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Guiltypleasure

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #45 on: 15 October 2016, 10:38:53 am »
Update after ultrasound and being told nothing wrong with am apart from trapped wind and bleeding.
Massive cysts on both ovaries, huge fibroids , 2 v large with multiple others .

norethisterone to stop bleeding started yesterday.

Now on rapid pathway to get biospsy and hysteroscopy and whatever else so seeing consultant ( has to be within two weeks) hopefully this week.

Bleeding has nearly stopped, well it's gone brown sorry to be graphic. ( can cope deal with pain sort of) so I'm going to hopefully get back to work tomorrow to earn some dough in case I have a hysterectomy .

So it's going to be a case of ' fuck the neighbours' literally if they've got cash lol ! And work as if I'm on tour ( I do anyway when I've been there a while not usually when I first get back).

Just like LOTN ( wardrobe rejig) need to take some warm clothes so I can go to the bank etc .

Feeling happier at the moment xxx


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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #46 on: 15 October 2016, 12:41:51 pm »
Update after ultrasound and being told nothing wrong with am apart from trapped wind and bleeding.
Massive cysts on both ovaries, huge fibroids , 2 v large with multiple others .

norethisterone to stop bleeding started yesterday.

Now on rapid pathway to get biospsy and hysteroscopy and whatever else so seeing consultant ( has to be within two weeks) hopefully this week.

Bleeding has nearly stopped, well it's gone brown sorry to be graphic. ( can cope deal with pain sort of) so I'm going to hopefully get back to work tomorrow to earn some dough in case I have a hysterectomy .

So it's going to be a case of ' fuck the neighbours' literally if they've got cash lol ! And work as if I'm on tour ( I do anyway when I've been there a while not usually when I first get back).

Just like LOTN ( wardrobe rejig) need to take some warm clothes so I can go to the bank etc .

Feeling happier at the moment xxx


Glad its all calmed down for you for now GP, the medical profession seem to like to blame any stomach problems on trapped wind when its clearly not just that!!!


What I used to say to clients when I had to cancel them was offer an extra half hour on the next booking time as a little gesture to compensate for the inconvenience....out of all of them only 2 ever took me up on it but the offer was there and I didn't lose any good regular clients. :-)
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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #47 on: 15 October 2016, 12:49:57 pm »
Thanks Kat , I've tried to avoid mentioning the bleeding , said a kidney stone which is also true , but I may , probably will need to use a sponge when back so didn't want to draw attention to any possible ' accidents' .
Irritable bowel my arse lol !!!!!

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #48 on: 15 October 2016, 01:06:00 pm »
Thanks Kat , I've tried to avoid mentioning the bleeding , said a kidney stone which is also true , but I may , probably will need to use a sponge when back so didn't want to draw attention to any possible ' accidents' .
Irritable bowel my arse lol !!!!!


Oh yeah forgot to say I never mentioned any bleeding or specific health problems to clients when having to cancel (most of them wouldn't understand women problems) 


IBS is an excuse used far too often by doctors!!

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #49 on: 15 October 2016, 02:17:52 pm »

Oh yeah forgot to say I never mentioned any bleeding or specific health problems to clients when having to cancel (most of them wouldn't understand women problems) 


IBS is an excuse used far too often by doctors!!
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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #50 on: 17 October 2016, 12:09:26 am »
Huge thanks to everyone for keeping me sane, really you have no idea ( well actually you do which is so kind and thoughtful)
Bleedings stopped painkillers dulling it down.
Back at work.
Answered mails , booked tomorrow and most of the week after answering my mail ( got bookings while answering ).
Chuffed to bits and 'in the zone'
OMG thank you I thought I was losing the plot completely . Got a head to toe massage early tomorrow, So that's my first hour organised ! Two v nice bookings ( soft/ chatty) after that and one evening I think .
All know I'm just back and gently does it ( lord I hope)


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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #51 on: 17 October 2016, 10:03:22 am »
Huge thanks to everyone for keeping me sane, really you have no idea ( well actually you do which is so kind and thoughtful)
Bleedings stopped painkillers dulling it down.
Back at work.
Answered mails , booked tomorrow and most of the week after answering my mail ( got bookings while answering ).
Chuffed to bits and 'in the zone'
OMG thank you I thought I was losing the plot completely . Got a head to toe massage early tomorrow, So that's my first hour organised ! Two v nice bookings ( soft/ chatty) after that and one evening I think .
All know I'm just back and gently does it ( lord I hope)


