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Paprika82

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6525 on: 20 October 2016, 11:13:55 am »
I've had a lot of timewasters so far this week.  :FF

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6526 on: 20 October 2016, 12:52:34 pm »
Very slow for me this week.  The few customers I have had have all mentioned a raid recently, so it might be that that's scaring them off as I on a small island.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6527 on: 20 October 2016, 01:41:07 pm »
I don't think I will return to London for a few months.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6528 on: 20 October 2016, 01:54:37 pm »
I've had a lot of timewasters so far this week.  :FF
Yes I've had alot of silly calls and texts as well.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6529 on: 20 October 2016, 02:10:28 pm »
You have to try get as many regulars as possible: so be as half soaked as you like, two-faced, lie, fake your orgasms, say anything to make them feel special but make sure to do it in a way that you are genuine about it all, its all about convincing them that you really like them - THAT is what they are paying you for, not just the sex.

Personally speaking, if they aren't overly smelly, or have bad breath, very obese, very boring or are a horrible person, then I'll do almost anything to keep them coming back for more. Regulars are like financial security for when the phone is basically dead.

I got loads of regulars, when I'm having a slow few days I'll text some of them with things I think they will love which I don't mind doing with them that I otherwise wouldn't usually do.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6530 on: 20 October 2016, 02:48:23 pm »
You have to try get as many regulars as possible: so be as half soaked as you like, two-faced, lie, fake your orgasms, say anything to make them feel special but make sure to do it in a way that you are genuine about it all, its all about convincing them that you really like them - THAT is what they are paying you for, not just the sex.

Personally speaking, if they aren't overly smelly, or have bad breath, very obese, very boring or are a horrible person, then I'll do almost anything to keep them coming back for more. Regulars are like financial security for when the phone is basically dead.

I got loads of regulars, when I'm having a slow few days I'll text some of them with things I think they will love which I don't mind doing with them that I otherwise wouldn't usually do.

I'm sure you mean well but you're just telling us what we already know  ::)


Thank god today is going better than yesterday, hope it's going better for others

Emi787

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6531 on: 20 October 2016, 02:57:12 pm »
I'm sure you mean well but you're just telling us what we already know  ::)
I know but, judging by a lot of posts on this forum, it just seems a lot of girls are opening their hotel doors, letting the client in and then spreading their legs , cum and dump can't wait to get rid of him - so to speak.

If men wanted that they'd just go to the local street pickup points usually in the cars. The men complaining about us are because of our prices you know the guys scared of curb-crawling they are so used to ?5 for a blowjob and ?10-20 for a quickie. Seriously for those prices I am not a tramp or addicted to drugs.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6532 on: 20 October 2016, 03:16:45 pm »
I'm sure there are plenty of girls who give a service like that. But I'm also positive that plenty of us on here provide a fantastic service and put a lot of effort into ensuring our clients leave fully satisfied. Just because some of us aren't getting bookings right now isn't necessarily down to us providing a crap service or not having enough regulars on our books.
I have about 20 regulars but I'm still not getting bookings this week. You say you text yours during quiet times to try and get them to visit. I would personally never do this as I doubt my regulars would be too pleased if I send them unsolicited texts whilst they are sitting with their wives at home potentially.
I live in quite a poor area of the country and my clients are all having to tighten their belts and keep escorting to a minimal treat of just a handful of times per year now.
Luckily I'm not completely desperate for the money right now as I have another source of income. I think a tour might be on the cards though to see if I can make some better money in a different location.
This job is swings and roundabouts, and what might be a busy week for one person will be completely dead for another for no rhyme or reason.
All we can do is sit it out, improve photos, advertise everywhere we can, maybe offer a special offer, consider touring or supplement income with webcamming if things become really desperate.
The bookings always come eventually, even if they aren't as regular and reliable as we would all like

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6533 on: 20 October 2016, 03:25:53 pm »
I'm sure there are plenty of girls who give a service like that. But I'm also positive that plenty of us on here provide a fantastic service and put a lot of effort into ensuring our clients leave fully satisfied. Just because some of us aren't getting bookings right now isn't necessarily down to us providing a crap service or not having enough regulars on our books.
I have about 20 regulars but I'm still not getting bookings this week. You say you text yours during quiet times to try and get them to visit. I would personally never do this as I doubt my regulars would be too pleased if I send them unsolicited texts whilst they are sitting with their wives at home potentially.
I live in quite a poor area of the country and my clients are all having to tighten their belts and keep escorting to a minimal treat of just a handful of times per year now.
Luckily I'm not completely desperate for the money right now as I have another source of income. I think a tour might be on the cards though to see if I can make some better money in a different location.
This job is swings and roundabouts, and what might be a busy week for one person will be completely dead for another for no rhyme or reason.
All we can do is sit it out, improve photos, advertise everywhere we can, maybe offer a special offer, consider touring or supplement income with webcamming if things become really desperate.
The bookings always come eventually, even if they aren't as regular and reliable as we would all like

I would never text a client in slow or busy times, its horrifically indiscrete

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6534 on: 20 October 2016, 03:30:46 pm »
I know but, judging by a lot of posts on this forum, it just seems a lot of girls are opening their hotel doors, letting the client in and then spreading their legs , cum and dump can't wait to get rid of him - so to speak.

