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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #330 on: 21 February 2011, 07:38:35 pm »
Completely agree with you!!! Past 2 weeks have been very quiet and also lots of timewasters, really glad it's not just me! Does anyone know if this happens at the same time of year? Or any particular times which are especially quiet?

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #331 on: 21 February 2011, 07:44:28 pm »
Yes it does.
This year seems particularly bad,
I think perceptions play a huge part on this
and my ongoing panics prove I'm just as vulnerable to it as anyone else.   :(
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #332 on: 22 February 2011, 11:14:42 am »
?325 a month !?!
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #333 on: 22 February 2011, 11:45:30 am »
?325 a month !?!
No, it's worse. A month has 30 to 31 days.
?325 is for a 28 day period....

What do you do when many major on-line directories specifically exclude Trans?

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #334 on: 22 February 2011, 12:04:10 pm »
I know the transphobia on punter* is appalling, but this level of exploitation feels worse.

I am trying to remember what I paid when ex-work experimented with advertising there. I do remember enjoying getting them to explain why we couldn't have any white in the ads each time :) and that, for us looking for sex workers interested in our services, it wasn't worth it.

All print advertising rates are up for negotiation in my experience. Have you tried saying 'right, I'm moving to one day a week unless...'? (Going for a different day each week should still reach a large proportion of the readership.)

Depending on your clients, I'd also look at the gay and fetish media. That level of money is going to get various ad people looking to please you.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #335 on: 23 February 2011, 08:39:12 am »
I had 3 bookings last week, only timewasters this week, I'm getting desperate... :-\ I hope things will pick up soon ::) Why is February so dead? I just don't understand...

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #336 on: 23 February 2011, 11:19:59 am »
I know the transphobia on punter* is appalling, but this level of exploitation feels worse.

All print advertising rates are up for negotiation in my experience. Have you tried saying 'right, I'm moving to one day a week unless...'? (Going for a different day each week should still reach a large proportion of the readership.)

Depending on your clients, I'd also look at the gay and fetish media. That level of money is going to get various ad people looking to please you.

Sadly for me, clients who visit transsexual escorts,
identify as straight and would not look at any gay male sites or publications.
I've only ever had one 'out' gay man {doing it out of curiosity},
a dozen bi-identifying men
and huge numbers of straight men.
I don't think advertising on gay sites or publications would bring me any return.
Have you any contact with other transsexual escorts whose experience suggests my assessment is wrong.
If so I would really be grateful to you for your recollection.

I may approach Loot re occasional ads
But the truth is that even if the ads were free I'd now be reserved in advertising there.
Loot really attracts the society dead wood:
Think huge volumes of time-wasters/no shows,
people wanting ?40 shags,
drugged up/wanting me to supply said drugs!!!  :o :o :o
drunks,
bareback riders
and the types who are frankly deranged and scare the hell out of me.
Fetish is an area I've not looked at advertising in
despite offering mild BDSM / fetish.
Yes I'll look at that, thanks.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #337 on: 23 February 2011, 11:29:44 am »
I had 3 bookings last week, only timewasters this week, I'm getting desperate... :-\ I hope things will pick up soon ::) Why is February so dead? I just don't understand...
Still a pretty dead phone.
very very quiet.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #338 on: 23 February 2011, 11:35:02 am »
Sadly for me, clients who visit transsexual escorts,
identify as straight and would not look at any gay male sites or publications.
I've only ever had one 'out' gay man {doing it out of curiosity},
a dozen bi-identifying men
and huge numbers of straight men.
I don't think advertising on gay sites or publications would bring me any return.

I'm probably speaking a bit out of turn here, since I have obviously no personal experience with gay or trans sex work, but I have definitely heard gay male escorts speak of being contacted by plenty of clients who identify as straight/bi-curious. And I'm assuming those gay male escorts would advertise almost exclusively on the gay ad sites and any relevant publications - which I think does make a lot of sense, factoring in the pressures that still weigh on men to appear stereotypically masculine and heteronormative, which would likely just add to the 'subversive' appeal of looking at all the gay ads for all the men who identify publicly as straight but who perhaps feel differently inside.

This may still have nothing to do with clients who might look exclusively for transgender sex workers. But I think at least a free or cheap ad on a popular gay site could be worth an investigation, especially if it's one you haven't tried before that hopefully is friendly to trans sex workers (and sex work in general, of course, so no US-based hookup sites probably!). It's not as though many (any?!) of our clients are socialising in groups when they're browsing for porn and/or paid sex - and when people are alone, they're free to investigate whatever they like, wherever they like without worrying about their public sexuality, so hopefully that wouldn't be an issue stopping straight(ish) guys from checking out a gay site if they're feeling in the mood for something different? :)
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #339 on: 23 February 2011, 11:45:05 am »
I appreciate that Emily, thank you.
That's a good point.
I wasn't aware that gay male escorts get lots of straight-identifying men.
If it's free or cheep ads then it's certainly worth me doing a few ad punts to test the waters, so to speak.
I'll look into that.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #340 on: 23 February 2011, 11:54:43 am »
Jodie
Have you ever considered being a transgender mistress/ dominatrix?
There are not many out there. You seem to have the right attitude for it (going by your online posts) and would pay more money than escorting.
Think about it ;)
I know a few publications you could advertise in.
If interested pm me.

Back to topic. It's been more dead than the local mortuary with escorting for me.
Not a booking in 2 weeks LOL. Am enjoying the free time.
Hair, nails, feet, pamper products. Although it ain't good on the wallet. But what can one do? Ride out the calm before the storm for now.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #341 on: 23 February 2011, 12:57:58 pm »
I wasn't aware that gay male escorts get lots of straight-identifying men.

If it were not for straight-identifying men, lots of gay escorts would starve.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #342 on: 23 February 2011, 03:45:14 pm »
It's definetely dead! I've had one call today, all day, even though I'm still near the top on most recent frs ( last I looked it was 3000 hits on my site since saturday) and have put on available today on AW. Had 3 bookings Monday and 2 yesterday thankfully, although 2 of those had been booked in for a while.

It'll pick back up, always does, expect a crazy week very soon :)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #343 on: 23 February 2011, 05:12:51 pm »
Is London really so dead? Supposed to be touring there next week but reading this thread I might cancel :-\. Had no similar problems in the North, this year's been great.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #344 on: 23 February 2011, 05:46:02 pm »
I wasn't aware that gay male escorts get lots of straight-identifying men.
If it were not for straight-identifying men, lots of gay escorts would starve.

Well thinking about it you are right about sexuality and self identification
and outward identity-expression sometimes being at variance to same.
And to quote Alice Pieszecki:
    Dana: [after seeing an exchange between Jenny and Marina] I thought Jenny was straight.
    Alice: Dana, most girls are straight until they're not. And then... sometimes they're gay 'til they're not.

I'm looking at a whole new demographic! yea!   ;D
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