yet but can only hope! lol. Really hope things pick up for you hun. I completely understand the frustration! Even more annoying when its completely out of your control.

More hugs x

I think that would be the ideal for all of us! I have posted something similiar before and some days really are like that, a couple of bookings by say 1pm so the rest of the day to happily do whatever I want while knowing the day's target is made.  If only all days were like that but the reverse sometimes also happens, nothing or nothing but let downs until late afternoon then in come the real bookings.

It is the nature of the beast that is escorting. 

Yeah sadly escorting has very extreme good or bad sides to it and as a woman I have to moan about the bad! but also I get to 'moan' also when its good and getting work too lol sorry....poor joke I know!  xx

Haha it's alright, just stressed as immifd for five weeks over xmas x

Ah!  I can't even type properly  . I'm off for xmas!

Unfortunately so many people seem to think because they see the hourly fee we are all making a fortune and the truth is it is not as busy as the punters think and we do not earn thousands and thousands a week. It has a lot of downsides too a lot of anxiety and having to be extra careful you do not take a booking off a nutter.

Yes this is too true. There are upsides to this (well there must be as wouldnt be doing this right?) but most clients seriously dont understand this work is far from easy and there is a cost for us emotionally. I have times I really struggle and like most people I think to myself 'think of the money' but what happens when work drys up? still struggling but no money coming in and also its all the extras you have to pay for like sexy underwear, toys, advertising etc and of course normal costs of living and that comes first so have to pay that before you can even try and save (if you are doing this for a specific reason) Been doing this full time now since July this year (been an WG on and off for a few years now) and I am nowhere near my saving target. Anyway, sorry bit of a rant there (sorry day slow so far lol)

Understand what you mean about the nutters too! horrible feeling when its been days without no work and the only kind you get are dodgy ones, I choose not to now but even in that moment you dont think no straight away.

Not everyone of course, but some people are just plain cruel and feed off other peoples stress and misery

Anyway, wish you a good weekend. Friday already! lol xx

Phone has been spookily quiet today and most the week in general actually. I usually only have a zero appts day once every so often but looks like this is the second one this week! I've taken new pic's and also added some to private gallery, got number and AT showing as normal and took out a free 2 month advert on an advertising site, but this week is dire!

Got 5 days off coming up (it's my birthday on Monday!) and I'm quite a bit under my target earnings for this week. Going to try to worry about it and can only hope it's better when I come back to it fresh next week.

Good luck everyone x