If men wanted that they'd just go to the local street pickup points usually in the cars. The men complaining about us are because of our prices you know the guys scared of curb-crawling they are so used to ?5 for a blowjob and ?10-20 for a quickie. Seriously for those prices I am not a tramp or addicted to drugs.

Please don't berate the sex workers  who work outdoors, we get enough of that shit from civvies. We all work differently some run a conveyer belt service and some will only offer 2+hour bookings. We can all sit and criticise each other but none of us truely know best or we would have made our fortune ans retired by now.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6535 on: 20 October 2016, 03:35:37 pm »
One thing us for sure the minute I decide enough is enough (like yesterday) and I'm already close to packing it in today (zero calls I even had to keep checking my phone was working) and decide on a glass of vino or to arrange something with civvy friends, of course the sodding work phone starts ringing!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6536 on: 20 October 2016, 03:37:39 pm »
One thing us for sure the minute I decide enough is enough (like yesterday) and I'm already close to packing it in today (zero calls I even had to keep checking my phone was working) and decide on a glass of vino or to arrange something with civvy friends, of course the sodding work phone starts ringing!

Always the case! once i say lets call it a bad job, put a glass of alcohol to my mouth.....boom my work phone comes to life!

Emi787

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6537 on: 20 October 2016, 04:30:24 pm »
One thing us for sure the minute I decide enough is enough (like yesterday) and I'm already close to packing it in today (zero calls I even had to keep checking my phone was working) and decide on a glass of vino or to arrange something with civvy friends, of course the sodding work phone starts ringing!
Alcohol all the way. (lol makes me sound like an alcy, but I'm not, I only drink moderately).
I don't get it how, in our line of business, its seen as "professional" to not be under the influence of certain social enhancing consumables when considering our entire job revolves around some element of being social - its not like we all leave school with a A-C grade GCSE in drama? If anything, escorting makes us learn to be a better actress, not from college/uni?

Anyway, keeping this topic on topic, yesterday I had enough of penis's in my life, and I'm still too sore to answer any calls/texts. Sorry girls, I've been there plenty of times myself I feel for you. Suppose its a good thing I'm not answering my phone ay..lol

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6538 on: 20 October 2016, 04:34:15 pm »
I don't get it how, in our line of business, its seen as "professional" to not be under the influence of certain social enhancing consumables when considering our entire job revolves around some element of being social - its not like we all leave school with a A-C grade GCSE in drama? If anything, escorting makes us learn to be a better actress, not from college/uni?

Well alcohol isn't inextricably linked with socialising and I wouldn't expect any service provider I booked to be under the influence of anything, but the reason I don't drink when I'm working is because I want my wits about me and my judgement not to be clouded in case something goes wrong. But I don't enjoy drinking anyway, so it's no great shakes.

And I've been busy too, so as a result am going home for a bath :).

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #6539 on: 20 October 2016, 04:45:32 pm »
I'm sure there are plenty of girls who give a service like that. But I'm also positive that plenty of us on here provide a fantastic service and put a lot of effort into ensuring our clients leave fully satisfied. Just because some of us aren't getting bookings right now isn't necessarily down to us providing a crap service or not having enough regulars on our books.
I have about 20 regulars but I'm still not getting bookings this week. You say you text yours during quiet times to try and get them to visit. I would personally never do this as I doubt my regulars would be too pleased if I send them unsolicited texts whilst they are sitting with their wives at home potentially.
I live in quite a poor area of the country and my clients are all having to tighten their belts and keep escorting to a minimal treat of just a handful of times per year now.
Luckily I'm not completely desperate for the money right now as I have another source of income. I think a tour might be on the cards though to see if I can make some better money in a different location.
This job is swings and roundabouts, and what might be a busy week for one person will be completely dead for another for no rhyme or reason.
All we can do is sit it out, improve photos, advertise everywhere we can, maybe offer a special offer, consider touring or supplement income with webcamming if things become really desperate.
The bookings always come eventually, even if they aren't as regular and reliable as we would all like

I completely agree.
At the end of the day everyone has had a quiet day or two here and there. Personally I think it's completely out of order to send unsolicited texts. I have several regulars and I wouldn't dream of contacting them if I'm quiet. They contact me and I reply that's how it works for me.

I agree that if you're quite to improve your photos and advertise everywhere! When I came off holiday it took a few days to pick up and I took a bunch of new photos and edited my "about me" and that's all it took to be fully booked!

I always edit my profile and change my pictures around and take new ones weekly and slowly upload them to my private gallery, it keeps the views coming in!