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foxylady

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3090 on: 16 January 2015, 02:24:41 pm »
Hi, thanks...........I've been reading the "sponge" threads and to be honest no, I can't do that.  I'm too honest for my own good really, would feel deceitful, and obviously I would have to refuse a client reverse oral, which would be weird.

I gave the guy the option of limited services, but I wasn't going to reduce me hourly rate as the period isn't heavy and happy to have sex still, so he declined!  You know what I think it is?  Men love reverse oral, they just love it!

I am hoping it doesn't last too long...........does anyone else have the 3 month injection?

Funny thing is, my 12 year old daughter said to me the other night "god mum, you love your job don't you?!!"  Bless her, she accepts that I am not a "normal" mother, but we have a good laugh about it.  I said "who wouldn't love it, getting paid and laid at the same time", plus I no longer have to meet all the idiot game players looking for casual sex on dating sites........RESULT!!!!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3091 on: 16 January 2015, 03:03:44 pm »
Your 12 year old knows? :o wow how did you tell her? I'd love to be that open with my family.
I have the 3 year implanon implant with the pill on top to regulate periods, I imagine the injections kind of do the same thing as implanon?

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3092 on: 16 January 2015, 04:58:20 pm »
Fabulassie ("PM'd" ye already today  ;)), don't feel bad about taking a day off, you've reached your goal for this week,
and I know it still seems as "lost money" when you turn bookings away, but in the long run you, your health and your
mental health is more important!!!
So take it easy today, treat yerself to something nice, and start again tomorrow!
We can be so tough on ourselves... !
And to Foxylady, I use a sponge, but only on my last few days, and if it's a regular (who I know is into oral, fingering etc.),
I'll tell him, coz I know he'll most likely feel it..
Anyone else, I just take the booking, and hope it goes alright lol, so far it has...
I totally know where you're coming from but, I find it hard not to tell them too!  ;)
As for being slow/busy (sorry, went right off subject there), had 3 half hr bookings today and a LOT of TW's!!
Same as yesterday, booking, changing their mind, booking again.. FFS make up your minds, I've got a schedule to keep to
as well!  :FF
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Ieaio

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3093 on: 16 January 2015, 07:12:08 pm »
Getting a slow tap of a couple a day most days but not all, i'm just happy its not like last jan for me because that was the my first jan on the job and it was a shock lol

foxylady

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3094 on: 16 January 2015, 10:47:14 pm »
Chloe,

Lone parent syndrome, I couldn't lie because we are that close, she would never have forgiven me if she had guessed/found out, so much as I didn't want to have the conversation, I had to.  Thankfully, despite her reaction "Oh mum, you're not going to become a prossie!!!"  (That made me laugh, where did she get that from?!!)  She's cool.  I think if she saw I was unhappy etc. it would be different, but clearly the combination of money and "job satisfaction" (ahem!!!) shows.

Siorse,

Thanks yeah, the 3 month injection does work in the same way but they can't guarantee how your body will react.  Stupidly I got a show of bleeding, then it stopped and I have had no more.  If I hadn't panicked and cancelled I could have gone ahead to be honest.  Hopefully I shall be okay for bookings over the next week.

Onwards and upwards!

Let's hope all you ladies have a good weekend ahead, working or not working. x

Siorse

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3095 on: 17 January 2015, 03:55:37 pm »
Pffff worst day ever!!! had a few bookings, all cancelled  :FF Lots of timewasters...
Surely it can't be coz that wee bit of snow  ::)
I think I give up.. And hope for a better day tomorrow..!
Hope everybody else is having a better day!!
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Fabulassie

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3096 on: 17 January 2015, 04:41:51 pm »
Pffff worst day ever!!! had a few bookings, all cancelled  :FF Lots of timewasters...
Surely it can't be coz that wee bit of snow  ::)
I think I give up.. And hope for a better day tomorrow..!
Hope everybody else is having a better day!!

Pretty quiet today. I have an outcall for the evening and did a half hour just now. I'm not too bothered.

Midsstudent

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3097 on: 17 January 2015, 06:34:14 pm »
I wonder about how much I'd make if I worked more hours. But with uni and lack of motivation some days I barely ever take short notice bookings. Almost everyone I see is advance bookings, so I make enough to get me by (comfortably) but not as well off as I think I could be if I could find the energy to want to do short notice bookings/deal with the TW etc...

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3098 on: 17 January 2015, 08:34:47 pm »
Hi ladies, never done incalls on a Sunday before.  Do you think it's a good day to work or will  be slow?

Anna Condar

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3099 on: 17 January 2015, 08:39:47 pm »
It's reassuring to see that a few of us are having a slow time at the moment. This is my first time since being a newbie in November 2013, so I expected Jan 2014 to be slow, but this year I've been really surprised and disappointed and worried. I'm miles behind on my rent despite having a civvy job and they are now threatening eviction  :( :(

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3100 on: 17 January 2015, 08:45:33 pm »
Miss B - I think quite a few clients would like to have a session on a Sunday, but they assume most of us don't work. So I would advertise, advertise, and advertise again if you're going to be available any or some Sundays. I've never had many clients, but certainly some.

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Midsstudent

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3101 on: 17 January 2015, 08:51:34 pm »
I find I am very quiet on Sunday's. I don't tour on weekends due to this. But that could be because the kind of client I like to see comes during lunch break/before or after work... I don't know.

The_Lynx

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3102 on: 17 January 2015, 10:15:45 pm »
Seems like the past few days people contact me only after I'm done working for the day. For fuck's sake. ><

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3103 on: 18 January 2015, 12:05:48 pm »
Seems like the past few days people contact me only after I'm done working for the day. For fuck's sake. ><

I'm getting exactly the same! I no longer work late evenings, might do the rare one if I'm keen for it. I have my working hours on my profile, and yet I'm getting idiots wanting bookings at 11pm etc, grrrr. I'm starting to think about working lates again. I stopped doing them because I got plenty in the day and decided I wanted to enjoy my evenings on my sofa being lazy, once I've had a couple hours quiet not doing anything, no matter what time of day, that's it, I can't be arsed to get back up lol, I've got comfy. Plus I seem to get tired a lot now, not sure if it's a diet thing, waiting on sugar level results, hope it's not a sign of diabetes  ???

Anyway, time will tell if I decide to work lates again, I'll only do it if I decide I want to and I'm keen for late night shagging  ;D

Rox xox

Siorse

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #3104 on: 18 January 2015, 04:39:11 pm »
I find Sunday one of my busiest days!! Been non-stop today, thankgod, coz yesterday was dire..
I once made the mistake of taking Sunday off, missed lots of calls, and Monday was dead..
So now I do it the other way around, and take Monday off, if I need a day off..
Don't get me wrong, I've had some Sunday's that were a complete waste of time, but in general I do ok on Sundays!
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