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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #2010 on: 30 November 2013, 04:27:33 pm »
Yes, it is quite hard to start off at the moment, I've read through a lot of posts from 2011 and back then it was obviously easy to get decent bookings.

However, I've updated my profile on AW, punterlink, punternet etc. and the bookings are coming in slowly, I am more than happy with that. I have also started to take calls again, which I didn't want to do because I only got weirdos who called in the middle of the night or wanted sex talk, so stopped doing that. I just ignore them now and 2 of the calls I had since yesterday, turned out to be decent and I got 2 bookings  ;D

That proofs that even though it's hard at the moment, it can be done with some effort in updating profiles and being more flexible in how to take on bookings (mail, text, calls etc.)

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« Reply #2011 on: 30 November 2013, 04:32:26 pm »
In 2007 I was earning an absolute fortune. 20 genuine bookings minimum per day would come through on AW and I would see 5 a day. I could also get away with charging ?170 per hour back then and guys would pay it without any complaints.
I'm lucky to get 5 genuine bookings per week now and my hourly rate is ?120. I have moved to an area that doesn't seem great for escorting though so that might have something to do with it. There's also far too much competition these days and a lot of the wealthier clients back in the day will have to be careful with money after the recession.
I'm finding this Christmas weirdly slow too. Last christmas I was very comfortable indeed. Hopefully it will pick up after new year and if not then we'll all just have to up our advertising or tighten our outgoings

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« Reply #2012 on: 30 November 2013, 04:39:00 pm »
Sammy, I really don't think business has a lot to do with your location.  Business has really changed since those days with  many girls saturating the business thinking "anyone" can do the job which we all know is wrong.  It has made a big difference to lots of girls takings.

I for one would not like to be trying to start out now, four times as many girls as there was five years ago and roughly the same number of guys with less money  :(
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« Reply #2013 on: 30 November 2013, 04:50:48 pm »
You're definitely right about too many women thinking it's an easy way to make a fast buck. I personally think it's a very challenging job and difficult to maintain a regular flow of good money. A good escort can detatch herself from the situation and give a great performance whilst also (the majority of the time) hopefully enjoying herself too. A lot of my regulars say they book inexperienced girls sometimes as they look great in their photos but the actual experience turns out to be dreadful because the girl is tense, unhappy, bored, naive or awkward with them.
I think we just need to treat our regulars well, up our advertising or take on a part time job if any of us are struggling in this current climate.
I don't have a phone number on my profile so I'm going to add one next week to see if that brings any extra clients in. And I'm also going to add some new photos and lower my prices by ?10 (not willing to lower anymore than that though). I might also try webcamming again for a bit of extra money and maybe massage only bookings too for cheaper than my hourly rates (I am trained in massage).
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« Reply #2014 on: 30 November 2013, 06:16:55 pm »
I do beleive the area can make a difference.  The area I'm in currently does not seem great - its a mystery to me why some areas work better than others.  I've noticed a trend for not only the last week of the month to be slow, but also the middle week.  Has anyone else noticed this?

In a different area on tour I got a lot more interest (and that was on half term!)

Its also a mystery to me that........whatever paid advertising I take out, the only site that works for me is AW, this applies to ALL areas I've worked in.  Unfortunately AW does not seem great in my current area, so that means I'm quiet.

I've come to the conclusion that most national advertising works best in London, but patchily at best in many other areas.

I have to say that I don't think you have to be detatched/perform to be a good escort.  Personally I allow part of me to let go totally, which I beleive is what the clients like about me!

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« Reply #2015 on: 30 November 2013, 09:50:52 pm »
i think it depend on how you work   i have a permanent in call base and so i go there every day mon - fri and i stay there from 10.30am till around 6.30pm  and take a lot of short notice i.e. 30 mins notice appointments   Yeah there are quite days but overall if I'm working right then it even its self out at the end of the week  to excellent money generally



In the evening and weekends i will be at home and if they give me enough notice then i will go from my house to my flat to see people 

Virtually all of my appointments bar a few have been short notice  4 today were short notice  i.e. 30 mins - 1 hour notice  and pretty much the same for the week 

if however i was sat at home and waiting to go to my flat for a booking i would have probably only done half of what i did this week maybe only a 1/4 


Some areas are good some areas are crap   but what works for one girl might not work for another  you literally have to suck it and see

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« Reply #2016 on: 30 November 2013, 10:35:16 pm »
Hmmm re short notice bookings I think its right that they do bring in the most work.

