I have noticed a HUGE increase in timewasters, Im going to start seeing who arrives first, Im against it but unless they are regulars I just cannot afford to keep reserving bookings for no shows, they are literally one after the other

Quote from: losthope on 26 May 2016, 09:41:42 pm

I have noticed a HUGE increase in timewasters, Im going to start seeing who arrives first, Im against it but unless they are regulars I just cannot afford to keep reserving bookings for no shows, they are literally one after the other

Yes, it's SHOCKING. My friend had three in a row the other day!!

I even got two to phone me back (which they did) and they were still no shows.

I'm at a complete loss tbh. I wish I knew what the fuck is going on 

I have never been brave enough to double book. We escorts get blasted to bits from men for doing this and I understand their attitude to a point but only the girls who have experienced it and that will be all of us at some time or other, will know how it feels to be primped and perfumed, decked out in the sexiest kit and watching the clock for the moment he either rings the bell or phones to say he  has arrived.  Then nothing.

If I have a one hour booking at 2pm then someone wants 3pm and can not do any other time I still say no because the panic of being ready while Mr 3pm is waiting in the carpark and the worry that Mr 2pm is taking his time with his shoes and coat etc. We can not say to client one that client two is outside and waiting.

Oh far too much worry for me to go through that.
I get hardly any no show men because I do not waver from my rules of booking but once in a while one slips the net. I feel sorry for ladies who get several in one week!

Quote from: DesignerWhore on 27 May 2016, 12:30:22 pm

Quote from: Jill on 27 May 2016, 12:00:19 pm

I have never been brave enough to double book. We escorts get blasted to bits from men for doing this and I understand their attitude to a point but only the girls who have experienced it and that will be all of us at some time or other, will know how it feels to be primped and perfumed, decked out in the sexiest kit and watching the clock for the moment he either rings the bell or phones to say he  has arrived.  Then nothing.

If I have a one hour booking at 2pm then someone wants 3pm and can not do any other time I still say no because the panic of being ready while Mr 3pm is waiting in the carpark and the worry that Mr 2pm is taking his time with his shoes and coat etc. We can not say to client one that client two is outside and waiting.

Oh far too much worry for me to go through that.
I get hardly any no show men because I do not waver from my rules of booking but once in a while one slips the net. I feel sorry for ladies who get several in one week!

Absolutely agree. I think it's unacceptable.

It's horrible when you have your time wasted, my worst one was with a client who sounded completely genuine, was located in Birmingham and wanted me to travel for a two hour outcall, all came across well, great feedback great on the phone, got ready made my way there to the apartment complex, rang and nothing, rang his phone and the door again and nothing. The journey cost me ?50.

I would never make a client feel that way, if a client books me for a certain time, he gets that time, I don't double book for regulars or anyone else I just think it's wrong, and if the client you fobbed off was to find out and give you negative feedback/review, you can't exactly defend it. Each to their own though!

I don't have any negative feedback and TBH it wouldn't bother me if did as long as it gave me a negative for double booking a new punter and not for the quality of my services I'd hold my hands up and say "guilty as charged".
I refuse advanced bookings preferring instead to book same day and short notice bookings and when I've done 3 bookings I've done for the day even if that's midday. My policy is first come first served and if you want a booking best to come early or you may be disappointed. I tell them straight I don't give new punters a guaranteed booking as I may be finished hours before the time they want to come. My mantra is "This is MY business and its always going to be run to suit me not the punter" and that philosophy has never let me down.