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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1530 on: 20 February 2013, 05:24:20 pm »
Many of the well established escorts on this forum are not verified and do just as well, if not better than many that are verified.  I do not agree that it helps business if you are verified.  I, too was successful at getting bookings when I wasnt verified and with zero feedback.

Thats only ONE guy in your experience, its not a lot really, is it ?

One client told me once he wouldn't go near the 0 feedbacks.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1531 on: 20 February 2013, 05:39:06 pm »
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First of all being verified helps business like gives more hope to clients

With all due respect, this ^^^ is a total load of cobblers. I can show you examples of different girls using the same verification picture and managing to get different profiles verified. AW doesn't care whether the picture matches those on the profile (how could they when they accept blurred photos?). All verification does is guarantee - to a certain extent (assuming fake ID hasn't been used) - that the person in it is at least 18 years of age. Even AW go to great pains to point this out to prospective clients. So why anybody would place any extra credence on a verified profile, and think it gives them more 'hope', is frankly beyond me.

There are other ways of proving you're genuine - having FR, feedback etc - without having to hand over all your personal details to some unknown entity based in  Belize.

The only good thing I can think of about being verified, is that it can help you if your profile is reported maliciously to AW - e.g. somebody claiming that you're underage / using stolen photos etc. Being verified in these circumstances helps speed up the dispute resolution process with AW.

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If you are worried about what they are doing with id.

See this thread (the last couple of pages especially):-

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=13287.0

AW are very lax about security. I was reading on another forum about another service provider who had details of her passport plastered onto another lady's profile. Identity theft is still a very real problem and one that we should all try not to make ourselves easy victims to.
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One client told me once he wouldn't go near the 0 feedbacks

Fair enough but feedback has nothing to do with being verified. I've seen plenty of verified profiles which even after months/years, don't have a single feedback.

I would hate for girls to read these sorts of comments and feel pressurised into verifying and be left feeling that their business will be affected if they don't go down this route. Sometimes I think we forget that AW is not the only directory out there, there are plenty others to choose from.  :)
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1532 on: 20 February 2013, 05:43:45 pm »
I would hate for girls to read these sorts of comments and feel pressurised into verifying and be left feeling that their business will be affected if they don?t go down this route. Sometimes I think we forget that AW is not the only directory out there, there are plenty others to choose from.  :)

So would I, but there are lengthy threads about this already and whilst I'll leave this here where people can see it for now, this one needs to get back on topic or I'll have to split it and stick these posts in there. The appropriate thread for this discussion is the one Alisha has linked to above :).

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1533 on: 22 February 2013, 03:04:00 pm »
Just feeling very down!! hating half term and being stuck at home with an 11 year old who only wants to play Ps3  !!!! Can wait to get back on tour!! feel very isolated as most of my working girlies are far far away and all my "real " friends are at their day jobs!!! Is any one else feeling like this ??

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1534 on: 22 February 2013, 03:17:18 pm »
I know how you feel the last two weeks have been dead and all this waiting for the phone to ring is getting me down :(

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1535 on: 22 February 2013, 03:19:28 pm »
i totally agree :FF...!!! bored out of my head.. and my son is happy to sit indoors with call of duty!!!!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1536 on: 22 February 2013, 03:38:38 pm »
I know how you feel the last two weeks have been dead and all this waiting for the phone to ring is getting me down :(

I just got back from a two week holiday starting yesterday was very surprised as to the quietness bar one regular. This is why half of feb was taken off, it looks like didn't miss much. I put up a new photo yesterday fingers crossed.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1537 on: 22 February 2013, 03:50:07 pm »
I know !! wish i had...lol... am looking to go away for easter for a week to hotter climates!!! it has been so quiet for the last 3 weeks... thank god for the kids going back next monday!!! cant wait x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1538 on: 22 February 2013, 03:58:22 pm »
I thought all the half terms were over  :FF :FF  Where I was living on the borders of Gloucs/Warwickshire they were earlier, the past 2 weeks ending the end of last week. 

Now I find out belatedly that Berkshire where I'm touring is this week.  No wonder its been so flipping dead!!!!
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1539 on: 22 February 2013, 04:04:16 pm »
I thought all the half terms were over  :FF :FF  Where I was living on the borders of Gloucs/Warwickshire they were earlier, the past 2 weeks ending the end of last week. 

Now I find out belatedly that Berkshire where I'm touring is this week.  No wonder its been so flipping dead!!!!

I don't see much money in touring any more like used to.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1540 on: 22 February 2013, 04:20:10 pm »
thanks ladies for cheering me up!!  ;D at least am smiling...in london its half term!!! till monday!! touring for me works not every week!!! just like to get away to be honest....lol..xxxx

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1541 on: 22 February 2013, 04:41:50 pm »
I know how you feel the last two weeks have been dead and all this waiting for the phone to ring is getting me down :(

I just got back from a two week holiday starting yesterday was very surprised as to the quietness bar one regular. This is why half of feb was taken off, it looks like didn't miss much. I put up a new photo yesterday fingers crossed.

yeah I wish I had taken it off too but can't afford it right now:(
fingers crossed for you x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1542 on: 22 February 2013, 06:47:28 pm »
I know how you feel the last two weeks have been dead and all this waiting for the phone to ring is getting me down :(

I just got back from a two week holiday starting yesterday was very surprised as to the quietness bar one regular. This is why half of feb was taken off, it looks like didn't miss much. I put up a new photo yesterday fingers crossed.

yeah I wish I had taken it off too but can't afford it right now:(
fingers crossed for you x

March things should pick up after the quieter period.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1543 on: 22 February 2013, 07:52:06 pm »
Just feeling very down!! hating half term and being stuck at home with an 11 year old who only wants to play Ps3  !!!! Can wait to get back on tour!! feel very isolated as most of my working girlies are far far away and all my "real " friends are at their day jobs!!! Is any one else feeling like this ??

Take your son out to a few places, spend some 'quality' time with him, take photos and make memories. He will thank you for it in the future (if not now, for dragging him away from the Ps3!) and you'll have spent precious time together - I say 'precious' as they grow up so quickly, and in a heartbeat he'll have left home and you'll be left wondering where the years went! :o


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1544 on: 22 February 2013, 09:02:13 pm »
Yep feel crap and like im banging my head against a brick wall.. this half term is the worst.. its nearly ver and Nearly March!! Bring it on!!
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