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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2280 on: 15 April 2014, 12:05:11 am »
Strange.. I'm based in London and at the moment its v.busy.
Its really difficult to find an algorithm, so I would note what to do and when to do it i.e. how to plan my life  ;D

Really?
For me is many calls but after 8pm till late and I working only till 8pm:-(
I think is something wrong with me? All my adds are on the top and I working really hard with them. I have no idea why It's slow down for me? :FF

Ye,  sometimes when I read this forum all the  other escorts seems to be busy, but I'm not.  And I keep wondering ''whats wrong with me'', but its probably just luck, can't explain it otherwise. As I do not have too many active adds at the moment ( all the  work seem to come from AW at the moment anyway.)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2281 on: 15 April 2014, 12:31:56 am »
put ads up, especially on free sites (no harm will come from that)
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2282 on: 15 April 2014, 09:14:58 am »
put ads up, especially on free sites (no harm will come from that)

I have many free adds and also paid one like a ace massage, viva street etc

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2283 on: 15 April 2014, 09:31:14 am »
I'll have a complete drought, then a flurry of activity. Yesterday was dead, one half hour booking.

Wednesday I have no availability whatsoever (unless someone calls me for 8am!) as I'm booked solid.

Today I'm quite happy with what I have pre-arranged as well, could do more but I'm not worried if I don't. I personally found London a hard market to break but thats likely just me.

Definitely get some more ads, take some more photos, the advertising thread by ParisB that is stickied is very good. BP seems to work in London from what I read. If you don't have a website, just knock up a free one in the meantime. And blog on it. Some girls swear by using keywords like busty, escort, yadda yadda but mine are ramblings that amuse me at the time. It filters through its own traffic for me as I tend to attract the curious first timers. Like it was said elsewhere, anything can be a USP.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2284 on: 15 April 2014, 07:54:18 pm »
I put my first ad up on AW since March and have only had 1 guy who is now my regular, had another but I didn't want to travel 2 plus hours as a newbie for an outcall. It's getting me so down hearted because I would really like more offers during the week. I do in calls Thursday/Friday and offer outcalls the rest of the time.

I feel it might be me definitely, ahhh I dunno. It's frustrating, especially as I hear summer is slow and I'd quite like a decent amount of savings by then. What do I do  :'( :FF

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2285 on: 15 April 2014, 08:13:40 pm »
Try to take some more pics, selfies, etc., start blogging.


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2286 on: 15 April 2014, 10:40:55 pm »
I put my first ad up on AW since March and have only had 1 guy who is now my regular, had another but I didn't want to travel 2 plus hours as a newbie for an outcall. It's getting me so down hearted because I would really like more offers during the week. I do in calls Thursday/Friday and offer outcalls the rest of the time.

I feel it might be me definitely, ahhh I dunno. It's frustrating, especially as I hear summer is slow and I'd quite like a decent amount of savings by then. What do I do  :'( :FF
Think about paying for local escorts and/or available today and keep updating your profile.Also think about having adverts on other directories.Adultwork is good but punters use other places to find escorts.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2287 on: 16 April 2014, 10:32:58 am »
Urgh easter has just reminded me of how pants summer can be at times...


ughhhhh, don't say that!!! lol, dont think i could take this deadness much longer!! im pulling my hair out not earning enough.....and im super horny! my high sex drive isnt being fed enough!!!!..........omg! i might have to give it away for free (one night stand) just to feed my labido!  :o *shudders* haha xox

You know something, I never thought I'd say this, but I did have one client today who was actually really rather good at oral. I was lying there in a happy little zone when he stopped "I don't want to go over time" FUCK THE CLOCK GET BACK DOWN THERE

And this is the one day where I've sat completely organised, twiddling my thumbs, checking that my phone is actually working :FF

paaaahahahahaaaaaaaa, yeah i get the odd client like that, fuck the clock! and you can definately come back again!!!!! hahahahaaaaaa

ive just set myself up on another site, its not escorting, but clips, cam, images etc. have decided that i need to enter the world of online sex if im going to be able to financally carry on in this line of work, i love it too much!!

