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newbieNW

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5940 on: 25 May 2016, 08:01:34 am »

My point is, I'm moving out, I cannot afford my expensive flat and everything clients expect me to have. All the girls here coming aren't good news... The decent ones are leaving and worse and cheaper girls are coming....
I'm shocked guys don't mind paying less and seeing someone who doesn't speak English and looks like a streetwalker etc.

"Pussy" is Pussy, isn't it?  Especially, if they are young and nice looking, should they care?  Sorry to be graphic  :-X You are probably not far from what will happen as a lot had happened in this industry based on what I read (price coming down radically due to the sudden influx of cheaper services from poorer EU countries).  Lots of cheap ladies from E block are pimped by some sort of gangs. It is likely that they are not indies who have their own volition.  One punter told me he was nearly robbed by one. 

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5941 on: 25 May 2016, 11:12:09 am »
Is not about EE working girls only, have YOU girls Look on AW how many british ladys charge a low price and offer a lot FOR it ?
Before putting every one on the same pott YOU should have a Look what happens everywere

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5942 on: 25 May 2016, 11:17:49 am »
As far as I know there has always been varying prices/service for clients to choose from. Its not fair or helpful to blame other nationalities for the saturation of the sex industry its just basic economics, more women deciding to take up escorting, as with anything that looks easy, everyone jumps on the bandwagon, then when they realise its not all sweetness and light, easy money a lot leave the industry too. As for the 'street walker' comment some men like that look/style, each to their own.  :)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5943 on: 25 May 2016, 11:32:36 am »
As far as I know there has always been varying prices/service for clients to choose from. Its not fair or helpful to blame other nationalities for the saturation of the sex industry its just basic economics, more women deciding to take up escorting, as with anything that looks easy, everyone jumps on the bandwagon, then when they realise its not all sweetness and light, easy money a lot leave the industry too. As for the 'street walker' comment some men like that look/style, each to their own.  :)

This+1

Also as I think Amy said once spending ?100+ on something where you're not actually taking something away is a lot money to spend. So someone choosing to spend ?80 for an hour doesn't make them cheap or the girl for charging that. I dropped my hourly rate down a year ago because it was either be more competitive or struggle to pay my rent and bills

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5944 on: 25 May 2016, 11:43:28 am »
Right. To those continuing to post offensive, bigoted and xenophobic comments (and to whom I and my posts are apparently invisible) there will be no more hints and no more warnings. It stops now or further action will be taken.

As far as I know there has always been varying prices/service for clients to choose from. Its not fair or helpful to blame other nationalities for the saturation of the sex industry its just basic economics, more women deciding to take up escorting, as with anything that looks easy, everyone jumps on the bandwagon, then when they realise its not all sweetness and light, easy money a lot leave the industry too. As for the 'street walker' comment some men like that look/style, each to their own.  :)

This+1

Also as I think Amy said once spending ?100+ on something where you're not actually taking something away is a lot money to spend. So someone choosing to spend ?80 for an hour doesn't make them cheap or the girl for charging that. I dropped my hourly rate down a year ago because it was either be more competitive or struggle to pay my rent and bills

Exactly. In August I'll be going to a film festival I go to every year; the pass will cost me ?195 alongside travel and five nights in a London hotel. I've just spent nigh on ?60 on cinema tickets for something else this morning which is also going to mean an expensive hotel stay - everybody has their own ideas about what constitutes good value and the figure itself doesn't have a lot to do with it :).
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5945 on: 25 May 2016, 01:10:30 pm »
Many years ago one of my friends got peed off with similar to you so she just booked in whoever called.   One day I called in to see her and asked how things were going ... She had SEVEN booked in for two different appointment times 30 minutes apart and NOT ONE of them had turned up, so although we give up an appointment time for another person there is still no guarantee that they will turn up. Made me realise, go with the flow, first come first serviced, which is what others do now too.

I don't know any ways that are totally foolproof in this situ, even regulars and those who confirm bookings can let you down, it really is disappointing when it happens.

I did that one afternoon. Said yes to anything for 5 or 6. Everyone showed but a couple waited a couple of minutes  one was so quick it barely mattered and I offered one  a discount to wait thirty minutes. I made the money of four bookings instead of just taking one.

Frankly, they're used to being fucked about a lot by escorts.