Brilliant news! Wishing you all the best :-)

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #52 on: 17 October 2016, 09:02:13 pm »
Huge thanks to everyone for keeping me sane, really you have no idea ( well actually you do which is so kind and thoughtful)
Bleedings stopped painkillers dulling it down.
Back at work.
Answered mails , booked tomorrow and most of the week after answering my mail ( got bookings while answering ).
Chuffed to bits and 'in the zone'

I really need to speak to a doctor/at clinic about mine. I never know when to expect one so hellish trying to plan bookings sometimes. I'm starting to actually call it 'the curse' there's days its so heavy and painful not to mention utterly draining...

Right now in fact and sod's law I have an advance booking tomorrow morning.  :FF

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #53 on: 17 October 2016, 09:56:14 pm »
I really need to speak to a doctor/at clinic about mine. I never know when to expect one so hellish trying to plan bookings sometimes. I'm starting to actually call it 'the curse' there's days its so heavy and painful not to mention utterly draining...

Right now in fact and sod's law I have an advance booking tomorrow morning.  :FF

LOTN I'm on norethisterone ( could of given that to myself weeks ago as bought some from superdrug online) and although it's a nightmare it's stopped the bleeding within 24 hrs , and it was profuse !

I'm in bed exhausted now 4 bookings today and one a 3 hour , but I'm worried about my op so working arse off , booked every day this week and tonight's guy booked for an all nighter Thursday , I've been farting in his face ( squatting on it)for the last three hours !

On the plus side norethisterone makes you / or me windy so hey ho lol , hope it's better LOTN I'm having trouble pre planning too , total nightmare.



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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #54 on: 18 October 2016, 12:36:35 pm »
LOTN I'm on norethisterone ( could of given that to myself weeks ago as bought some from superdrug online) and although it's a nightmare it's stopped the bleeding within 24 hrs , and it was profuse !

I'm in bed exhausted now 4 bookings today and one a 3 hour , but I'm worried about my op so working arse off , booked every day this week and tonight's guy booked for an all nighter Thursday , I've been farting in his face ( squatting on it)for the last three hours !

On the plus side norethisterone makes you / or me windy so hey ho lol , hope it's better LOTN I'm having trouble pre planning too , total nightmare.

I got mixed up the booking is this afternoon. I managed a half hr booking with a reg just now but I worried constantly throughout. I know by tomorrow it won't be so bad, and certainly nothing like as bad as you are experiencing.

I'm on tour soon so it'll have to wait till early November. I have a new doctors' surgery and seeing someone Thursday but have a big long list to talk about already!

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #55 on: 18 October 2016, 08:58:15 pm »
You can buy that norethisterone online legitametly through superdrug oh maybe not with your leg  because of risk of clots and although it's nasty when you come of it's stopped my bleeding in it's tracks in it's tracks ( 5 bookings today am exhausted in bed ). Ask though because it might help on your tour x

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #56 on: 19 October 2016, 07:33:19 pm »
Glad to hear your getting it sorted  :)

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #57 on: 19 October 2016, 07:52:59 pm »
Glad to hear your getting it sorted  :)
Thanks LB everyone's been so kind even with their own issues going on x

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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #58 on: 21 October 2016, 08:33:01 am »
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Re: Sex work and the menopause
« Reply #59 on: 30 November 2016, 02:39:38 pm »
Sorry not been online or answered messages , they came on my phone and I read but when I logged in I thought they'd still be there , but they weren't .
Apologies but by the time I got to hospital again , bleeding had started up again and pain incredible but basically my cysts and one ovary exploded and had to stay in hosp until my body had absorbed all the junk .
Have been v sick but back at work and doing well but taking painkillers like mad , also on emlya  to shrink fibroids and whilst waiting for biopsy .
Anyway I'm able to work and I've not been graphic at all but my bookings have been absolute diamonds , so thoughtful and kind .
I'm hoping nothing happens before Christmas and I can earn enough for my time off ( have to have hysterectomy whatever the outcome due to mini explosion and bleeding).
V glad to be back at work phew ...have been panic stricken to say the least ! Lol  :)