 When I started properly last year as an indie I just wasn't organised enough to take on short notice bookings and plus I was so nervous as well so I insisted on prebooked appointments or failing that to be given at least an hour or more notice. Due to that I know I lost out on alot of business but Im glad I gave myself the chance to settle in and find my bearings so no regrets.

Now Im not so new and better organised and confident I am now a taking on alot more short notice bookings where this time last year I wouldn't have ever and things are going ok. But a big factor was because were and are for me the most requested type of booking. And clients who tried to book to see me upto 9 months ago and didnt get through then are coming through now...

I noticed the short notice bookings are usually more likely to genuinely turn up as well

However Im still not as organised as I would like to be to do so everyday but its getting there!
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« Reply #2017 on: 30 November 2013, 11:25:27 pm »
Hmmm re short notice bookings I think its right that they do bring in the most work.

 When I started properly last year as an indie I just wasn't organised enough to take on short notice bookings and plus I was so nervous as well so I insisted on prebooked appointments or failing that to be given at least an hour or more notice. Due to that I know I lost out on alot of business but Im glad I gave myself the chance to settle in and find my bearings so no regrets.

Now Im not so new and better organised and confident I am now a taking on alot more short notice bookings where this time last year I wouldn't have ever and things are going ok. But a big factor was because were and are for me the most requested type of booking. And clients who tried to book to see me upto 9 months ago and didnt get through then are coming through now...

I noticed the short notice bookings are usually more likely to genuinely turn up as well

However Im still not as organised as I would like to be to do so everyday but its getting there!

I take a mixture of advance and same day bookings, in the last few weeks 50% of the same day bookings have either cancelled last minute, or misjudged travel/window of opportunity times and been extremely late or there's been a lot of changes or not enough time to sort out directions, the drop out rate I find is the same as for advance bookings and the amount of changing around the same or higher than advance bookings. Perhaps it's my area I don't know but the travel/planning thing is the biggest problem, and the reason I prefer advance bookings - they get more time to work out the route rather than me trying to give directions whilst I'm getting ready, showered or whatever.

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« Reply #2018 on: 01 December 2013, 09:14:39 am »
Hmmm re short notice bookings I think its right that they do bring in the most work.

 When I started properly last year as an indie I just wasn't organised enough to take on short notice bookings and plus I was so nervous as well so I insisted on prebooked appointments or failing that to be given at least an hour or more notice. Due to that I know I lost out on alot of business but Im glad I gave myself the chance to settle in and find my bearings so no regrets.

Now Im not so new and better organised and confident I am now a taking on alot more short notice bookings where this time last year I wouldn't have ever and things are going ok. But a big factor was because were and are for me the most requested type of booking. And clients who tried to book to see me upto 9 months ago and didnt get through then are coming through now...

I noticed the short notice bookings are usually more likely to genuinely turn up as well

However Im still not as organised as I would like to be to do so everyday but its getting there!

I take a mixture of advance and same day bookings, in the last few weeks 50% of the same day bookings have either cancelled last minute, or misjudged travel/window of opportunity times and been extremely late or there's been a lot of changes or not enough time to sort out directions, the drop out rate I find is the same as for advance bookings and the amount of changing around the same or higher than advance bookings. Perhaps it's my area I don't know but the travel/planning thing is the biggest problem, and the reason I prefer advance bookings - they get more time to work out the route rather than me trying to give directions whilst I'm getting ready, showered or whatever.

Im the same half and half on the day and advanced bookings. I have noticed an increase though in half hour bookings who either cancel last minute or no show, as if its only half an hour so they are not that bothered right now. It used to be the case that the majority of my bookings were for hours but these half hours seem to be on the increase but only half of them arrive, its getting to the point where I feel like knocking them on the head other than for my couple of regular half hour guys but then what if the time wasters book for longer and still don't show?more time wasted. My 45 min and hour or longer guys always show up other than one particular silly guy who no showed me a 2 hour but I recognised his voice and last time he tried it I said "oh suuuuuuuuure you can" rather sarcastically and he hasn't done it since.

