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Clarabella

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2070 on: 19 December 2013, 11:26:07 am »
I didn't have time to scratch my own arse this time last year and I'm afraid I've gone and counted my chickens before they hatched  :P  It's pretty dire for me too.  Gutted!  The weather has been awful so that might of had a huge part in it.  I'm also hoping I'll be bombarded with bookings in the next day or two!  Fingers crossed!

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« Reply #2071 on: 19 December 2013, 12:14:18 pm »
I'm wondering if the rush is going to come at the weekend, Monday 23rd and perhaps Tuesday 24th. I always remember it being busy at this time of year but I'm thinking perhaps there will be a peak in Jan instead. It might be people have tightened their belts this year.

One thing I am noticing though is an increase in evening enquiries, as if the late night shopping is providing a nice cover for people.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2072 on: 19 December 2013, 12:41:28 pm »
for me (in Amsterdam) it's busy times. Just like last year. I provide femdom (light) and GFE and getting lots of emails. Mostly 2-hour bookings. Also clients from a long time ago wanting to see me before Christmas.
So I am not complaining and saving for Jan/Feb when it will probably be quiet.

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« Reply #2073 on: 19 December 2013, 01:02:38 pm »
I'm wondering if the rush is going to come at the weekend, Monday 23rd and perhaps Tuesday 24th. I always remember it being busy at this time of year but I'm thinking perhaps there will be a peak in Jan instead. It might be people have tightened their belts this year.

One thing I am noticing though is an increase in evening enquiries, as if the late night shopping is providing a nice cover for people.

Its hard to compare like to like as I was in a different area last year, but it definately seeems a LOT slower this December.  I'm seeing more guys wanting shorter bookings so I too think theres a lot of belt tightening going on.

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« Reply #2074 on: 19 December 2013, 01:34:16 pm »
I think the money in escorting isnt what it used to be. 8 years ago I could easil make triple of what I make now.
Don't get me wrong, the money can still be great with the right advertising and a bunch of regulars. The money can also be brilliant one month but awful the next. This unreliabilty and the fact so many of us are hardly getting any bookings anymore suggests escorting isnt actually much better money than working in a normal 9-5 low salary job.
The best way to avoid severe stress from lack of money in these hard times Is to get a part time job. You could earn ?700 a month just from working 3 days a week and you could then still escort on days off. Might take the pressure off if we all have that security blanket to pay rent and bills

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2075 on: 19 December 2013, 01:54:03 pm »
Every client has cancelled this week - even my regulars! No income :( I want to cry!!
I've budgeted money with Christmas around the corner but I was hoping to have a little more money - didnt think ALL my regulars would cancel.

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« Reply #2076 on: 19 December 2013, 03:13:03 pm »
The market has become super saturated and will only get worse, especially in my opinion with the new laws the government have introduced, where new e.u immigrant can't get benefits for 3 months/6 month payment stops e.t.c Plus now people are hearing the U.K is coming out of recession  more people will coming looking for work.

The is hope. In every ecosystem there will be growth to the point it can't be sustained anymore, it will decline. In other words, soon there will be sooo many escorts, that the income will become so low (supply and demand) that many escorts won't see it as a worthwhile income, many will look for alternative income. Just a thought.

Just hold on, the second income is a good idea, saving while in good times is very important.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2077 on: 19 December 2013, 04:16:19 pm »
I had a week like this two weeks ago. Had 5 bookings and they all cancelled. I think clients are probably just feeling wary of how much they are spending before Xmas and end up realising they probably shouldn't be paying for such luxuries.
It's a shame as Christmas has always normally been a busy time.
At least we can remember this for next year and make sure we put money aside for the winter months throughout 2014. I'm definitely going to look for a part time job soon too just to make sure my essentials such as rent, food and bills are covered without any issues.
Hope it picks up for you over the next few days

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« Reply #2078 on: 19 December 2013, 05:34:01 pm »
Not everybody coming from Eastern Europe will wish to do escort work.

Also not every guy wishes to see them, each to their own.

I think it will still affect us but not as badly as you think - I hope!

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« Reply #2079 on: 20 December 2013, 08:38:35 pm »
A number of girls have written saying they're thinking of looking for part-time work and I must admit I've thought of doing the same but the question is: what sort of work?  There isn't a huge amount around here (at least there won't be after Christmas) and the pay is so low I'd have to work days to earn what I'd normally earn in an hour or two.

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« Reply #2080 on: 20 December 2013, 08:52:34 pm »
I was thinking of part time reception type work. The money isn't great (probably only earn ?800 a month max for 3 full days work) but it would take huge pressure off my shoulders as it would mean rent and bills are definitely covered.
I could then do the escorting for 2 days a week and earn another 2000 a month or so.

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« Reply #2081 on: 20 December 2013, 10:18:50 pm »
With the vast increase in working girls over the past few years and a similar number of guys between this ever increasing number of girls working, I think many girls have thought along the same lines.

I have noticed that girls that used to do Phone Chat are now doing Webcamming too or vice versa.  Ive also noticed that many girls doing webcam/phone chat are now starting to do directIM, so taking on a part time job is no different really.

Doing the extra work on AW is fine but it is not guaranteed whereas if you do get a part time job the wages are, so I don't think its as silly a job as many girls seem to think.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2082 on: 21 December 2013, 02:31:32 am »
With the vast increase in working girls over the past few years and a similar number of guys between this ever increasing number of girls working, I think many girls have thought along the same lines.

I've noticed more and more 'ethnic' aka Black escorts in my area...and when I first moved here 3 years ago there were hardly none but maybe 1 or 2. And I live in a part of the country where there generally aren't much in the way of ethnic escorts to choose from for a span of over 700 miles in all directions.

I used to have a handful of regulars, but many of them I don't hear from, but I have picked up some better paying ones over the months, but I've lost just as many. It'd help if I had BOTH of them. But it's hard to tell if it's just run it's course, or if they are seeing different guys.

I had 1 regular even ASK ME about 2 other guys, as in some sort of referral. He did see me again after that, but it demonstrates what's happening. I'm seriously considering relocating, and I also plan to leave the business in the near future.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2083 on: 21 December 2013, 09:11:50 am »
a lot of work is often on 0 contract hours so no real guarantee of work/ set hours  i think that while they are good for business they are fucking awful for the staff / employees unless its pin money or just some extra cash and not regular money

All the big  retail and catering /hospitality companies pretty much do this now and rarely offer full time /part time hours to there staff   It


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2084 on: 21 December 2013, 10:04:15 am »
In every ecosystem there will be growth to the point it can't be sustained anymore, it will decline. In other words, soon there will be sooo many escorts, that the income will become so low (supply and demand) that many escorts won't see it as a worthwhile income, many will look for alternative income. Just a thought.

That's the key. I feel we're in that phase right now. But, even though here in the US they are touting a rebounding economy, lower gas prices, etc...it hasn't fixed anything yet.

I was just in Florida for 3 weeks earlier this month, where the cost of living is fairly high. Yet, I'm in Western USA with lower prices   for gas and groceries and overall cost of living, yet business is no better here than it was there.

It may take a good 3-5 years for the 'ecosystem' to rebound. I don't know if I can afford to wait that long.