skyped with the grandparents last night, and as per usual, the talk of my future comes up. "so what are your plans?" etc etc. every bloody time!!!! then nana said she didnt find her calling till she was in her 30s and thats when she discovered her passion in cooking and opened up a resturaunt. (love her cooking! unfortunately, she didnt pass those genes down, im shit in the kitchen and so is my mum, lol)

got me thinking, what do i love, what have i always been passionate about!?...................SEX!!!!!! im always bloody talking about it, just like she always talks about cooking.............so....got me thinking..........maybe i should aim to make a career out of this! but how the fuck would i tell the famalam! lmao! id have to be "a cleaner and barmaid" for the rest of my life lol.

oh well, im 24, got plenty of time to still not know what the fuck i want to do with my life lol. xox

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2288 on: 16 April 2014, 10:39:16 am »
I put my first ad up on AW since March and have only had 1 guy who is now my regular, had another but I didn't want to travel 2 plus hours as a newbie for an outcall. It's getting me so down hearted because I would really like more offers during the week. I do in calls Thursday/Friday and offer outcalls the rest of the time.

I feel it might be me definitely, ahhh I dunno. It's frustrating, especially as I hear summer is slow and I'd quite like a decent amount of savings by then. What do I do  :'( :FF

Your first AW client became a regular, so I suspect it's not you or the way you work, but simply your marketing. If they're not ringing in the first place, it's because your profile doesn't stand out enough. There's plenty of good advice on here re. updating your profile, good pictures, paying extra for local search etc.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2289 on: 16 April 2014, 02:18:04 pm »
Urgh easter has just reminded me of how pants summer can be at times...


ughhhhh, don't say that!!! lol, dont think i could take this deadness much longer!! im pulling my hair out not earning enough.....and im super horny! my high sex drive isnt being fed enough!!!!..........omg! i might have to give it away for free (one night stand) just to feed my labido!  :o *shudders* haha xox

You know something, I never thought I'd say this, but I did have one client today who was actually really rather good at oral. I was lying there in a happy little zone when he stopped "I don't want to go over time" FUCK THE CLOCK GET BACK DOWN THERE

And this is the one day where I've sat completely organised, twiddling my thumbs, checking that my phone is actually working :FF

paaaahahahahaaaaaaaa, yeah i get the odd client like that, fuck the clock! and you can definately come back again!!!!! hahahahaaaaaa

ive just set myself up on another site, its not escorting, but clips, cam, images etc. have decided that i need to enter the world of online sex if im going to be able to financally carry on in this line of work, i love it too much!!

skyped with the grandparents last night, and as per usual, the talk of my future comes up. "so what are your plans?" etc etc. every bloody time!!!! then nana said she didnt find her calling till she was in her 30s and thats when she discovered her passion in cooking and opened up a resturaunt. (love her cooking! unfortunately, she didnt pass those genes down, im shit in the kitchen and so is my mum, lol)

got me thinking, what do i love, what have i always been passionate about!?...................SEX!!!!!! im always bloody talking about it, just like she always talks about cooking.............so....got me thinking..........maybe i should aim to make a career out of this! but how the fuck would i tell the famalam! lmao! id have to be "a cleaner and barmaid" for the rest of my life lol.

oh well, im 24, got plenty of time to still not know what the fuck i want to do with my life lol. xox

AMEN sister!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2290 on: 16 April 2014, 03:58:55 pm »
ive just set myself up on another site, its not escorting, but clips, cam, images etc. have decided that i need to enter the world of online sex if im going to be able to financally carry on in this line of work, i love it too much!!