I lost too much money leaving gaps between bookings. From now on, it's back to back.
« Last Edit: 25 May 2016, 01:13:03 pm by Fabulassie »

Blonde Floozie

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5946 on: 25 May 2016, 01:21:25 pm »
It doesn't matter what anyone charges or where they are from.

Personally, my prices vary depending on what I need to make and where I am. For example, I have less overheads at my home base so choose to charge less.

Anyway, it is QUIET for me right now and I have been in LOTS of destinations. You just have to pitch up somewhere and sit it out. I honestly don't think it matters where I go although I do think going to a different county is a good idea.

I have a lot of friends in this industry and they are ALL quiet, bar one, but she needs a lot less than most of us and considers an hour and a half hour a good day. What is 'busy' for one, is not necessarily 'busy' for another. What I HAVE noticed though is a significant number of TWs, much more than normal, so I have tightened up my screening and make them jump through more hoops to get to see me. This is relevant to all destinations and is so frustrating.

Whatever happens in this career, I love it and I KNOW it will pick up.

Good luck to everyone XXX

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5947 on: 25 May 2016, 01:26:28 pm »
To clarify... This was in a town with heavy traffic issues and they were all vague about the time "after five"  "five thirty-ish" etc.

In central London and in my home city, people are pretty prompt and I can schedule precisely. But in other places everyone is late so vagueness on the time is the norm.


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5948 on: 25 May 2016, 01:30:25 pm »
better this week.
Chose my location better and made sure I wasn't so close to a parlour unlike last week :FF
Has been ok and hit targets.
not expecting much next week though with it being half term here as of Friday...

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5949 on: 25 May 2016, 01:34:04 pm »
You get cheap prices everywhere Even in Dubai there are escorts / AMP charging 80 for an hour
And ?60 for happy ending along with those thst are charging ?300 -?500

It's the same everywhere and you / we / I either accept thats they way it is or get pro active about working , marketing , touring ect

But sometimes when all is said and done there is nothing you can do but ride it out

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5950 on: 25 May 2016, 01:45:59 pm »
I am from Czech n in my city I was till today expensive than some British woman. Today I decide go down on 10? because a lot of girls here have around 80/h....so bad but hope week or two I will go every month on tour so can make less home n don't go under 100/h....or will have to move or just tour....

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5951 on: 25 May 2016, 04:56:59 pm »
I'm on tour in London at the moment. I had a client that I had seen a couple of times before prebook for yesterday today and tomorrow back in January. He came yesterday was happy and saying he was looking forward to seeing me today and tomorrow. Since then I've heard nothing from him and he hasn't shown up! Im pretty annoyed

Kendall

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5952 on: 25 May 2016, 09:00:16 pm »
Tonight Picked up and had to turn people down, got my last hour at 930 and I've thankfully got all my bill money for the month

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5953 on: 25 May 2016, 09:59:56 pm »
It doesn't matter what anyone charges or where they are from.

What I HAVE noticed though is a significant number of TWs, much more than normal, so I have tightened up my screening and make them jump through more hoops to get to see me. This is relevant to all destinations


This was mentioned earlier too.  This is so true. It seems loads are looking for some free fix. 

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #5954 on: 26 May 2016, 12:26:48 am »
Many years ago one of my friends got peed off with similar to you so she just booked in whoever called.   One day I called in to see her and asked how things were going ... She had SEVEN booked in for two different appointment times 30 minutes apart and NOT ONE of them had turned up, so although we give up an appointment time for another person there is still no guarantee that they will turn up. Made me realise, go with the flow, first come first serviced, which is what others do now too.

I don't know any ways that are totally foolproof in this situ, even regulars and those who confirm bookings can let you down, it really is disappointing when it happens.

I did that one afternoon. Said yes to anything for 5 or 6. Everyone showed but a couple waited a couple of minutes  one was so quick it barely mattered and I offered one  a discount to wait thirty minutes. I made the money of four bookings instead of just taking one.

Frankly, they're used to being fucked about a lot by escorts.

I lost too much money leaving gaps between bookings. From now on, it's back to back.
I should have done back to back today. Someone called at 3 for 2hr booking but I say no as had booking 5 for one hour( someone I'd seen before) so stupid I said no cuz I like to leave half hour between bookings. I tried calling back to say, yes I can do it but didn't go through. Feel like a fool as i missed out 2 hour money 😔. Shouldn't have said no especially when I had seen other guy before. I just want to cry. So stupid to do that. Now that 2 hr guy wouldn't call to book again.  :'(
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