I have just moved apartments this weekend from the relative sticks as far as mk is concerned and into the city centre, I guess only time will tell wether i gain or lose because of this, its just cheaper all round for me regarding rent and travelling costs though so even if I lose a little I will stay the same x

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« Reply #2019 on: 01 December 2013, 09:28:53 am »
Hmmm re short notice bookings I think its right that they do bring in the most work.

 When I started properly last year as an indie I just wasn't organised enough to take on short notice bookings and plus I was so nervous as well so I insisted on prebooked appointments or failing that to be given at least an hour or more notice. Due to that I know I lost out on alot of business but Im glad I gave myself the chance to settle in and find my bearings so no regrets.

Now Im not so new and better organised and confident I am now a taking on alot more short notice bookings where this time last year I wouldn't have ever and things are going ok. But a big factor was because were and are for me the most requested type of booking. And clients who tried to book to see me upto 9 months ago and didnt get through then are coming through now...

I noticed the short notice bookings are usually more likely to genuinely turn up as well

However Im still not as organised as I would like to be to do so everyday but its getting there!

I take a mixture of advance and same day bookings, in the last few weeks 50% of the same day bookings have either cancelled last minute, or misjudged travel/window of opportunity times and been extremely late or there's been a lot of changes or not enough time to sort out directions, the drop out rate I find is the same as for advance bookings and the amount of changing around the same or higher than advance bookings. Perhaps it's my area I don't know but the travel/planning thing is the biggest problem, and the reason I prefer advance bookings - they get more time to work out the route rather than me trying to give directions whilst I'm getting ready, showered or whatever.

Im the same half and half on the day and advanced bookings. I have noticed an increase though in half hour bookings who either cancel last minute or no show, as if its only half an hour so they are not that bothered right now. It used to be the case that the majority of my bookings were for hours but these half hours seem to be on the increase but only half of them arrive, its getting to the point where I feel like knocking them on the head other than for my couple of regular half hour guys but then what if the time wasters book for longer and still don't show?more time wasted. My 45 min and hour or longer guys always show up other than one particular silly guy who no showed me a 2 hour but I recognised his voice and last time he tried it I said "oh suuuuuuuuure you can" rather sarcastically and he hasn't done it since.

I have just moved apartments this weekend from the relative sticks as far as mk is concerned and into the city centre, I guess only time will tell wether i gain or lose because of this, its just cheaper all round for me regarding rent and travelling costs though so even if I lose a little I will stay the same x

I tried half hours several times but found like you they just had a higher probability of being late, chopping & changing, or not turning up. I also found a lot of half hour guys would take loads of texts to set up a booking, push the time, try and stay as long as they could and it was just spoiling the whole thing. To fix this firstly I tried charging a premium, didn't work so I started offering 45 minutes instead and do have one or 2 regulars who are reliable, easy to make arrangements with and genuinely only need 30 minutes who I accept half hour bookings from(one of which at a special rate but he's been seeing me for a very long time).

Had someone yesterday promise me he'd become a regular if I saw him for half an hour, I said ok well book the 45 minute option, turn up and if it is obvious you only need 30 minutes I'll discount you on future appointments. He didn't go for it.

Regards getting booked up, if someone truly intends mucking around they'll book whatever time they want to muck around with, not your shortest just because it's there.
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« Reply #2020 on: 01 December 2013, 10:19:52 am »
I only take advance bookings and i am still busy, i only tour and i guess because i am the new girl in that area i get interest. december is normally a good month but yes i must admit January is horrible
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« Reply #2021 on: 01 December 2013, 06:05:27 pm »
It's been incredibly quiet for me the past 6 weeks compared to this time last year.  I am panicking a bit as what bit I've managed to put away was to see me through Jan and Feb, and I'm already dipping into it.  I take advanced and same day bookings, and it's not that they are cancelling, they're just not booking in the first place.  I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall trying to figure out why, but there's just no rhyme or reason to it.  I  really hope that this month picks up a bit to see me through the Christmas period and that Jan and Feb are better than what they were last year.
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« Reply #2022 on: 01 December 2013, 06:30:23 pm »
last week ( just gone ) was the busiest week that i have had in a long time  - due to a mixture of things really and not applying myself so much to working at home  its been really good week  don't get me wrong I've been ticking along nicely  prior to this   but this week was a nice surprise for me