Any advertising you do is good for escorting, it brings attention to yourself and raises your profile, especially if you can link back to your Adultwork profile or your own web site if you have one. There will always be guys that see your profile on another site and want to meet for real, even better if you make a few ???'s from the mi??ions of cyber-wankers looking at your photos / videos

From a marketing point of view always try and use the same user-name, then anybody that googles it should find other stuff about you and a link to how to meet.

Sarah x x x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2291 on: 17 April 2014, 11:05:20 pm »
I put my first ad up on AW since March and have only had 1 guy who is now my regular, had another but I didn't want to travel 2 plus hours as a newbie for an outcall. It's getting me so down hearted because I would really like more offers during the week. I do in calls Thursday/Friday and offer outcalls the rest of the time.

I feel it might be me definitely, ahhh I dunno. It's frustrating, especially as I hear summer is slow and I'd quite like a decent amount of savings by then. What do I do  :'( :FF

There isn't much outcall work, a few compared to a high percentage of in calls.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2292 on: 25 April 2014, 08:06:45 pm »
This morning when I was stuck on a broken down coach on my way to London, my phone was on fire and I couldn't see anyone and missed 2 bookings, then my one this evening cancelled, and now I'm sitting here ready to go and my phone is dead and it's friday night!  :FF I'm praying this weekend picks up xx

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2293 on: 26 April 2014, 01:43:48 am »

Things are so slow for me at the moment, I'm in a small town & I've had no bookings today whatsoever. The only inquiry was from a previous client saying he "might" want to come down and see me tomorrow and if he did then he'd let me know ASAP, he hasn't gotten back to me so i take it he's not coming. I've just paid my rent, so i'm absolutely broke now so i'm really hoping next week will be better.

I've been quite worried as of late, that the way things are going i might fall behind on my rent which isn't an option because my landlord would kick me out right away, he's said as much. I don't have any savings and I've been quite very stupid in the way i've worked, i spent my money as i earned it thinking the previously steady flow of clients would always be there - how wrong was i  ::)

I'm now in a position where i'm seriously kicking myself for not saving because if one week i had no bookings at all, i'd be out on my ear, and you can't sell sex from a cardboard box! I'm contemplating 'reinventing' myself somewhere else, or maybe going on tour for a while, but that requires money, and no (or very few) clients means little to no money  :FF

I wish i'd been sensible and saved some money for the inevitable "dry periods" that we get, but in all honesty and naivety i didn't think it'd get so slow.  Here's to hoping it picks up soon and i can start putting some money away for some security but having been young, naive and blinded by the pound signs i'm now seeing things from a different perspective. Lesson learned  ::)







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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2294 on: 26 April 2014, 04:54:39 pm »

Things are so slow for me at the moment, I'm in a small town & I've had no bookings today whatsoever. The only inquiry was from a previous client saying he "might" want to come down and see me tomorrow and if he did then he'd let me know ASAP, he hasn't gotten back to me so i take it he's not coming. I've just paid my rent, so i'm absolutely broke now so i'm really hoping next week will be better.

I've been quite worried as of late, that the way things are going i might fall behind on my rent which isn't an option because my landlord would kick me out right away, he's said as much. I don't have any savings and I've been quite very stupid in the way i've worked, i spent my money as i earned it thinking the previously steady flow of clients would always be there - how wrong was i  ::)

I'm now in a position where i'm seriously kicking myself for not saving because if one week i had no bookings at all, i'd be out on my ear, and you can't sell sex from a cardboard box! I'm contemplating 'reinventing' myself somewhere else, or maybe going on tour for a while, but that requires money, and no (or very few) clients means little to no money  :FF

I wish i'd been sensible and saved some money for the inevitable "dry periods" that we get, but in all honesty and naivety i didn't think it'd get so slow.  Here's to hoping it picks up soon and i can start putting some money away for some security but having been young, naive and blinded by the pound signs i'm now seeing things from a different perspective. Lesson learned  ::)

Your landlord can't kick you out without giving you notice even if there is no written tenancy agreement, by law you handing over money for rent is a contract. Contact your citizen advice bureau.