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sourgrapes

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2700 on: 16 November 2014, 12:11:30 pm »
Today was my FIFTH no show/cancellation this week. And I have a suspicion that my 2pm is also going to now show.
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I think you end up being somewhere at the front or as a "new member alert" or something, so you'll defo get more business
as they, like you said, think you're fresh meat  ;)
Unfortunately double the amount of timewasters too!!
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Yup. Two no-shows and two did-shows. Utter no-shows mystify me. I suppose some of them are deliberately fucking with us but I think others simply think we're not deserving of common courtesy once they've changed their minds for whatever reason. How hard is it to text and say "I'm sorry - been called into work. I'll try to see you another time soon."? I am pretty sure being called into work is the equivalent of leaving the wallet in the car, but it's OK if they make up an excuse.
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I don't think it's thoughtlessness, but totally intentional passive-aggressive behavior of guys who get off on knowing they've cost/lost us money. It gives them a little thrill for the duration of the time they've booked to know we sit there pissed off and stressed, missing our financial target, and it being too late for us to re-book the slot. Utterly c***ish behavior used by men who don't have much going on in their own lives. ::)
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2701 on: 16 November 2014, 12:37:58 pm »
Soniaescort do you think it is your stilted English that is all I can suggest.

as if your english is better ?

I dont see the connection between Sonia s spoken english and the wanker who left ?

No need to be insensitive here, not everybody is born in the UK on this forum. Myself included.

Ha, and me, I wasn't born in the UK either  ;)  Guy was just a wanker, getting off on that kinda shit, pretty sure it
had NOTHING to do with your face OR the way you speak!

Same here. And my English is perfect, unlike the English of some wankers who call me. And yes, most of those wankers are no-show...

Fabulassie

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2702 on: 16 November 2014, 06:10:21 pm »

I don't think it's thoughtlessness, but totally intentional passive-aggressive behavior of guys who get off on knowing they've cost/lost us money. It gives them a little thrill for the duration of the time they've booked to know we sit there pissed off and stressed, missing our financial target, and it being too late for us to re-book the slot. Utterly c***ish behavior used by men who don't have much going on in their own lives. ::)

But Oh! how they gnash their teeth and shake their fists in rage if we cancel at short notice or they realise they've been double-booked/booked back-to-back!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2703 on: 16 November 2014, 06:41:55 pm »
Soniaescort do you think it is your stilted English that is all I can suggest.

When I read something like this makes me wonder how the person would speak in a lenguage that is not his mother tongue...  Anyway, I doubt the problem that sonia has to be with bad English, as we are not English teachers or similar.  I have worked in a speaking English country, my English is not perfect but it is enough to get by, and never had one single problem.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2704 on: 16 November 2014, 06:45:46 pm »
Back on topic, please.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2705 on: 16 November 2014, 08:45:54 pm »

I didn't realise that it makes me show up as a new member.


It doesn't.

I just assumed that I would catch the eye of someone who has been scrolling on past me for the last few weeks.

Yes, this would be what's happened :)

Bluetits

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2706 on: 17 November 2014, 12:07:23 am »
Exactly Sourgrapes and some are jealous of the potential money we can make. I remember one text I got years ago from one who was due to arrive that he's not paying some old slapper 80 quid for half hour of shit when it takes him all day to earn this. He was one angry escort wannabee.

I had my usual Sunday persistent TW. My new photos on Friday I put up have made my PG go mad but not bookings. They're not as sexy as my old ones, more a normal me though.

Miss Molly

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2707 on: 17 November 2014, 10:50:26 am »
It's not so much that I'm slow it's more I am only offer incalls at certain times and I always end up with guys wanting outside those times ..., would really need a working apartment  :-\

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2708 on: 20 November 2014, 12:18:20 pm »
Oh god this has been an horrendous week! Only had one half hour booking! ?70 so far! Infact it's been a rubbish few months!  :FF :FF

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2709 on: 20 November 2014, 12:21:27 pm »
Not too happy myself.. Had a half hr booking at 12.15 but the guy cancelled, saying the ATM would only give him ?40  ::)
Yesterday I had a regular not showing up  >:(
I've got a booking tonight, hope he's not gonna bail on me as well!!  :(
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2710 on: 20 November 2014, 12:24:48 pm »
Not too happy myself.. Had a half hr booking at 12.15 but the guy cancelled, saying the ATM would only give him ?40  ::)


This sounds like a polite way of asking 'what can i get for ?40'  ::)

Fabulassie

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2711 on: 20 November 2014, 12:25:02 pm »
It's a bit quiet today - had a guy text to confirm at 10 as asked (he'd booked two days ago) and he said "confirming today for 3-ish." I texted him back to ask if he could clarify the time and haven't heard off him since. I can only guess that I somehow put him by asking if he could be more precise on the time. We're meant to be an easy sexual "yes" in a world of "no" and some of them shy off at the faintest hint of friction from us. However, I can't operate professionally if people give me vague-ish times about bookings.  ::)

Overall, though, it has been a pretty good week. As I said, new photos and overhauled profile made a difference. I just hope it carries on until Christmas.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2712 on: 20 November 2014, 12:26:21 pm »
All the part-timers have come out for xmas I think, theres been a huge increase in my area of the number of girls. Getting to the point of applying for civvy jobs, it's that bad!
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2713 on: 20 November 2014, 12:26:43 pm »
Not too happy myself.. Had a half hr booking at 12.15 but the guy cancelled, saying the ATM would only give him ?40  ::)


This sounds like a polite way of asking 'what can i get for ?40'  ::)

Yup - that's what I was thinking, too. I've had guys say "Oh, I'm in your neighbourhood,  but I only have ?50...." hoping that I will reply to say "Oh! That will do!" I don't - not because the extra money really matters but because if they play that sort of game they will play others. I suppose part of it comes down to pride.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2714 on: 20 November 2014, 12:27:44 pm »
All the part-timers have come out for xmas I think, theres been a huge increase in my area of the number of girls. Getting to the point of applying for civvy jobs, it's that bad!
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I think you are right! I was new, myself, this time last year so it didn't effect me. But there are fresh new faces and there's a real enthusiasm for "Christmas Whores" because they're assumed to be less jaded and more horny.