I did a tour - a few weeks ago  the first proper one in ages where i stuck with it good day and bad day and thanks to some good advice from some ladies on here ( you know who you are ... )     it really boosted my confidence as it was really really good tour and i felt more like my normal buzzing self  but prior to this  i had a period of feeling blah blah Not due to  work but  Nothing major just not pushing myself and making silly choice to tour in places that weren't great

and i think i needed a holiday ( lol) which i did which was a bit like being on holiday with the cast of Jeremy Kyle show  seriously one woman had a tag on ( she had got special permission to go on holiday to Turkey while wearing a tag   ::) the was a potential serial killer kid and  i won at Bingo twice  so i think i got my mojo back 

But back on topic  i was just checking through my diary and i had 3 advance bookings  - i only take advance bookings for the mornings  at 10 -11 am and one for the evening  in the week other than that all the rest were same day with normally 1 hour or so notice which suits me much better than having my day / week planned out for me     

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« Reply #2023 on: 02 December 2013, 08:48:34 am »
Hmmm re short notice bookings I think its right that they do bring in the most work.

 When I started properly last year as an indie I just wasn't organised enough to take on short notice bookings and plus I was so nervous as well so I insisted on prebooked appointments or failing that to be given at least an hour or more notice. Due to that I know I lost out on alot of business but Im glad I gave myself the chance to settle in and find my bearings so no regrets.

Now Im not so new and better organised and confident I am now a taking on alot more short notice bookings where this time last year I wouldn't have ever and things are going ok. But a big factor was because were and are for me the most requested type of booking. And clients who tried to book to see me upto 9 months ago and didnt get through then are coming through now...

I noticed the short notice bookings are usually more likely to genuinely turn up as well

However Im still not as organised as I would like to be to do so everyday but its getting there!

I take a mixture of advance and same day bookings, in the last few weeks 50% of the same day bookings have either cancelled last minute, or misjudged travel/window of opportunity times and been extremely late or there's been a lot of changes or not enough time to sort out directions, the drop out rate I find is the same as for advance bookings and the amount of changing around the same or higher than advance bookings. Perhaps it's my area I don't know but the travel/planning thing is the biggest problem, and the reason I prefer advance bookings - they get more time to work out the route rather than me trying to give directions whilst I'm getting ready, showered or whatever.

Im the same half and half on the day and advanced bookings. I have noticed an increase though in half hour bookings who either cancel last minute or no show, as if its only half an hour so they are not that bothered right now. It used to be the case that the majority of my bookings were for hours but these half hours seem to be on the increase but only half of them arrive, its getting to the point where I feel like knocking them on the head other than for my couple of regular half hour guys but then what if the time wasters book for longer and still don't show?more time wasted. My 45 min and hour or longer guys always show up other than one particular silly guy who no showed me a 2 hour but I recognised his voice and last time he tried it I said "oh suuuuuuuuure you can" rather sarcastically and he hasn't done it since.

I have just moved apartments this weekend from the relative sticks as far as mk is concerned and into the city centre, I guess only time will tell wether i gain or lose because of this, its just cheaper all round for me regarding rent and travelling costs though so even if I lose a little I will stay the same x


Regards getting booked up, if someone truly intends mucking around they'll book whatever time they want to muck around with, not your shortest just because it's there.

Yet its only my half hours that regularly don't show and don't let me know. Other time slots don't really get messed around with. I used to do a 20 min quickie as my lowest booking option but they no showed and messed about so much that I stopped and now that my half hour is my lowest booking time they are getting the same treatment whereas when I offered the 20 min my half hours bookings were rare as hens teeth and when they did come along they always showed up.

Think I have just answered my own question there as Im typing, maybe advertise the quickies again but just say Im fully booked when someone calls for one. They just moved up to the next lowest appointment time.

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« Reply #2024 on: 02 December 2013, 08:52:38 am »
I am about the same this last week as I was last year and it was my first week back in two years so Im ticking along. I usually find that december january and a week  or two into febuary are busy but come the last weeks of feb its slowing down a bit and march is just shite in the shitest way shite could be. Last march I think I did a couple of half hours or a couple of hours each day max and I was thinking "this is it chloe, this is your financial death throes" of course it picked up again in April but my god March is always depressing here.